September 30 2013

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Technique For Graceful Ageing.

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In today’s morning Satsang, Paramahamsa Nithyananda shares with us that the secret for aging gracefully is to complete with our pain body. If we attend pain in one part of the body, the pain moves to another part of the body. The secret is that pain feeds off of unconsciousness and causes aging. The remedy is to bring completion to the pain, treating it with awareness, and healing it with consciousness. Don’t allow pain to drain your brain! Complete with pain and age gracefully!

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Nithyanandeshwara Samaarambhaam Nithyanandeshwari Madhyamaam |
Asmath Aachaarya Paryanthaam Vandhey Guru Paramparaam ||

I welcome all the devotees, disciples, samajis, satsangis sitting with us all over the world through Nithyananda TV, Lotus TV, Sadhana TV, and two-way video-conferencing.

Cities sitting with us in two-way video-conferencing having Nayana Deeksha all over the world: Los Angeles, Kuala Lumpur-Palani, Enriching Temple-Bidadi, Oklahoma-Somanatham, Guadeloupe-Rameshwaram, Houston-Kalahasti, Washington DC-Sripuram, Toronto-Kailasam, Ohio-Prayag, Charlotte-Srisailam, Paris-Kalighat, Seattle-Chidambaram, Singapore-Singapuram, Vancouver-Bhubaneshwar, San José-Madurai, Dallas-Dwaraka, Devon-UK, New York-Varanasi, Kathmandu-Nepal, Slovakia-Shivaloka,Tiruvanmiyur-Chennai, Austin, Hong Kong-Sirkazhi, Hyderabad-Gupta Kashi, Port Washington-New York,Mill Valley-Vairavan Koil, San Diego-Tirualavai, Dubai-Vaidyanatham, East London-UK, Netherlands,Philadelphia, Oman-Sivagangai………..

I welcome all of you with my love and blessings.

Today is:

• 960th Nithya Satsang, excluding all the satsangs I delivered before 2010, and evening satsangs. Still they have not come up with the right number.

• 20th batch Inner Awakening, 4th day.

• 17th batch eN-Genius, 4th day.

• 19th batch Nirahara Samyama, Level-2, 1st day.

• 9thbatch The Samyama, 4th day.

I’ll move to the morning Satsang, Nithya Satsang:

Today, I will expand on “PAIN BODY”, why we human-beings keep the pain body alive and continue to suffer with it.

In the Inner Awakening, today’s session is about pain body. Today, whole day, we will be working on completing with all the pain samskaras, pain patterns. See, pain pattern is the expression of root-pattern. Root-pattern is the root, but pain pattern is the tree. Today, we will be working on the tree. Yesterday, we worked on the root; means, we poured acid in the root of suffering. Today, we will burn the whole tree of suffering. It’s a whole day process, a very powerful process, but most extraordinary process.

I have seen, these two-three processes in the Inner Awakening – completing with your bio-memory,completing with your fear and death fear, completing with your pain pattern – these sessions literally awaken your whole Kundalini energy and consciousness! Today, we are going to enter into that important session.

All the Inner Awakening participants, please listen! Listen!

First thing, pain needs unconsciousness to exist. Listen! Pain needs unconsciousness for its existence. If you are conscious, pain cannot live inside you. If you are conscious, you HAVE to be happy! Nothing can be done about it! If you are unconscious, you HAVE to be in pain! Nothing can be done about it!

Pain cannot be driven out of your system by attending to one part of you. If you have knee pain you attend to that, it will become stomach pain. If you have stomach pain, you give medicine and do what you want, it will become neck pain. If you drive that also out, it will become back pain. If you drive that also out, it will become a headache. If you drive that also out, it‘ll become your wife!

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA! But, whatever, it will be there in your life! Of course, when I said “wife”, I meant “spouse”. It’s not only for women, it’s for men also. But, please understand, pain cannot be attended to partially. That is the law of life. Pain cannot be attended to partially.

Please understand, any attempt to attend to the pain partially leads to more and more powerlessness. For example, I have seen people, first they try to give medicine to the stomach pain; then when it becomes a back pain, they try to give medicine for that; then it moves to neck pain, then they give medicine for that; after two-three years, they start living with the pain! They start living with the pain!

It is now almost like they are experienced; pain becomes their life and experience.

Somebody was asking, ‘Why in Hinduism we pierce the ears of men before marriage?’

Actually, in Hinduism, traditionally, before marriage all men should have their ears pierced and wear yajnopavitha. Whatever community you may be, you should be given the yajnopavitha, piercing of the ears and shaving the head.

Somebody asked me, ‘Why men have their ears pierced?’

Preparing them for marriage! I said, ‘it is two things: They have experienced pain and bought jewelry.

So, now they are ready for marriage!’

If you have missed, you missed! HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA….!

Unfortunately, we get settled with pain. Please listen! If you settle with pain, you age in such a bad way, pulling, pushing, and dragging. I tell you, complete with pain; you will age very gracefully. Aging gracefully should be taught as a mandatory lesson for anybody who has crossed forty. Actually, we should have clear Universities! This should become a compulsory education! By the age of seven, one year-the child should learn about life and living with Completion. By the age of fourteen, one year-the child should learn completely about the next level root-patterns. Please understand, the preliminary root-pattern will always be based on fear and anxiety. The hanging root patterns….I am giving you the example of banyan tree. If your life is like a banyan tree, the root of the banyan tree will always be fear and anxiety. The hanging root of the banyan tree will be the lust. When it starts hanging itself if you attend and complete it, it will not get grounded and become one more root pattern! So, at the age of fourteen, a child should be taught about his hanging root-pattern. See, with the hanging roots, if you attend to them immediately, they will not get rooted in the ground; they will not become one more root-pattern. But if you don’t attend to them properly, if you don’t complete them, they will reach the ground and they will become rooted and they will become one more root. Lust by its nature cannot be the original root-pattern. The original root-pattern will always be fear and anxiety based. And, pain is the leaves. Pain can never be a root-pattern; that is the good news. Bad news is, it flourishes from the fear. Understand, I am explaining the whole science of how you develop your mind without even you being aware of it.

At the age of seven, a child should be taught the Science of Completion. At the age of fourteen, the child should be taught the Science of Completion with the hanging root-patterns, means, the patterns which will be getting developed in the child; the lust pattern. At the age of twenty-one, the child should be taught to live with enlightenment, means, various relationships, various dimensions of life.

I am again defining, please understand: Having Completion in all your dimensions is enlightenment. If you are complete in your health, you are enlightened. If you are complete in your relationships; if you are complete in your Integrity; if you are complete with your health; if you are complete with your wealth; if you are complete in all dimensions of your life, you are enlightened!

At the age of twenty-one, the child should be taught to live with enlightenment. At the age of twenty-eight, the child should be taught the Science of Enriching. Please listen. At the age of thirty-five, the child should know life has no other purpose than enriching. And, at the age of forty-two, the child should be taught to complete with the pains, pain patterns, so that he ages gracefully.

And I commit with Veda Matha again, I will make a University where all these programs will be available like a three-months, six-months, two-years, one-year, one-month, like these courses, where people can come and get prepared experientially, learn this science to live their life. We Indians are so foolish, just for this nonsense cricket we have votes and crores of property is getting wasted. But, we don’t have a University for Yoga. It is very recently in Gujarat the first Yoga University has started. There is a small one in Bangalore, but very small; the infrastructure is too small. It is time we create a University for Inner Sciences!

Completing with the pain helps you to age gracefully. Aging gracefully, I tell you….. I always tell all my disciples, ‘When you are young, go wherever you want. Go to any country you want. Go to any State you want. Go anywhere, make money. Hold big, big posts. Go and become judge in the US Supreme Court. Go and become head of the Chamber of Commerce in Malaysia. Go and become the top guy in Wall Street in New York. Go and do whatever you want when you are young. But, when you want to retire, come back to your old Indian village. That is the best place to age gracefully. That is the best place to age gracefully. I tell you, come back to your old ancestral village, relax with life.

This aging gracefully is one of the important things, very important things in a human’s life. Don’t live in a place where you worked when you are retiring, after you retire. I tell you, psychologically you cannot handle that place, because now you are not directly useful in their field. The attention given to you, the respect given to you, the pride given to you, all will reduce, which your heart cannot handle. For aging gracefully, come back to your rural Indian ancestral village. And I always tell people, to age gracefully,Indian villages are the best places! Indian villages are the best places to age gracefully!

Completing with your pain helps you to age gracefully!

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I have a story about aging gracefully. Please listen.

The pain, when you don’t complete with the pain body, you do not feel you lived. So, naturally, aging gracefully does not happen.

One lady, who is not willing to age gracefully, is pushed and she is almost seventy, but spends all the husband’s income on lipstick, make-up, the miracle products, age miracle products from head to toe, as many spare parts as possible, as many polishing coats as possible.

One day, after emptying the husband’s whole salary, means retirement income, with the full make up, she comes and stands in front of the husband and asks, ‘Honey, with all this make-up, tell me, how I look?’

He said, ‘Amazing!’ He can’t tell anything else. He says, ‘If I just see your hair, you are only twenty. If I just see your cheek, it is only twenty five. If I just see your skin, you are less than eighteen. If I see your eyes and the lips, less than twenty.

She was floored and blushing. She said, ‘Stop honey, you are too much.’

He said, ‘Wait, wait wait dear, I have not counted everything together. I have not added all!’

So, you have to wait till he adds everything.

Aging gracefully happens when you complete with pain. Please understand, Completion with the pain body is one of the basic requirement for any adult, which we will be doing today. When there is incompletion in your pain body, continuously you will be so agitated, the whole day you will be running here, there, here, there, here, there. Literally like a headless chicken. I have seen people, they can’t live in peace without problem. No, really, they cannot live in peace without problem, problems are basic requirement for them. Problems should be a basic requirement for them. They can not live without problems.

I tell you, you don’t need problem as your basic survival need. Complete with your pain body. Completing with your pain body will bring so much of fulfillment inside you, such joy inside you. When you don’t complete with your pain body and leave it, aging will become more and more difficult and complicated. As I said, aging in the downtown New York will be very difficult. Aging in the downtown Mumbai will be very difficult. Aging in the downtown Bangalore or Delhi is very difficult. Any , any country, in the downtown, aging will never be graceful.

I have seen some of my own disciples telling, ‘Swamiji, you are talking about make up.’ Sixty, Seventy-year-old ladies, they say, ‘Swamiji what to do? In this country we have to compete with youngsters.’

I tell you, need to compete with youngsters is the most disgrace thing that can happen to elders.

In India, I can guarantee this one we have not given up the elders always respected. That is why I tell you, to age gracefully come back to Indian village. I have already decided I am going to age only in Tiruvannamalai. I already bought the land and kept it ready. I bought the land far away from the city, because by the time the city would grow. I don’t want to be in the center of the city. I want to be in the village, so far away. Where my Akshardham will be, I have not decided. Where this body will reside forever I have not decided but where I will age, I have already decided.

Understand, completing with the pain bodies is almost like completing with all the wounds you created while you started living with incompletions. Because of the root, leaves grow, because of the root-patterns, pain grows. You have to complete the root and complete the leaves. Your words are the seeds which puts more and more incompletion in others. So, you have to complete even with that.

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Listen, allowing the pain body inside you is like allowing the ghost to live inside you. You will not know why you are doing what you are doing. Otherwise, why will you steal in your own house and destroy your future? I have seen people just plan for foolish few hundred rupees, sometimes crores, and destroy their great future, possibility. Understand, pain body takes away your intelligence. Pain drains your brain. Pain drains your brain but for some people, that problem is not there because first of all, you need to have brain to get drained.

All the Inner Awakening participants get ready for a powerful session today.

I request all the devotees and visitors and viewers, everyone, to follow today’s Somavara Vrata; means, fasting, Monday fasting which we do for Mahadeva, and do ajapa japa of Nithyanandeshwara’s mantra – Om Hreem Nithyanandeshwaraya Namaha. This Monday fasting you can do even if you are less than eighteen, because it is only one day – till sunrise to sunset. It is sunrise to sunset. Anyone can do this fasting. Till sunrise to sunset you will not have any solid food. I request sincerely everyone to do this Monday fasting. It’s like giving holiday to your stomach so you are fresh, alive. Monday, naturally, you have to do a lot of work. You are fresh, alive, to start your week. You can’t be weak to start your week.

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So, today, in the Inner Awakening, we will complete with our pain body, all the pain experiences.

The essence of today’s satsangh:

Your pain drains your brain and trains to be in more pain. Your pain drains your brain and trains your heart to be in more pain. Your brain, please listen, your pain drains your brain, and trains your heart to be in more pain.

Let you all achieve, experience, live, express, radiate, share and explode in eternal bliss, Nithyananda.

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