January 27 2013
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Is Your Life Egoing Or Easygoing
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Understanding Jealousy
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In today’s morning satsang, Paramahamsa Nithyananda (Swamiji) continues His examination of Katopanishad. Any knowledge you imbibe, you become that. When mind becomes subtle and subtle, knowledge itself becomes experience. When your body becomes subtle and subtle, sensitive and evolved, you become dual, meaning that the masculine strength and the feminine grace just merges into one. The integrity and the authenticity of the masculine being, responsibility and enriching of the feminine grace becomes one in the body. Inauthentic ones imagine themselves as authentic just because they have knowledge which has not yet become experience and go around and round in crooked way, like the blind led by the blind. Even one wrong idea inside your system by the wrong book or a wrong logic sometimes takes years to clean and get out of it.
Transcript
“Sadashiva samarambam, Shankaraacharya madhyamam asmadacharya paryantam vande Guru paramparam!”
I welcome you all with my love and blessings! I welcome all the devotees, disciples, Samajis, Satsangis sitting with around the world at this moment in 352 places through Nithyananda TV & Youtube live, 43 places in 2 way video conferencing having Nayana Deeksha, in 192 cities, in 29 countries around the world! I welcome you all with my love and blessings!
Today Niraahaara samyama 3rd level 11th day. Tomorrow you will be breaking the fast – the samyama will be ending. Cities sitting with us – San jose madurai, oklahama somanatham, vancouver puri, Washington DC Sripuram – washington DC, did you read the article that last year after our Baalananda’s meditation process the crime rate in USA has drastically dropped. Last year to reduce the crime rate all our devotees gathered in wash dc and did a special meditation process for 21 days. All of you may be aware. After that the crime rate has drastically reduced. They are saying the scale has reduced, significantly reduced. The highest rating has been given on that scale. I will read out the whole report in tomorrow’s morning satsang. So our effort to reduce the crime through meditation is a big success in America especially in Washington DC.
Today we have one important centre added – our Kumba mela branch is on 2 way today. Maha Kumbapuri from Allahabad. I can see atma maneesha, Tuiry, Puja and other naga sadhus. I welcome all of you – Maha Kumbapuri branch from Allahabad is joining today..our Utsava murthy Nithyanandeshwara is gracing there sitting with Nithyanandeshwari. You can see pratyaksha murthi also sitting the Dhyanapeeta Maha samsthana Simhasanam. Every day thousands of people are having food there….just show the whole place….now you guys can have Darshan! Can they show the Anna Nakshatra…thanks to pujananda, turiyananda and atma maneeshananda. Just these 3, 4 voluntteers have set up the whole branch and I got report thousands are gathering and having food. Of course today is not the snaan day so less number of people. On snaan days thousands are being served…It is the world’s largest city. The wall street journal gives the report it is Shangai, New York, London, Paris – put together. The Mega pop up city happens just in 3 weeks and dismantled in 10 days. Because the Kumba mela gets over by March 10th and by March 15th flood comes. So whole thing has to be dismantled. Please understand the whole city is built in 3 weeks and gets dismantled in 10 days. Now you can see the board of the entrance Nithyananda Dhyanapeeta clearly! I welcome the devotees from all over the world as the Maha Mandeleshwar of the Maha Nirvaani Akhaada. Please come and enjoy the world’s largest gathering of humanity…the authorities are expecting 250 - 1/5th of Indian population. In this month, 25, 000 tonne food grains are used every day. and you should know first day 10 million took snaan and all the 10 million were given free food. That is the spontaneous evolution of the religious sentiment. This county runs by the religious sentiment. Thank you for just three of our sanyaasis. Only 3 and handful of volunteers are sitting there and feeding thousands of sadhus everyday. Yes now you can see the whole camp from a long shot. Hope you are able to see the hoardings. Just near the bridge. Thanks to U.P. Government for giving a very prominent place on the main road on the Kumbapuri itself. Thanks to Maha Nirvaani Akhada for helping and supporting us and standing by us. Great! My special blessings to Pujannada – single handedly managing and Turiyananda, Atma Maneeshananda – few volunteers in that cold staying there and doing the Kalpavaas puja. I am so happy. I always wanted to do Kalpavaas – means staying there for 55 days. I am so happy at least few of my sanyaasis are doing kalpavaasa. My blessings to you guys and continue to feed the sadhus. Great! Beautiful. I told to put the Meenakshi gopuram what happened? <It is getting ready in two days> I told them to put Meenakshi Gopuram in Kumba Mela. Beautiful.
Blessings to all the volunteers devotees and especially our sadhus for doing such wonderful work, amazing work! Do you know we can accommodate 250 people that big place they have constructed. And hygienically we can feed 10,000 people a day. the whole thing just a few of our sanyaasis have established and I am so happy they are able to come on 2 way today. From Feb 8th to 16th – 10 days I will be available. So we will have morning satsang live from there. Great!
Yesterday KB chose the property in which the Houston temple will be established. Kaala Bhairava chose the property. Kaala Bhairava read out clearly in his Aakashik Readings. He has also assured no more air related problems to Houston. No more hurricanes to Houston. Houston is protected. You need to know just now we found out – The original deity size is 12 feet tall. And we are making 12 feet tall and we are coming there. So you guys is going to have the Texas size Shiva Linga. See Texas is the largest city, so everything will be big whether coco cola can or pizza everything will be tall. So you guys will be hosting the largest Shivalinga of US. So Kalahasteeshwara is coming. He is getting ready. He is coming. Hope you will receive before April 14th. Even before April 14th, he may reach Hosuton kalahasti because our guys are working. I am also trying to make the jewels. Just like Kalahasti..this is the way your deity is going to be. 12 feet tall. Seattle Nataraja is 13 feet, he will be little small when Prabhavali comes he will be taller.
Today 2nd batch Brahmanyam bahu putrataam happening successfully! What a program! This should be the branding word for this program – what a program! It is so nice. Let us enter into today’s satsang – authenticity with Katha Upanishad. Yesterday we were working on Katha Upanishad 2nd chapter 3rd and 4th verse –
सत्वंप्रियान्प्रियरूपान्चकामान् | अभिध्यायन्नचिकेतःअत्यस्राक्षीः।
नएतांसृङ्कांवित्तमयींअवाप्तः | यस्यांमज्जन्तिबहवोमनुष्याः॥
दूरंएतेविपरीतेविषूची || 2.4
अविद्यायांअन्तरेवर्तमानाः | स्वयंधीराःमण्डितंमन्यमानाः।
दंद्रम्यमाणाःपरियन्तिमूढाः | अन्धेनएवनीयमानाःयथाअन्धाः॥ 2.5
“Wide apart are these two - authenticity and inauthenticity leading in opposite directions. I believe Nachiketas to be one who longs for authenticity, since many tempting objects have not turned thee aside.
The knowledge of atma vidya. Please understand Brahma vit brahmaiva bhavathi. Any knowledge when you imbibe you become that! Listen. Any knowledge when you imbibe that you become that. When mind becomes subtle and subtle knowledge itself becomes experience. When your body becomes subtle and subtle, sensitive, evolved you become dual. In all evolved beings dual is the core – whether it is Buddha, Shiva, Krishna when body evolves, you become dual. When mind evolves, becomes subtle, any knowledge becomes experience. Knowledge is masculine, experience is feminine. When your body evolves both becomes one and you become dual. When your mind evolves, both become one and knowledge itself becomes experience. Whether it is Mahadeva, Buddha, Mahavira, the more you evolve, the more the body evolves you become dual. This is a very subtle truth.
Dual becomes non-dual means the masculine strength and the feminine grace just merges into one. The integrity and the authenticity of the masculine being, responsibility and enriching of the feminine grace becomes one in the body the real yogic body will be dual – Meenakshi’s body was dual, Sundareshwara’s body was dual, Arunachala’s body was dual, Buddha’s body was dual , Krishna’s body was dual. When body evolves, it becomes dual. Manu very clearly says by 45 your body should become dual. If you have lived with your body, by 45 it should become dual! The delayed physical maturity and earlier it becoming dual is the scale based on which the longevity is decided and whether it is yogic body or not is decided. Knowledge itself becoming experience is see knowledge itself becomes experience when your body also becomes dual. It is a very subtle phenomenon. Listen. Knowledge is always masculine. Experience is always feminine. If your body is centred on one gender and rejected, the other component of gender in your system, you will continue to struggle with experience or with knowledge. Only experience not having knowledge - you will not be complete or having only knowledge and not the experience – you will not be complete. The denied other part, incomplete other part continues to harass you! when the body evolves, gets matured it becomes dual. When the mind evolves, gets matured, it become dual!
The power of authenticity and the grace to enrich! Power of authenticity and the grace to enrich! No religion is able to touch this depth of the duality in the body. Vedic tradition was able to reach that heights. That is why the description of Ardha Nareeshwara. It is not half, half. If you think the right side of Shiva does not have feminine you are wrong and vice versa. It is a pictorial depiction. Otherwise it is both, both. Right hand masculine strength and left has masculine strength both describe both. This is the conceptual presentation of this. this picture is not what depicts that…what you saw some time before what you saw showed that Somehow it is unfortunate humanity did not recognize. You can never visualize Krishna without the feminine grace, you can never visualize buddha without the feminine grace, you can never visualize Meenakshi without masculine strength. You can never visualize Sundareshwara without feminine grace .
Knowledge directly becoming experience happens in dual body just like that because in dual body you have not suppressed and denied the possibility of the other. You came out of both energies, how can you be just one energy? When the ingredient is mango and banana how will you expect the juice will be only mango or only banana. But you go on imagining. Unfortunately, not only imagining but denying the other component. The love and the lust of the humanity is nothing but the denial of the other component. That is why eternally it ends in denial. Because it starts in denial, it ends in denial. Any human being’s love and lust can be given this title – a long denial between birth to death, bed to tomb, cradle to tomb – a long denial.
How many of you cognize that the knowledge is not becoming the experience in you or the experience is not strengthening the knowledge in you? raise your hand. You all have denial of one part in you. do completion with the other part. Sit do the swapoornatva. See your reflection, your chaaya, your shadow is your incomplete part. Do the completion, I tell you – your experience will strengthen the knowledge and knowledge will strengthen the experience.
A man who lives in slum will never know the joy of the palace. How much ever king describes the palace. Even if you put him in palace, he will re-build his slum. His bedroom will be made again as slum.
There are only 2 bodies on planet earth - denied or dual. Denied is slum, dual is palace. Which one you develop is based on the way you live. I am 100% sure Jnaana Sambandar was dual body. You cannot visualize Jnaana Sambandar without the grace of feminine quality. Knowledge becoming experience is authenticity. Listen. Knowledge becoming experience is authenticity. Knowledge becoming experience is authenticity.
Knowledge becoming experience is authenticity. When you are authentic with your body, automatically, it becomes dual. When you complete with all the incompletions of your body, it becomes dual! In all the male body Kundalini is the denied female component. In all female body the kundalini is the denied male component. When kundalini is awakened, simply your system becomes dual. Dual is not gay or lesbian or transgender, it is transcendental gender. It is not impotent it is omnipotent.
Knowledge becoming directly experience happens when there is no incompletion in you. I tell you whether it is love or lust in your life, when it happens out of completion, it becomes something extraordinary, totally different. When it happens out of incompletion, it brings suffering to you and to others. So I request every one of you sit with the mirror and complete with the denied part of you. I tell you just with this one process, we can stop divorces on the planet earth. Divorce is nothing but you feel he is not completing your denied part. How can he become healthy if you take medicine? How can he die if you take poison? You denied it and you are expecting he or she has to fulfill it. No. you have to fulfill it. The denied part has to be incorporated, imbibed as part of you. Each one of you have the denied kid inside you. if I open your heart and see 10 kids are sitting inside – one in anxiety, fear, anger and 2, 3 men and women are rolling and fighting with each other. All of them put together is you.
One mad guy was sitting on the well and screaming – 16. Other guy went near and asked what 16? This guy pushed him also inside and said 17, 17, 17! When I see your well, I can see some 16, 17 are there. The 5 year old version of you, the 6 year old version of you, the 8 year old version of you, the 18 year old version of you - one is sitting with teddy bear, another one with motor car, another one with rose flower, some wells I saw even one or two ghosts are sitting. Understand those all multiple personalities put together is you. that is why I say most dangerous species on planet earth are human beings. Just don’t live with them. I tell you from my experience. Just don’t live with them. Once they become authentic and integrated they become divine being. Live with them. That is why I am very clear. Either I lived with divine beings or rishis or bootas or ghosts. I have never lived with human beings…who Dhyanapeetam are rishis, bhota, pretas people who have become authentic – rishis, people who are struggling with inauthenticity are bhootas pretas. By and by I mastered how to handle them. Maha Kaala Yama is so sure the knowledge will become just experience in Nachiketa. He saw the authenticity. RK says beautifully – during the Svaati nakshatra when the rain showers and the mother pearl comes up in the ocean, when that rain drop the mother pearl makes pearl. The svaati rain waits for the right mother pearl to come and open so that it can shower and the mother pearl is waiting for the rain to happen. Here ran found the right mother pearl. Rain now knows if I now drop this water into this mother pearl it will surely make one pearl. It will not be wasted.
Now Yama knows Naachiketa will make this knowledge into exp. Next see what yama says in next verse – 2nd chapter, 5th verse.
अविद्यायांअन्तरेवर्तमानाःस्वयंधीराःमण्डितंमन्यमानाः।
दंद्रम्यमाणाःपरियन्तिमूढाःअन्धेनएवनीयमानाःयथाअन्धाः॥ 2.5
So beautiful - Yama, Maha Kaala declares to Nachiketa -
“Fools dwelling in ignorance, yet imagining themselves wise and learned, go round and round in crooked ways, like the blind led by the blind.”
Inauthentic ones yet imagining themselves as authentic just because they have knowledge which has not yet become experience go around and round in croocked way, like the blind led by the blind.
If the blind is led by blind where will they be led to? You all know…
Inauthentic ones yet imagining themselves as authentic just because they have knowledge which has not yet become experience….
अविद्यायांअन्तरेवर्तमानाःस्वयंधीराःमण्डितंमन्यमानाः।
दंद्रम्यमाणाःपरियन्तिमूढाःअन्धेनएवनीयमानाःयथाअन्धाः॥ 2.5
Yama must have been a great poet. Unfortunately, in Indian movies he has always been shown as a comedian. But he is such an intelligent being….he is shown as the one who is dark, big, black sitting on buffalo and chitragupta is assistant comedian. No he is Guru, God who can give you boon.
अविद्यायांअन्तरेवर्तमानाःस्वयंधीराःमण्डितंमन्यमानाः।
दंद्रम्यमाणाःपरियन्तिमूढाःअन्धेनएवनीयमानाःयथाअन्धाः॥ 2.5
Inauthentic ones yet imagining themselves as authentic just because they have knowledge which has not yet become experience, understand the knowledge which has not yet become experience means you ate and it did not get digested. Only dogs eat that way. if you eat something and do not digest it, what will happen. It will come out through the same hole from which it went in. if you see dogs, it vomits and eats only that. Even in dogs case they don’t eat if another dog vomits. In your case it is so unfortunate you eat another’s vomit. All ideas, words by unenlightened one is “vomit” how many are going to eat it. This one word internalize very sincerely. Even one wrong idea inside your system by the wrong book or a wrong logic sometimes takes years to clean and get out of it. As if you don’t have enough confusion. Why do you want more? No. we will call tea as Bodhi Dharma Teertha
Inauthentic ones yet imagining themselves as authentic just because just they have knowledge which has not yet become experience go around and round in crooked way, like the blind led by the blind.
Listen never do this mistake of being led by blind. <Pic shown> you will end up like this only. You may be well dressed and be given even free shoes. But where you are going is dangerous! Maha Kaala is clearly warning Nachiketa about the people who don’t have authenticity and yet try to lead others. He is using a very beautiful word –
दंद्रम्यमाणाःपरियन्तिमूढाः – means going round and round and round in crooked ways conspired ways. That is why Osho very beautifully puts it – an enlightened being posing as enlightened being is the conspiracy against the cosmos! Don’t waste your time in going round and round in crooked ways being led by the blind and when you know you are blind, never everything or plan leading another blind. If you are blind only you travel. At least it is suicide. If you are guiding another blind, it is murder also! Maha Kaala is so clear. He says inauthentic ones yet imagining themselves as authentic yet imagining themselves as authentic just because they have knowledge which has not yet become experience go around and round in crooked way, like the blind led by the blind.
अविद्यायांअन्तरेवर्तमानाःस्वयंधीराःमण्डितंमन्यमानाः।
दंद्रम्यमाणाःपरियन्तिमूढाःअन्धेनएवनीयमानाःयथाअन्धाः॥ 2.5
Because many enlightened beings gave up on people, unenlightened ones have started guiding the people. So the only solution for this problem is don’t give up on people! What is the solution come on, Gurukul kids – Don’t give up on people. The mudra is very important especially for Gurukul kids because that if you observe it becomes your body language. If you observe me, you will see whenever I say alright I will move these fingers..understand when it goes with the mudra body language, it stays with you forever. I wanted to share an incident with you guys. How I discovered one of my strong patterns and completed and healed with Ram by his grace and compassion. There was a certain pattern that I was trying to come out of and I could see I was not able to get out of it. Of course I did not go to him to tell about that, but he found out. So some visitor came to him, that visitor was talking exactly same thing. When he was describing the whole thing, I was simply able to cognize the whole thing for myself….the visitor was talking he listened, listened looking into my eyes. End of the conversation, both our eyes locked with each other. I was just nodding whatever visitor was saying, visitor is also nodding whatever I was saying…end of conversation he looked deeply into y eyes and said alright and started doing his japa. I saw the pattern in me broken and I am also doing the same mudra and started doing ajapa japa. With mudra when it gets inside it becomes bio memory. if he has given up on me, what I would have done? I would have been leading some blind fellow because the seeking itself cannot be kept under the carpet. I don’t give up on people who give up on me just because I don’t want them to go to some blind person and go round and round they will waste janmas (lives). Because once someone is touched by me, their seeking is always kept alive and they will be just burning, burning…….that is why I continue to not to give up on them, even when they give up on me. When you give up on you, you give up on others…
अविद्यायांअन्तरेवर्तमानाःस्वयंधीराःमण्डितंमन्यमानाः।
दंद्रम्यमाणाःपरियन्तिमूढाःअन्धेनएवनीयमानाःयथाअन्धाः॥ 2.5
What is the solution for this problem? Don’t give up on people! Blind led by the blind you know where both end. What Yama has to say further in further sutras we will see in next satsangs. Now we will move to next part of the morning satsang - dial the avatar.
Today is Taipoosam a very auspicious day for Subramyana – Skanda. All over the world the Kaumaris the followers of skanda sampradaaya celebrate today. In Malaysia, in TN and in Toronto and in all Nithyananda Vedic temples all over the world we will be celebrating…see all Telugu people establish Venkateshwara, all north Indian temples establish Krishna and radha….even all subramanya temples outside India are established by nagarattas , chettiyars.
Vallalaar from Tamil Nadu attained Videha Mukti on this day. All traditions of the Madurai Aadheenam he followed so sincerely….one of the important tradition of sharing food he followed. Vallalaar - a saint left the body today…
I bless you all who are sitting with us at this moment around the world in 576 places through Nithyananda TV, 47 in places through 2 way Video conferencing having Nayana Deeksha, in 264 cities, 37 countries around the world! Let you all achieve, experience, live, express, radiate, share and explode and enrich with eternal bliss, Nithyananda. Thank you!
(Please note: This is a Rough Transcript of the discourse. Catch the re-telecast of the message at 6:30 pm and 11:30 pm IST on nithyananda.tv Satsang message is telecast after the Pada Puja)
Title
Essence of Responsibility and Jealously || Part 1 || NDY || 27 January 2013
Description
Name of Convention: Nithya Dhyana Yoga
Session on: Essence of Responsibility and Jealously Part 1
Date: 27 January 2013
Venue: Adi Kailasa, Bengaluru, Karnataka, India
In this video Supreme Pontiff of Hinduism HDH #Nithyananda Paramashivam explains about how life enriches an individual, fulfils individuals with their self & others and why one should not give up on others. HDH also explains how whenever there is inauthenticity in 'anyakara' individuals end up with comparing self with others and end up with hurt, anger, suffering and that jealousy is the outcome of deep innate violence the individual carry within themselves.
The Supreme Pontiff of Hinduism Jagatguru Mahasannidhanam His Divine Holiness Nithyananda Paramashivam (HDH) is the reviver of #KAILASA - the ancient enlightened civilization and the great cosmic borderless Hindu nation. Revered as the incarnation of Paramashiva - the primordial Hindu Divinity, HDH has a following of 2 billion Hindus worldwide with de facto spiritual embassies in over 150 countries. He has worked untiringly for over 26 years for the revival of Kailasa, for global peace and to give super conscious breakthrough to humanity. He has survived the worst persecution of multiple assassination attempts on person and on character by anti-Hindu elements. He is collecting, organising, preserving, time capsuling, decoding, spreading and reviving 20 Million source books of Hinduism and the 64 sacred arts & sciences like Ayurveda, music, dance, sculpting, astrology, vastu and much more. Close to 20,000 hours of HDH’s timeless talks have been recorded till date (Sep 2020), which are a treasure trove of powerful cognitions to solve individual and global problems of any kind.
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[00:00:15]
So let Me give you the essence of yesterday. Integrity - means honoring the word you give it to you and to others. Authenticity - means taking responsibility for what you feel as you and what you project as you, what others feel as you. Clear? You don't need to take the responsibility of people who are not at all involved in your life, their imagination about you. Like somebody from South Africa suddenly comes and expects you should become a prime minister of his country. You don't need to fulfill that, understand? But with whoever you have involved your life. Listen. Anyakara of the people about whom you have anyakara- That is the anyakara for which you have made commitment. Understand? For example, your mother’s expectation about you, you have to stretch yourself to that because you have certain expectation about your mother. When you carry certain expectation about others you are now bound by the expectation they have about you.
[00:01:53]
All of you are able to catch it? How many of you are you able to cognize this principle which I am saying now. Because you have a doubt… whose, how many of you are not able to cognize? Raise your hand. Can you guys come out? I'll answer your questions. Ah, listen for example your mother has an expectation about you. You have to stretch yourself to that because you have expectation about your mother. Understand? You don't need to fulfill, somebody who is walking in the street, his expectation about you... who is completely unconnected to your life. But you have to fulfill your mothers expectation about you because you have an expectation about your mother.
[00:02:50]
You understand? Life is involved. You have to, I have to fulfill your expectation about Me, if I have an expectation about you. Understand. If you expect that I should behave as your guru, I have to stretch Me to fulfill if I also expect you have to behave as a disciple or we can completely be independent. You are somebody, I am somebody. Then neither you need to fulfill My expectation nor I need to fulfill your expectation, but if your lifes are involved you have to stretch yourself to others expectation. That is authenticity.
[00:03:38]
Have you given a direct or indirect message that you are involved? Yes, yes. You have to make it clear you are not involved, then you don't need to follow, you don't need to stretch yourself. Yes, come on. I am making it very clear. I am not involved in anybody's life other than the people who have become My disciples or living My disciple hood; living, being My disciple, and I have no other involvement with anybody else's life. I am very clear. Come on. Participant: I have a doubt that you told that Anyakara, that when we don't have expectations from them, when they have expectations from me, I am very clear that I don't have expectation from the other side? HDH: And you can say, “I am not involved with your life!” If you make it very clear, you don't need to stretch yourself to their Anyakara. Understand? For example, you have mother in law. You do not have any expectation from her, but she has expectations from you. If you go and complete with her saying that “I don't have any expectation from you and same way, I don't want to fulfill your expectations”, you make it very clear. Then you don't need to stretch yourself to their Anyakara. Till you make it very clear, you are expected to take the responsibility for their Anyakara. That is authenticity.
[00:05:07]
Participant: Swamiji, in my case, my personal, I don't, just I am expressing its with my brother and my husband actually, I don't have mother in law, father in law… HDH: No I am giving you one example. Participant: No No. I got it Swamiji, because in this case I have not expected from my brother but he always, he expects me that you practise in the profession and there I always fought with him that; Why you want to force me. If I am interested I will do it when, because I am always authenticity. There people want me to show inauthenticity, I don't like that profession. If the cases are authentic I will go with it and if I feel the associate is authentic with me. wherever I have gone I have seen inauthenticity with the advocates with whom I have gone also, because of that I was not able to proceed with that but now after coming to this I have found people supporting me and I am working to their authentic cases and there where I am fulfilling I am happy with doing it. And coming to my husband I started the network marketing business myself because I liked it, I love the environment and I went to the level of into that for the knowledge for seven years and in between I was this to my partners, I had Anyakara because I was so much authentic I went to support my business for my brother who wanted to know network marketing in another company and there I went to support him and I just went with him, thats all. From a third party someone has been there. So immediately without rechecking that, they.. just without that they started talking, gossiping about me. So I got very angry, so at that time I was very… because of my authenticity they didn't know my background…
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Noooo… It is inauthenticity. If you are authentic, you will not become angry. You will take responsibility for their in-authenticity also. Participant: yes, later then I took responsibility after attending with you Swamiji… HDH: So, understand what I am saying? With authenticity you will never be powerless. Understand? With authenticity you will never be powerless. In My case I never feel powerless in any situation. Understand? If this happens in My life, what I will do you know? I'll take authentic responsibility trying to educate them, but if they are very sure they don't want to be educated by me, I’ll tell them very clearly, “I won't harm you, you don't harm me.” The completion. Even for that if they are not budging and trying to do some conspiracy then I know. If they come on elephant, go on elephant and finish them. If they come by horse, go on horse and finish them. If they come by walk, face them by walk. That is authenticity. Auth.. you understand what I am saying? How do you think otherwise such a big conspiracy group is not able to do anything finally? Because I also know where to play. Understand? Angry, you would have just felt powerless and you would not have proceeded in any way. Am I right? Now you have to take the responsibility for their inauthenticity and first thing you have to make it very clear. So let us have a completion with each other and see whether we can still work together. If that is not possible at least you live your life, we live our life. I think by this everyone will settle down Ma. Beyond that if they are trying to conspire, don't bother. Do everything above and below the sun. That's it, that is authenticity. Understand.
[00:09:15]
Participant: Swamiji… a clarification Swamiji. At that time when I went, I didn't know that I was making wrong. Immediately when this gossiping happened, I understood, oh something is wrong and then I…. HDH: First thing, first thing.. Please understand. Authenticity will not allow you to believe you are a bad guy. That's a main thing. If you are made to believe by somebody ‘you are a bad guy’, you have inauthenticity. Listen, one of My biggest success, please understand all of you. I am giving My life example so that you will understand.
[00:10:00]
One of the biggest success, the reason for My success is the media was able to convince the whole world I am a bad guy. They are not able to convince Me I am a bad guy. I am very authentic in every step I proceed. Understand. I am very authentic and integrated with My every deal and every relationship and every step and that is the reason. Because there is no in authenticity in Me they are not able to convince I am inauthentic, I am wrong. So if they are able to make you believe you are wrong, there is some inauthenticity hiding there. Maybe in that business you would not have been inauthentic. You would have been inauthentic in some other way, that comes here and takes revenge on you. For example, if you have cheated A,B,C and all the A,B,C disappears. F, G you have not cheated them. You have been very authentic, but they will attack you. When they attack you, you will feel powerless because you have cheated A,B,C. understand.
[00:11:23]
Somewhere your inauthenticity, incompletion... maybe it is inauthenticity even with yourself. That is why I tell you. You don't leave single unfulfilled word incomplete word. Every word you give it to you - complete it. If you are not able to complete it, sit every night and at least clear it saying: I gave this word to you. I am not able to fulfil . I am completing it, I am liberating you. Please understand, this one habit of Swapoornatwa, completion with yourself takes away insecurity. See, whenever you start a work, you will always see one corner of your mind will tell: No, what for you are going will not be successful. How many of you cognize this? Always one part of your mind. That part is nothing but the incomplete part. Understand?
[00:12:36]
Participant: Then, after that they made me that..the.. that I am in a .. when I started telling that where I am wrong come on, prove that. I fought, I started talking to them and they all kept quite Swamiji, because they told me, we will stop you from the company. Then I told evenI am ready where I am wrong, come on, prove it. All kept quiet. Then I just kept quiet for three years. After being here, coming to Kalpataru, I don't know, I was just open and I went back to them and I told them that you people without knowing me, not listening to me or asking me… ‘how did you do behind me’. That hurted me a lot. Then they all told sorry and the persons who were partners with me, everybody told me sorry and again I connected with them and…. HDH: So see the power of authenticity. Understand? Participant: It worked on that and now actually I want to drop that business but … you have worked so many years, why you? You can't do that… but it's not fighting. I am just convincing that now I am, I know after going into deep I can see. I am telling that I am not, I don't fail by doing business. I am not confident in doing business. I have knowledge, I have creation to do that and advocate all but… HDH: No, no. You should be able to do small and big both things. That is spirituality. Still you have to catch it, understand?
[00:14:09]
Participant: Being authentic about my net worth, because of my lack of strength. My brother always and sisters always want to know what is my net worth is and I don't tell them the truth. I don't tell them anything. I said “why do you want to know? I don’t want to know yours. You don't tell me yours. I don't want to tell mine. Is that the way that it goes. Am I integrated? HDH: No, you are right. You are authentic. See, when you don't ask theirs, you have a freedom not to tell. Participant: Nithyanandam Swamiji, so as you said earlier like “If you have expectations about somebody you have to stretch to their Anyakara.” So let us say, I have expectations about my father as well as my mother. My father’s Anyakara is exactly opposite to my mother’s Anyakara. So to whom expectation should I…? HDH: I think you have to sit with all, both of them. Work, then finally it will evolve. Understand? You may have to sit with both of them and ask them. Then let both of them fight with their inauthenticities and it will boil down to one Anyakara which will be easy for you. And I think after all, both of your parents have done program, so they understand the tattvas and principles. It will be easy for you. Come on, quick, quick. Yes. If you have any expectations about them you are inauthentic to their Anyakara. Participant: Inaudible HDH:Then it is wrong, you can make them understand. These are such simple things. Participant: Inaudible HDH: No, you can make them understand. I am healthy, come on. Why are you constantly putting this word into my head that I am spoiling my health? Hmmm. Quick.
(00:15:54)
Participant: But usually it doesn't get balanced like that. I will have expectation of one person and that person will be sending a signal that I have no connection with you. Similarly somebody will be having expectation of me and I might be sending signal that I have no connection with you. So there is a mismatch here. HDH: No, that is what is completion. When you do Purnatva with each one of them, this will be completed. This will become a very clear thing. Who is going to be committed with your life and who is going to be what in your life will become clear. In Purnatva. Participant: If so, it's not directly connected to my Annyakara . In this case actually often when I got immediately get married, I saw the inauthenticity in the inequalities of my husband's family… when I saw that I waited for some years. Let me whether my husband is wrong or they are wrong. Then I saw that, it showed clearly that for his silence those people have kept ……. making him inequality and after that I decided and I just kept everybody far away and the… HDH: But that is not going to solve the issue because then it is like giving up on people. Ok Participant: In this case Swamiji, even if you can’t go to court also. Its a family issue HDH: No, no, no… you don't need to go to court, but you don't need to give up on people. Continue to work, it is possible. You will not be facing any more bigger demons than the demons I faced in My life. Do you agree that? When I can do, why not you? Okay? Participant: Inaudible HDH: Yes. Giving up on people is nothing but ego. Simply ego. Go ahead.
[00:17:49]
Participant: Swamiji, in the relationship always… When I saw you, I accepted you as my Guru. When somebody tells I am your mother. When I don't feel that motherliness in them ... HDH: So you can tell them very clearly. Complete with them. Say: You may feel I am your mother, but I don't feel I am your mother, So please don't have any Anyakara which I will not be able to fulfill. Complete it. Participant: So when I did that, that person went and cried before their family… HDH: That, nothing can be done. The people, people will cry forever. Sometime people may cry that you are alive, what can you do for that? What to do? Understand? Is it not? Such a … we will have to face it. Participant: Some people come very easy going money to us, when you don't expect them, they talk behind us outside and all HDH: I think, better not to have the easy going money. That will always make you lose respect on you. It'll just make you lose respect on you. Better don't accept. Participant: Because directly I have told them that you people taking easy money, because… HDH: Oh, dont tell. Don't do anything to the people who are taking.You don't take, thats all. Participant: Swamiji in my case actually, what in the talk the family of my husband, how he's earning, I am very happy with it whatever we are earning and we are happy, fulfilling without asking anybody but in this case my brothers family they are not happy in this society in this state that we are materialistically showing and I gave them clarification that business people will invest money into the business, never showed that we want a car or house, because whatever house we have, whatever car we have we are fulfilled with that, but they are not fulfilled in that and they, especially my brother he tells that in society... you travel in auto, you are staying in that house, it's like….. and they feel very bad to tell society that we stay in that house. HDH: Tell them even Swamiji…. ( Participant speaking)... You are not wrong in that. In that you are right. Even I drive the same car for last ten years, what to do? Forget about it. Those things are not… You are authentic as far as this is concerned.
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Title
Essence of Responsibility and Jealously || Part 2 || NDY 27 Jan 2013
Description
Name of Convention: Nithya Dhyana Yoga
Session on: Essence of Responsibility and Jealously Part 2
Date: 27 January 2013
Venue: Adi Kailasa, Bengaluru, Karnataka, India
In this video Supreme Pontiff of Hinduism HDH #Nithyananda Paramashivam explains about how life enriches an individual, fulfils individuals with their self & others and why one should not give up on others. HDH also explains how whenever there is inauthenticity in 'anyakara' individuals end up with comparing self with others and end up with hurt, anger, suffering and that jealousy is the outcome of deep innate violence the individual carry within themselves.
The Supreme Pontiff of Hinduism Jagatguru Mahasannidhanam His Divine Holiness Nithyananda Paramashivam (HDH) is the reviver of #KAILASA - the ancient enlightened civilization and the great cosmic borderless Hindu nation. Revered as the incarnation of Paramashiva - the primordial Hindu Divinity, HDH has a following of 2 billion Hindus worldwide with de facto spiritual embassies in over 150 countries. He has worked untiringly for over 26 years for the revival of Kailasa, for global peace and to give super conscious breakthrough to humanity. He has survived the worst persecution of multiple assassination attempts on person and on character by anti-Hindu elements. He is collecting, organising, preserving, time capsuling, decoding, spreading and reviving 20 Million source books of Hinduism and the 64 sacred arts & sciences like Ayurveda, music, dance, sculpting, astrology, vastu and much more. Close to 20,000 hours of HDH’s timeless talks have been recorded till date (Sep 2020), which are a treasure trove of powerful cognitions to solve individual and global problems of any kind.
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[00:00:15]
Let’s go to the session, start the session. Listen. Integrity - honoring the word and thoughts you gave it to you and to others. Authenticity - taking responsibility for what you feel as you and what you show to others as you and what others are feeling about you.
[00:00:35]
And now we are entering into 3rd - throat center, the throat center. This throat center is blocked when there is a non alignment between the imagination, expectation you carry about others and the others expectation about you. listen when there is a non alignment between your expectation about others and others expectation about you, that is where the jealousy and comparison starts.
[00:01:20]
Listen. You may have a superficial jealousy, superficial comparison, very superficial like - while you are driving in a Mercedes Benz if a BMW passes by - a superficial comparison. But those things does not affect you. The root jealousy, the root comparison which affects you is the non alignment of your expectation and the other person's expectation. [00:01:56] How many of you have in your life the non alignment between your expectation towards them and their expectation towards you, both of them are not in alignment; then you have a problem in throat, throat centre. Anyakara is what you believe and project others to be for you as per your understanding. Listen. These are all like a legal definition. Anyakara is what you believe and project others to be for you. In this example what I expect you for me and how I tell that to you. Clear?
[00:02:50]
For example, now I am expecting Bhagawan [name of participant] to build a temple in Dallas, so I am expressing it to him. This is My Anyakaara. He expects Me, should always honour all the words I utter and fulfil them. That is his Anyakaara about Me. Clear. But, now there is a non-alignment where I am fulfilling but he is not ready to fulfil. Clear? 😃 So his throat has a problem. Now, is there anybody who are not cognising? But, if he builds the temple and I don’t honour this time keeping or what he expects from Me, then I have a problem, I have to alter, transform and stretch. Clear? Here is a volunteer. Bhagawan… What that volunteer expects from Me... is his Anyakaara about Me. What I expect from him is My Anyakaara for him. Clear? If I fulfil his expectation and he does not fulfil My expectation, his Vishuddhi has a problem. If he fulfils My expectation and I don’t fulfil, My Vishuddhi has a problem. Clear? So always be stretching, fulfilling everybody’s Anyakaara with whom your life is involved. Clear? You have a Anyakara about Me that I should always honour My word and this time keeping and everything. Hmm? That is your Anyakara about Me and My capability, My possibility. So I have an Anyakara about you as your capability and possibility - means building a temple in Dallas. Do you commit for that or you wanted to withdraw that word? You don’t want to commit? Participant: Now I re-commit Swamiji. You know what happened after I told Him I withdraw, I went back and saw. I said why I wanted to withdraw. Then I found out the weakness in me that I don’t want to work. I want to be lazy. Oh my God I came from this IA only to get out of that now I want to get in. No no. I want to recommit. Thank you Swamiji. It was a big sacrifice of my being to get out that laziness. Now I am doing oh my god I exposed myself and I just want getting into that. No no. I don’t want. I wanted to do. HDH: So you are committing? Participant: Yes. I am re-committing. HDH: No. Then declare the commitment Participant : The commitment was that 10 people HDH: No no you have to utter the words, clear words. ‘With integrity and authenticity, responsibility and enriching others’ Commit Participant: With integrity, authenticity and responsibility and enriching others that I have committed 10 people IA in July Bali for 10 people IA and total of 75 end of this year December 31st. I am committing back. HDH: Temple you don’t want to commit? No, that is ok. You can, you cannot, it’s up to you Participant: Right now I could only think that. In this short time that's what I could think. But after this swamiji I can not say ‘No’. So I will work on it, but I don’t know when I will be able to fulfil it. HDH: No. That ‘when’ is you can decide even as many years as you want. But you are committing? Participant: Yes I am committing.
[00:06:30]
HDH: So did you guys feel I forced him. I made it very clear na even before, ‘If you don’t commit no problem’. Listen, this is the power of authenticity taking responsibility for others inauthenticity. Clear? Participant: Yes Swamiji, very clear HDH: 😃 😃 If I can transform Bhagavan Reddy I can declare I am a Poornavatara, not just Avatara, Poornavatara. Participant: And I always openly disagree and this because I was so authentic, I didn't know, I didn't want to do, so I just wanted to be authentic. HDH: No. You are integrated when you disagree Participant: Ya correct. Sorry HDH: Not authentic, now only you have become authentic. Okay? Participant: Ya, I got the understanding, Swamiji. HDH: See, now the game. But you have already committed now, I can’t play the game with you. I need somebody who has not committed. Only with them this understanding can come. Understand? Alright you go. I’ll...
[00:07:39]
See here, let us imagine a volunteer here. What that volunteer expects from Me is his Anyakara about Me. What I expect from him is his Anyakara... my Anyakara for him. Clear? If I fulfill his expectation and he does not fulfil My expectation, his Vishuddhi has a problem. If he fulfills My expectation and I don’t fulfill, My Vishuddhi has a problem. Clear? So always be stretching, fulfilling everybody’s Anyakara with whom your life is involved. Participant: If you complete that you cannot fulfill his expectation. HDH: Ah yes. If you complete it then no problem. Even then you are not expressing your capacity. You are integrated but not authentic. Understand? See when you say... For example, if Bhagavan Reddy has said... told Me ‘I will not do that 10 people’, he is integrated, he was not authentic. Now when he said ‘No! I am going to do it.’ He has become authentic. Understand? Now you will see you will flourish in your business, you will flourish in your job. You will flourish in your relationships; in everything you will see. Because you have decided not to give up on you. Understand you have decided not to give up on you.
[00:09:25]
You saw the live demonstration of somebody opening their vishuddhi Centre. When he said he will not, his vishuddhi was locked. The moment he decided he is going to do, his vishuddhi opens. So I tell you, not giving up on you and others is the way to open the vishuddhi. Don’t give up on people. I demonstrated I don't give up on him. I was very authentic with him; even if he does not want to do, I did not force him. I just left it. But I am not going to give up on him, I am going to wait, I’ll wait and see to it he realizes sometime. When I carry that cognition I am going to wait, immediately, he realizes.
[00:10:24]
How many of you feel you also did not want to fulfill My expectation about you but suddenly somehow you yourself came out and decided that you have to fulfill My expectation about you. Just like Bhagawan Reddy decided, how many of you have decided at least once in your life. So in all those moments, understand, My decision not to give up on you is the one which is pulling you up. That is the rope, that is the connection. Clear? Now I’ll repeat. Listen. My expectation about the other person is My Anyakara about him. The other person’s expectation about Me is that person’s Anyakara about Me. When there is a non alignment between these two, Vishhudhi has a problem. Who fulfills it has a flowered vishuddhi, (who doesn’t) fulfill has a collapsed throat centre. Clear?
[00:11:46]
In the vedic tradition, you are expected to wear the 6 Rudraksha in your ears because the ears which listened is honoured. It is called sundaravadam. Argatti sundaravadam. Means, if you have listened the spiritual truths, it has to be decorated and beautified. All the communities which had the tradition of initiation used to wear that. Brahmins, Vaishyas, the communities which had the tradition of initiation used to wear that. How many of you have seen your great grandfather's photograph and all he was wearing? Means, your communities all have that tradition of initiation. Argatti sundaravadam it is called.
[00:12:40]
So now you are all initiated; all your ears you can decorate it; with Rudraksha or whatever you want you can decorate it with the sundaravada because you heard, you listened. Listen now. From now onwards Nithya Dhyana yoga, Nithya Kriya yoga, Healer’s initiation, in everything I am going to sing this same song only, same four tattvas only, including inner awakening. Why you know? Because you don't listen! I will be singing this song in a different different tune, but the same song it's going to be. So better listen in the first level itself.
[00:13:23]
When you are not integrated and inauthentic, when you are non integrated and inauthentic with the Anyakara you carry about others, that reflects non integrity and inauthenticity in the Anyakara others carry about you. Got it? Let Me repeat. If Bhagwan Reddy is not ready to fulfill My anyakara about him, I am only responsible for that, not Bhagawan Reddy. Getting it? How many of you are cognizing it? If Bhagawan Reddy does not want to enrich 10 people for Inner Awakening And he has succumbed to his laziness, he is not responsible, I am responsible; because there is some incompletion in My Anyakara about him. There is a non integrity and inauthenticity, so I have to take the responsibility. Here fortunately the strength of My responsibility has helped him to jump out of the laziness and he committed. Now this is the power of My authenticity. Clear?
[00:14:58]
But still I have few people who are not ready to fulfill My Anyakara. For that I am responsible. Understand what I am saying? Bhagwan Reddy has now decided Maybe somebody is not ready to fulfill My Anyakara about them. Then I am responsible for it. Tnen in that Anyakara……. I am giving you the example. Actually I don't have any Anyakara which is not fulfilled, that is different. Hmm. If I have... Clear? If I have some anyakara about Anshuman... I don't have. If I have and if you don’t commit for it or don't stretch yourself to fulfill it then, I am inauthentic. I am responsible. When you take responsibility for others inauthenticity also, you see a new energy flowing from your throat centre. A real Shakti! Shakti means taking responsibility for all Ashakti, taking responsibility for all powerlessness. Anybody feels powerless, if I take responsibility for them then I am expressing Shakti.
[00:16:31]
How many of you feel ‘why should I take responsibility for others?’ Authentically raise your hand. If you feel ‘why should I take responsibility for others’, raise your hand? There is a beautiful place for all of you guys - graveyard. 😃 No, I am telling you the truth. Don't you understand life happens to you from others? Understand? Come on, the people who raised the hand. Now listen. Do you cognize life happens to you from others?The same team raise the hand. Do you cognize? See, the team which said ‘Why should I take responsibility for others’ raise your hand. Now if you cognize...no keep the hand raised. If you cognize ‘life happens to you from others’, raise the other hand also. Do you cognize life happens to you from others? So how many have not raised both the hands?
[00:17:43]
You, please come to mic. All you guys drop your hands. Ask your question. Don't you understand life happens to you from others? No? See, what all the main relationships fills your inner space and your day to day activity in your life? Mother, father, then? Participant: Friends Swamiji HDH: Friend,then may be little place for Me also. 😃 Participant: Yes Swamiji. HDH: So how many? 6. So, do you think without the decision of these 6 people, co-operation of these 6 people, you will be able to have fulfillment in your life? You can't!! Your mother has to fulfill your son dimension. The dimension you carry as a son, it can be fulfilled only by your mother, only by your father. Participant: But she has different expectation Swamiji. HDH: What I am saying, whether she has expectation or not, your fulfillment can come only if she is fulfilled as your mother. See, she has different expectation,we will work that next. Whether to complete with her or align her to your achievement, or you will align to her expectation is secondary. But do you understand, cognize, unless she feels fulfilled having you as her son, you will not fulfilled having her as you mother. Participant: I wont have that completion Swamiji. HDH: You understand? So life happens to you from others, outside. You get it? Participant: Yes Swamiji. HDH: I am Your master. So now only when you feel I am a complete Master I will feel you are a complete disciple and I'll be fulfilled in the dimension of being your master; otherwise I can be fulfilled in millions of My disciples. See, if I have one million disciple, I may be fulfilled as a Guru for all those 9 lac ninety nine thousand, nine hundred and ninety people but not with you means, I am unfulfilled still I have to sit. So Life happens to us outside. So we can't afford to say why should I take the responsibility for others expectation about me. All of you are getting it? So life enriches you, completes you, fulfills you in outside with others. You can't afford to say ‘why should I take the responsibility for others Anyakara about me?’ Clear?
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Title
Essence of Responsibility and Jealously || Part 3 || NDY || 27 Jan 2013
Description
Name of Convention: Nithya Dhyana Yoga
Session on: Essence of Responsibility and Jealously Part 3
Date: 27 January 2013
Venue: Adi Kailasa, Bengaluru, Karnataka, India
In this video Supreme Pontiff of Hinduism HDH #Nithyananda Paramashivam explains about how life enriches an individual, fulfils individuals with their self & others and why one should not give up on others. HDH also explains how whenever there is inauthenticity in 'anyakara' individuals end up with comparing self with others and end up with hurt, anger, suffering and that jealousy is the outcome of deep innate violence the individual carry within themselves.
The Supreme Pontiff of Hinduism Jagatguru Mahasannidhanam His Divine Holiness Nithyananda Paramashivam (HDH) is the reviver of #KAILASA - the ancient enlightened civilization and the great cosmic borderless Hindu nation. Revered as the incarnation of Paramashiva - the primordial Hindu Divinity, HDH has a following of 2 billion Hindus worldwide with de facto spiritual embassies in over 150 countries. He has worked untiringly for over 26 years for the revival of Kailasa, for global peace and to give super conscious breakthrough to humanity. He has survived the worst persecution of multiple assassination attempts on person and on character by anti-Hindu elements. He is collecting, organising, preserving, time capsuling, decoding, spreading and reviving 20 Million source books of Hinduism and the 64 sacred arts & sciences like Ayurveda, music, dance, sculpting, astrology, vastu and much more. Close to 20,000 hours of HDH’s timeless talks have been recorded till date (Sep 2020), which are a treasure trove of powerful cognitions to solve individual and global problems of any kind.
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[00:00:14]
Understand, whenever I am expected to take more, I go on and on and on. Same way, whenever you are going on and on and on, you are right. Please understand, when you do one right thing, your whole past is right. When you do one wrong thing, your whole past is wrong. Clear? How many of you are cognizing it?
[00:00:45]
Let Me complete this session. Jealousy. Listen. I am giving you the essence. Whenever there is a inauthenticity in Anyakara, you end constantly comparing yourself and your life with others. You end up with jealousy, hurt, anger, suffering, then you are caught in comparison and jealousy. Jealousy is outcome of deep innate violence you carry.
[00:01:26]
Listen, I'm putting it in a better way. Please understand, when somebody expects something from you, when their image about you demands your expansion, you are not interested in expansion, the violence you have, you show towards them as jealousy saying: “You expect this from me. Come on, now I will expect this much from you. You prove.” Getting it? Cognizing it? How many of you are cognizing it?
[00:02:08]
Jealousy starts to justify. Listen, jealousy starts to justify you not fulfilling others image or... Listen, jealousy starts to justify you not fulfilling other’s image, understanding?
[00:02:36]
See, I will not fulfill what he wants from me because he does not fulfill what I want from him and I will expand what I want from him, before even ex (..) thinking whether he is going to fulfill or not. If he has 10 million, I will put it as a hundred million I want from him, then go there and say see, he’s not fulfilling my hundred million, so, I am not going to fulfill what he wants from me. Getting it, cognizing it? Jealousy starts as the justification. Clear? Then it becomes a violence to declare your supremacy.
[00:03:24]
Let Me tell you, cognize. Listen. First: “Ehh, you have 10 million. If I ask 10 million, you may give no, no, no, no. I'll ask hundred so you can't. So, now because you are not fulfilling, I can justify why I am not fulfilling, why I am not expanding me to you... because you are not expanding you to me.” As a justification jealousy starts. Then you have justified to many people that why you are jealous, why you are jealous, why you are jealous. You are, you have justified to many people and many people have fallen with your argument and they say: “All right. You are right, you are right, you are right.” Then the jealousy doesn't keep quiet, it declares: “Now I am the supreme.”
[00:04:25]
Listen, for example. A [to A] I say: “Hey, give me a hundred million. You are not giving. So now I am also not going to fulfill your image about me.” Then this fellow, he says: “Yes, yes, right”, he falls. Then second fellow comes. For him also, “I am not going to expand to you, because you are not expanding to me” - justification. He falls. So, one by one by one, when people start falling, falling, falling, suddenly, you declare: “Hey I am the most Supreme.”
[00:05:07]
Title:
Is Your Life Egoing Or Easygoing
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Next is brow centre, the centre located in eyebrow region. Listen, yesterday we worked on Mamakara; so far we have worked on both mamakara & anyakara. Did you observe, we were too busy with mamakara & anyakara, we did not work on Ahankara. Now we are going to work on Ahankara. The relationship you share with both your mamakara and ahankara is directly connected to your brow centre. When you have non integrated and inauthentic, relationship between mamakara and ahankara... for example, in mamakara you feel you are coward, frightened, no courage and in ahankara you show courageous, powerful - direct inauthentic, direct non-integrated, then your Ajna collapses. Having integrity and authenticity with mamakara and ahankara, your Ajna flowers!!
Unfortunately almost all human beings have inauthenticity with both mamakara and ahankara. How many of you feel you have inauthenticity with your ahankara and mamakara? I think I should ask in the other way, how many of you feel you don’t have inauthenticity? ☺ No you cannot be. If you have, come on I have a place for you here. This whole second row you can fill, or I will even empty this lion, you sit there. ☺ This seat is not that comfortable seat, understand. How many of you are greedy of this seat? Lot of responsibility, understand, huge responsibility!!
Even the snake when it bites you, it will tell “Eh you gave me the poison, what can I do? I can vomit this only to your feet. You give me nectar, I will vomit nectar. The Kalinga, that snake tells Krishna, after trying to kill Krishna, this fellow tells, “ehh, I vomited poison, true, but you gave me that only, means for everything you become responsible. ☺
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Listen, inside you, you always believe yourself lower than what you are and outside you, you always project yourself higher than what you are. How many of you are able to cognise this? Ajna - Brow centre collapses when your ahankara and mamakara is not aligned; whenever there is a mismatch in what you believe as you inside and what you project as you outside. It is like a sharp sword, having both sides rubbing you constantly. When there is a inauthenticity between your mamakara and ahankara, both side it is painful, do you see? Inside also it is painful, outside what you project, because nobody believes it, it is painful. ☺ How many of you are very clear that, whatever you project people are not believing, raise your hand. It is very painful do you know? You project something so sincerely, seriously... almost like a 10 days you work hard and make a beautiful flower arch, suddenly somebody comes and tells, “Eh fool, all these flowers have withered away 10 days before you did not see up”, you were arranging, arranging, so busy in arranging by the 10 days, you came to the lower part and you say “Wow, I have done a flower arch!!”. Somebody comes and knocks at you at the back and says, “See up, 1 week before it all withered away. Only then you see, “Oh God, what I tried to project is not happening”. It hurts, it hurts!!
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The inauthenticity of your ahankara is pulling down, pulling you down and making you feel shrink. Your life only has 2 way – one: Egoing or Easygoing. If it is not aligned, your mamakara and ahankara it is Egoing, if both of them are aligned, it is Easygoing. You can see when someone is Egoistic, they become very heavy, serious, start living with dis-ease. I think if you do the process, you will be able to have deeper insights.
Participant: When you expose your mamakara to the world, you lose effectiveness with people.
Swamiji: No, I am not saying, you expose. All I am saying is align, see what your ahankara you project, internalize that itself and make it as mamakara. That’s all. I am not saying project mamakara to ahankara; project ahankara to mamakara.
Participant: Oh whatever I project there, I just believe myself
SWAMIJI: YES!!
Participant: Okay. That is easy
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[Exercise]
SWAMIJI: Listen, listen!! Scan your whole life and identify the specific aspects of your ahankara which leaves you with conflicting experience with others in your life. That is, identify areas of your life, where you feel powerless or experience conflict with others because of the thoughts and words you have uttered and the perception about yourself that you have projected to others which is not aligned with what you experience, as you inside you.
For example, you have projected an image to your boss that you are very efficient and deep within you project an image to yourself that you are a failure. So your efficiency is not showing up in your work and your boss is not happy with you. This may leave you with a conflicting experience, in your relationship with your boss. This is the example.
Understand whenever you feel powerless or experience conflict in your life, there is surely some inauthenticity in that aspect of your life. Look deeply within and identify the inauthenticity in those conflicting aspects of you that you project to others as you. Identify the words you utter about yourself to others, which are not according to the peak of your capacity - that is what you think of as your capacity and what you project to others as the peak of your capacity. Identify the words you utter to others about yourself which you did not honour and fulfil. Now restore integrity and authenticity in those aspects of your life. Complete with others who are involved, the respective conflicting situations in your life.
Actually this 4th and 5th is, you are supposed to be doing in the house. First 3 only, you are supposed to write answer. 5th is now with integrity and authenticity, give a new word to others about yourself, give a new commitment to others which is aligned with the peak of your capacity. That’s what you think of, as your peak capacity, what others think of as your peak capacity and declare that you will now do anything and everything to honour and fulfil it.
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Understanding Jealousy
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Throat Centre. A throat center. This throat center is blocked when there is a non-alignment between the imagination… expectation you carry about others and the others expectation about you. Listen. Listen, when there is a non-alignment between your expectation about others and others expectation about you, that is where the jealousy and comparison starts. Listen, you may have a superficial jealousy, superficial comparison, very superficial like a… while you are driving in a Mercedes Benz, if a BMW passes by, a superficial comparison. But, those things does not affect you. The root jealousy, the root comparison which affects you, is the non-alignment of your expectation and the other persons expectation. How many of you have in your life, the non-alignment between your expectation towards them and their expectation towards you, both of them are not in alignment. Then, you have a problem in Throat, throat centre. Anyakara is what you believe and project others to be for you as per your understanding. Listen. These are all like a legal definition. Anyakara is what you believe and project others to be for you. In this example what I expect you for me and how I tell that to you. Clear? For example, now I am expecting Bhagawan [name of participant] to build a temple in Dallas, so I am expressing it to him. This is My Anyakaara. He expects Me, should always honour all the words I utter and fulfil them. That is his Anyakaara about Me. Clear. But, now there is a non-alignment where I am fulfilling but he is not ready to fulfil. Clear? 😃 So his throat has a problem. Now, is there anybody who are not cognising? But, if he builds the temple and I don’t honour this time keeping or what he expects from Me, then I have a problem, I have to alter, transform and stretch. Clear? Here is a volunteer. Bhagawan… What that volunteer expects from Me... is his Anyakaara about Me. What I expect from him is My Anyakaara for him. Clear? If I fulfil his expectation and he does not fulfil My expectation, his Vishuddhi has a problem. If he fulfils My expectation and I don’t fulfil, My Vishuddhi has a problem. Clear? So always be stretching, fulfilling everybody’s Anyakaara with whom your life is involved. Clear?
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Still anybody, not clear? Come on, come to the mic. Participant: If you complete, that you cannot fulfil his expectation. Then… HDH: Ah yes... if you complete it then no problem. Participant: Then, no problem? HDH: No problem. Even then, you are not expressing your capacity. You are integrated, but not authentic. Understand, now you will see, you will flourish in your business, you will flourish in your job, you will flourish in your relationships. In everything you will see, because you have decided not to give up on you. Understand, you have decided not to give up on you. Understand, you saw the live demonstration of somebody opening their Vishuddhi Centre. When he said he will not, his Vishuddhi was locked. The moment he decided he is going to do, his Vishuddhi opens. So I tell you, not giving up on you and others, is the way to open the Vishuddhi. Don’t give up on people; I demonstrated I don’t give up on him. I was very authentic with him. Even if he does not want to do, I did not force him, I just left it. But, I am not going to give up on him. I am going to wait, I will wait and see to it he realises sometime. When I carry that cognition ‘I am going to wait’, immediately, he realises… he realises. So, in all those moments, understand, my decision not to give up on you is the one which is pulling you up. That is the rope... that is the connection. Clear? Now I will repeat, My expectation about the other person is My Anyakaara about him, the other person’s expectation about Me is that person’s Anyakaara about Me. When there is a non-alignment between this two, Vishuddhi has a problem. Who fulfils it, has flowered Vishuddhi. Who does not fulfil, has a collapsed throat centre. Clear?
(07:34)
In the Vedic tradition, you are expected to wear the six Rudraksha in your ears, because the ears which listened is honoured. It is called Sundaravadam, aaragatti chundaravadam, means if you have listened the Spiritual Truths, it has to be decorated with and beautified. All the communities which had the tradition of initiation, used to wear that. Brahmins, Vaishyas, the communities which had the tradition of initiation, used to wear that. How many of you have seen your great-grand fathers photograph and all he is… he was wearing, means your communities all have that tradition of initiation. aaragatti chundaravadam it’s called. So, now you are all initiated. All your ears you can decorate it with Rudraksha or whatever you want you can decorate it, with the sundaravada because you heard, you listened. Listen now, whenever there is… Please listen, even if you listen, this will become part of you. When you are not integrated and in-authentic, when you are non-integrated and in-authentic with the Anyakaara you carry about others, that reflects non-integrity and in-authenticity in the Anyakaara others carry about you. Got it? Let Me repeat. Listen ... now, if Bhagawan is not… is not ready to fulfil My Anyakaara about him I am only responsible for that, not Bhagawan. Because there is some incompletion in My Anyakaara about him, there is a non-integrity and inauthenticity. So I have to take the responsibility. Here, fortunately the strength of My responsibility has helped him to jump out of the laziness and he committed. Now, this is the power of My Authenticity. Clear?
(10:19)
But, still I have few people who are not ready to fulfil My Anyakaara. For that, I am responsible. Understand what I am saying? Maybe somebody is not ready to fulfil My Anyakaara about them. Then I am responsible for it. Then in that Anyakaara… I am giving you the example. Actually I don’t have any Anyakaara which is not fulfilled, that is different. hmmm…. If I have... Clear? I am responsible. When you take responsibility for others inauthenticity also, you see a new energy flowing from your throat centre. A real Shakti… Shakti means taking responsibility for all Ashakti, taking responsibility for all powerlessness. Anybody feels powerless, if I take responsibility for them, then I am expressing Shakti. How many of you feel why should I take responsibility for others? Authentically raise your hand. There is a beautiful place for all you guys - graveyard. No, I am telling you the truth. Don’t you understand life happens to you from others? Understand? Come on, the people who raised the hand, now, listen… Do you cognise life happens to you from others? The same team, raise the hand, do you cognise… see… the team which said ‘why should I take the responsibility for others’ raise your hand. Now, if you cognize life happens to you from others, raise the other hand also. Do you cognize life happens to you from others? So, how many have not raised both the hands? You, please come to mic. You have… You, all you guys drop your hands…
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HDH: Ask your question. Don’t you understand life happens to you from others? Participant: No HDH: No, see what are the main relationships fills your inner space and your day-to-day activity in your life... Mother Participant: Mother HDH: Father, then, your Coach Participant: Coach yeah HDH: Then…. Participant: Friend Swamiji HDH: Friend, hmmm….Then maybe little place for Me also… Ah… Ah… ☺ Participant: Yes HDH: So, how many? Six? Participant: Six HDH: So, do you think without the decision of this six people, co-operation of this six people, you will be able to have fulfilment in your life? Participant: Can’t say Swamiji HDH: You can’t. Your mother has to fulfil your son dimension, the dimension you carry as a son, it can be fulfilled only by your mother, only by your father. Participant: But she has different expectation Swamiji HDH: Ah what I am saying, whether she has expectation or not, your fulfilment can come only if she is fulfilled as your Mother. See, she has different expectation we will work that next. Whether to complete with her or align her to your achievement or you will align to her expectation is secondary. But, do you understand, cognise, unless she feels fulfilled having you as her son, you will not fulfilled having her as your mother. Participant: I won’t have that completion Swamiji HDH: You understand? Participant: Yes Swamiji HDH: So, life happens to you from others… outside… You get it? Participant: Yes Swamiji HDH: Hmmm… Participant: Yes Swamiji HDH: I am your Master. So now, only when you feel I am a complete Master, I will feel you are a complete disciple, and I will be fulfilled in the dimension of being your Master. Otherwise, I can be fulfilled in millions of My disciples. See if I have one million disciple, I may be fulfilled as a Guru for all those nine lakh, ninety nine thousand, nine hundred, and ninety nine people, but not with you means, I am unfulfilled, still I have to sit. Listen… You understand. Participant: Yes Swamiji. HDH: So, life happens to us outside. So, we can’t afford to say “Why should I take the responsibility for others expectation about me?” Or you can say, “Done, I am going to the caves in the Himalayas and I am not going to come out of the cave.” But, even then, who will give you food? If you just eat some fruits, and tree leaves, which falls from there, and leaves then you can think… Even then, you are… you have to fulfil the Anyakara of the tree, you have to pour water to it. All of you are getting it? So, Life enriches you, completes you, fulfils you, in outside, with others. You can’t afford to say, “Why should I take the responsibility for others Anyakaara about me?” Clear.
(16:23)
Listen. So, now, when you take responsibility even for others inauthenticity... for example, I fulfil whatever Bhagawan expects, even if he does not fulfil what I expect, I only take the responsibility even for he not fulfilling what I expect. This is the successful, a Leaders attitude. This is the leader’s mind - fulfilling others Anyakaara about you, taking responsibility even if that person does not fulfil your Anyakaara about him, is Leaders mind. This is Billionaire’s brain. I read a book “Millionaire’s Mind”. I give you the new book, new word, Billionaire’s Brain. Understand or I can even add one more word, Trillionaires trident, Zillionaires Zeal. I can add any number of word. This is the Trillionaries Trident and Zillionaires Zeal. Clear?
(17:57)
HDH: “Yes” Participant: I have question Swami HDH: Hmmm… Participant: When you talk about leadership, there is also the component of collective… the Collective Consciousness of people HDH: No Participant: No? HDH: Collective Consciousness is nothing but, your Consciousness is whether collected or not. Participant: Okay HDH: You think, I had a Collective Consciousness when I started the sangha. Barren land where bears walk in very easily and snake, elephant… this is a Elephant route actually, see, there is a small stream do you guys see, in front of the Chit Sabha? Participant: Right HDH: Which flows…This is a Elephant route actually, from Bannerghatta to the Bandipur forest. This is a Elephant route. And, still near this railway track, there is a Elephant burial, samadhi, Elephant buried. Because when the Elephants cross, they get hit by the train and die. After I came, there is a Elephant buried just near the railway track. Any of you have seen that? There is a small Samadhi built near the under bridge, near the under bridge, and a small stone will be installed... on which, I wanted to install a Ganesha, but we could not do because that has become a railway land. We are not able to install. So… forest, three thousand snakes were here, because the Snake Farm was happening here. When the guys, when they vacated, they did not take all the three thousand, eight hundred has escaped. Participant: Wow!! HDH: When I came to this land, they gave Me this information - “In that three thousand Swamiji, we are not able to vacate, eight hundred escaped, you are going to live with them.” They had a venom park here, they used to extract venom... snake farm here. And when they donated this land to us, they vacated; when they vacated something has happened, eight hundred escaped. They are all in this land. That is the way I was given this land. And thirty two borewells have been dug in this land. No water. Thirty two borewell... no water. When this land owner, previous owner donated this land to Me, this is all the informations he gave. Only the… you can walk and come in, you can’t come with… come by bicycle. Sitting here, I am declaring, this will become an International Organisation, the place where the Enlightenment Science is taught to the world - village boy, who don’t know English who can speak only his mother tongue. Participant: Right HDH: Did I have Collective Consciousness? My Consciousness was collected. That’s all. Participant: Right HDH: Nothing else is responsible for anything other than you... your pure will. Participant: Okay… Okay
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HDH: Please understand, I am talking a practical science. Listen, I am giving you the essence. Whenever there is a inauthenticity in Anyakaara, you end constantly comparing yourself and your life with others. You end up with the jealousy, hurt, anger, suffering, then you are caught in comparison and jealousy. Jealousy is outcome of deep innate violence you carry. Listen, I am putting it in a better way. Please understand, when somebody expects something from you, when their image about you demands your expansion, you are not interested in expansion, the violence you have, you show towards them as jealousy saying “You expect this from me, come on, now I will expect this much from you, you prove.” Getting it? Cognising it? How many of you are cognising it? Jealousy starts to justify; listen, jealousy starts to justify, you not fulfilling others image or… listen, jealousy starts to justify you not fulfilling others image. Understanding? See, I will not fulfil what he wants from me because, he does not fulfil what I want from him. And, I will expand what I want from him before even thinking whether he is going to fulfil or not. If he has ten million, I will put it as hundred million I want from him. Then, go there and say… “See, he is not fulfilling my hundred million so I am not going to fulfil what he wants from me? Getting it? Cognising it? Jealousy starts as the justification. Clear? Then, it becomes a violence to declare your supremacy. Let Me tell you, cognize. Listen. First – “Ay… You have ten Million, if I ask ten million you may give. No, no, no, no, no I will ask hundred, so you can’t. So now, because you are not fulfilling, I can justify why I am not fulfilling, why I am not expanding me to you, because you are not expanding you to me.” As a justification, jealousy starts. Then, you have justified to many people that why you are jealous, why you are jealous, why you are jealous. Your… you have justified to many people and many people have fallen, with your argument and they say, “All right, you are right, you are right, you are right”. Then, the jealousy doesn’t keep quiet, it declares, “Now, I am the supreme”.
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Listen, for example; ‘A’… I say, “Eh… Give me hundred million, you are not giving. So, now I am also not going to fulfil your image, about me.” Then, this fellow, he says, “Yes, yes, right” he falls. Then second fellow comes, for him also, “I am not going to expand to you because you are not expanding to me.” Justification. He falls. So one by one by one, when people start falling, falling, falling, suddenly you declare, “eh, I am the most supreme”. How many of you are cognizing it? Do you see in your life, in some areas, you have declared supremacy? At least one area, you have to declare supremacy to keep yourself alive. If you don’t declare supremacy, even in one place, you cannot tolerate you. How many of you are cognizing me? Clear? Where you declared supremacy, is the root jealousy, suffering pattern with which you are struggling.
EXERCISE Listen, look in and verify at least two situations that happened in your life, where you experience jealousy and used it as a justification mechanism. Means, “He is not fulfilling, why should I fulfil? I am justified.” Some way. And, look in and identify, write down, how this jealousy became a defending mechanism, defending you from your own inauthenticity. When you are not coming for morning Yoga, you say everyone is not coming, then, what is the wrong, nothing wrong, I also don’t need to come. This is the level of the human awareness. I tell you, even the Collective Consciousness theory is nothing but your justification of jealousy, saying that, ‘everybody is like that only, I was also like that.’ And the third, look in, identify and write down how your defending mechanism protected your inauthenticity and how you declared supremacy of your inauthenticity.
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