August 27 2014
Title:
Just stop being desperate
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In today’s (27th August, 2014) morning Satsang, Paramahamsa Nithyananda spoke about how Completion makes you sure about you and how when you have that certainty you know who your enemy is. Desperation and anxiety are caused by casual thoughts not by the root pattern and can be eliminated just by the will to complete. Completion makes you win the game of life by clearing whatever is blinding you to who is attacking.
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Nithyanandeshwara Samaarambhaam Nithyanandeshwari Madhyamaam | Asmath Aachaarya Paryanthaam Vandhey Guru Paramparaam ||
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Today, Vinayaka Chaturthi Brahmotsava, eighth day! Ganesha is gracing all of us on the Ashwa Vaahana, the Horse Vehicle. Today is the Day of Completion. In the Inner Awakening, second day, the Day of Completion. So, I will expand on some of the important principles of Completion.
Please understand, the Science of Completion literally, the Science of Poornathva literally brings you the Poornathva (Completion). The Science of Completion literally brings Completion, whatever may be the conflicts, inside or outside. Most of the time, even you are not convinced you are the hero worthy of success. Even you have a doubt, May be a part of me is villain. That is why failures are happening. Listen! The Self-Doubt, internal conflicts and contradictions, internal confusions what to do, what not to do, whether to do this or not..... Completion, the first thing Completion does is, it brings you to the understanding of Dharma and goes on guiding you.
Please understand, in Western society, it is always like who wins the war writes the history. But, in the Eastern side, it is always like before the war we know who is going to win, because, whoever is thoroughly convinced about themselves wins the war. See, thoroughly getting convinced about you, being sure about you, please understand, thoroughly getting convinced about you, being sure about you happens only when you bring the Science of Completion into your thinking, the Science of Poornathva into your thinking.
Please listen! Listen to this! Deity worship alone by its own right can give you enlightenment. Same way, what J. Krishnamurthy is teaching, the choiceless awareness, that alone by its own strength can give you enlightenment. Deity worship is an independent path; from A to Z it can lead you to enlightenment. Choiceless awareness is an independent path; just by its strength, it can lead you to enlightenment from A to Z. Deity worship or choiceless awareness, both will lead you to complete enlightenment, But you have to be sure about you, what do you want, please understand. The most unfortunate thing is not being sure about yourself.
The Science of Completion, the first thing it does to your being is, bringing clarity to you, being sure about yourself. See, when you do Completion, Poornathwa, some things you will complete, some things you will not be able to complete; you will be struggling with it. With what you are struggling now, based on that, at least you will be sure about you. Please understand, whatever is completed and leaves your system, the oscillation, distractions, dilemmas created by those vague thoughts will disappear. Now you will be sure not only about you, but also about your enemy. Being sure about you makes you understand how to be sure about who is your enemy. Life itself is a great war. When you are sure about you and your enemy, I guarantee, you will win the war! Not only you will win the war, you will win the war without having desperation and anxiety. Because, all desperation, all anxiety is caused just by the casual thoughts. Please understand, all big dilemmas are caused by casual thoughts. It is just casual thoughts which are not scanned with the power of Completion, which are responsible for your desperation and dilemmas. Don't ever think desperation and dilemmas are created by your strong root pattern. No! Desperation and dilemmas are always caused by the passer-by thoughts.
Please understand, this is one of the important revelations, especially for all our followers, disciples who are following the Science of Completion. You need to know, desperation and anxiety is never caused by root pattern. Desperation and anxiety will be caused only by the passer-by thoughts, the casual thoughts. Root pattern causes only delusion. Root pattern does bigger damages. Desperation and anxiety are caused just by the passer-by thoughts. Just by simple Completion you don't need to spend hours just by the remembrance that you are supposed to complete, just by the will to complete, without the help of the technique, the passer-by thoughts can be completed. Please understand, thoughts which can be completed just by will without using the technique of Completion, only those thoughts cause desperation and anxiety. The thoughts which cause desperation and anxiety will not have roots in your system.
All the Inner Awakening participants, please listen! I am repeating. All the satsanghis, please listen! One of the major obstacles you face in your life, the day-to-day life, the constant nagging you do to yourself, is desperation and anxiety. This desperation and anxiety is never caused by root pattern or a strong pattern in your system. No! Desperation and anxiety are always caused by the passer-by thoughts, the casual thoughts. The casual thoughts, the passer-by thoughts... Please understand, when you practice Completion, you will understand. There will be some thoughts, just by the decision to complete I have to complete! the thought will disappear. It will lose its power. That incompletion, that thought will not even come back to you again. Just by the will! You don't even have to sit and find the root, the root incident, and re-live, use the mirror, and relieve. You don't even need to get into the technique. Just by the will and decision, some of the thoughts will fall flat, will get completed. And those thoughts only create anxiety and desperation. That is why I am telling you, it is the anxiety and desperation which you need to conquer first.
Root pattern is the enemy who casts spell on you, delusion on you. If I have to give the example of the Mahabharata War, all these ordinary soldiers are like passer-by thoughts. You are the hero. You cannot be killed by ordinary soldiers. They don't need more than you just blowing or just rotating your sword. The speed of your sword is enough for them to disappear. You don't need to individually fight with them, attack them with your special asthra, shasthra, the divine weapons. No! Reserve the divine weapons for your root patterns. The actual Completion process you need to do to complete your root pattern. Root pattern causes Self-Denial in you. Self-Denial means, even you cherishing your own failure for some perverted reasons. Perverted reasons means, the sympathy which you get when you fail, you start enjoying that, you start tasting that. These are all some of the serious sicknesses.
You need to melt it down by Completion. Do you want to be remembered as a winner or as a man who sacrificed his life for a cause and who is a martyr? Martyrdom is stupidity! It is the word you use for your Self-Denial. Victory is the only thing! Victory is the only possibility of Living Advaitha, Complete Completion. Don't ever visualize martyrdom is cute. No! Don't ever think sacrificing your life for some ideology, some concept, and dying for it is cute. No! Victory is the only cute thing. Victory is the only thing worthy of celebration, understand?
If you start cherishing the idea, Let me be remembered as a person who sacrificed you already started enjoying the sympathy you get after you get failure. Please don't allow that in any venture. Don't prepare the logic to support why you failed. The more you think and prepare the logical reasons to tell everyone why you failed, you are preparing yourself for failure. Only those deeper perversions of Self-Denial is caused by root patterns. The first thing you need to do in your life is, bring tremendous, intense interest towards Completion. Please understand, the power of Bhima is such, Ghatothkacha is such, they don't fight with sepoys, soldiers. When they attack the opposite side enemy, with the force the sepoys just die, the soldiers just die! So, if you have intense interest towards Completion, the day you attack your root pattern, all these casual thoughts which create desperation and anxiety will die just by your force.
Today, I will be guiding you into the Completion of both the levels destroying the passer-by thoughts, the casual thoughts which create anxiety and desperation in you, and, please listen, and the stronger, powerful techniques towards Completion, stronger, powerful techniques towards Completion. If you are constantly engaged by ordinary soldiers the thoughts which create desperation and anxiety in you when are you going to attack the main enemy? The thoughts creating desperation and anxiety should be handled just by will...mere will. And, I tell you, it can be handled! When your desperation and anxiety disappears, only then you will be sure about you and your enemy. I tell you, whoever is sure about who is his enemy wins the war! It is actually the desperation and anxiety of Shakuni and Duryodhana which made them lose the war. Because of their desperation and anxiety, they were making their own side's heroes powerless. How can Bhishma win the war if he is constantly abused of not being faithful? How can Drona win the war if he is constantly kept under the threat, blackmailing, by Ashwatthama? Desperation and anxiety!
I tell you, if Duryodhana was really interested in having the kingdom, but he did not have the desperation for the war, Karna would have surely revealed to Duryodhana that he (Karna) is the senior Pandava, and the Pandavas would have known Karna is the senior Pandava, the son of Kunti, simply the Pandavas would have handed over the kingdom to Karna! And, Karna, such a loyal friend, he would have simply coronated Duryodhana! And that whole thing would have happened in three seconds! One second to reveal that Karna is the senior Pandava, senior to Dhritarashtra; second second, Yudhishtira to surrender to Karna; third second, Karna to surrender to Duryodhana. Over!
But Karna knows Duryodhana is desperate, anxious to kill the Pandavas. He is more interested in killing them, eliminating them, than having the kingdom. buffering at this point In Mahabharata, you can again and again see, they use the weapons to cast a spell on them or to create a huge dust-storm, so that the other team will not be able to know or see who is the enemy. In your inner-space, anxiety and desperation is the huge dust-storm due to which you will not know who is the real enemy; you will not be sure about who you are, where you are, and who is the real enemy. Understand, Completion Science is the weapon to remove the dust-storm, sandstorm. Completion is like a rain; it will just make the sandstorm settle down, dust-storm settle down. You will simply be able to see! You will be sure about you and you will become sure about your opponent. I tell you, Completion, again and again and again is applied, not to become enemyless, but to know who is the enemy, understand? Don't be afraid that by Completion you will become enemyless. No!
You will become sure about your enemy! The anxiety and desperation will always show wrong person as enemy to you. And the person who is anxious, desperate, he can be easily cheated by small-small favours. I have seen how these guys who are interested in just one garland, one shawl, just for that one garland, one shawl on the stage, they will enter into politics! They will not know the mess they are getting into. Just because somebody will put a shawl and garland on them on the stage! It is like you want to get married just because one day you will get a feast, marriage feast! If you want a marriage feast, go to somebody else's marriage, and eat and come back! Just for marriage feast don't plan for marriage; you will not know what a big mess you are getting into, understand!
See, if you WANT to get married, and you are getting married, then it is great. Then you know you are responsible. Desperation and anxiety will make you do major decisions for small reasons. It will make you do big damages to yourself because you are temporarily upset. I have seen people doing that. Just because they are temporarily upset, they do permanent damages. Completion is needed, Completion needs to be again and again practised to help you to be out of desperation and anxiety, to remove desperation and anxiety from your decision-making process. Please understand, if your decision-making process is filled, the space where you make decisions, if it is filled with desperation and anxiety, you will make stupid decisions. Because you cannot accept you made stupid decisions, you go on claiming you sacrificed your life for one reason.
Only if victory is achieved you have a right to use the word "sacrifice". If not, you "wasted"; it is not "sacrifice". Wasting is not sacrifice, understand? Wasting is not sacrifice. If somebody says you have sacrificed even after you lose, it is like you are given Consolation Prize. Consolation Prize is not Prize; it is consolation, understand! Actually, if you just remove desperation and anxiety, simply you will know what is Dharma! Simply you will know what is Dharma! Nothing else is required! The inner-space without desperation and anxiety is established in Dharma. The dharmic inner-space will not cherish anxiety and desperation, will not be comfortable with anxiety and desperation. And, the inner-space established in Dharma, Completion, will also know the technique how to put the opponent into the space of anxiety and desperation. It will be like a simple play. To finish off Bhishma, to finish off Drona, to finish off Karna, all it took for Krishna is just a few minutes. The moment he brought them clarity.... done!
The work is done! Understand, bring Completion into your life more and more and more; you will become more and more sharper in the war you are waging. Please understand, withdrawal never, never, never, can never be the solution. Wherever withdrawal is given as a solution, be sure, there Advaitha is not taught, but cowardness is preached with a beautiful covering! Advaitha is always established on activism. Activism is always established on Advaitha. Only the activism which is established in Advaitha becomes successful, please understand. The activism established in Advaithic understanding, Advaithic context, always becomes successful.
In the space of Completion you are sure about who you are and who your enemy is, and you will not raise, you will not be caught in anxiety and desperation. You may raise it for others, but you yourself will never be caught in it. You may raise a sandstorm, but you will not be caught in it. You may raise it so that the others will be caught in it. You yourself will never be caught in it. Understand, I wanted all of you to understand, all your life, whether you are an ordinary teacher, or an engineer, or a lawyer, or a doctor, or politician, or a housewife, be very clear, you are waging a war, you are waging a war! And, the first thing you need to do is, stop this sandstorm, dust-storm, anxiety and desperation, by Completion. The Science of Completion is so powerful, the anxiety and desperation will settle down just the moment you remember that you have to complete! Smaranaath Mukthi!
Just by remembrance, liberation! Just by the remembrance you have to complete, the anxiety and desperation will melt down. Melting down the anxiety and desperation is the first action you have to do before starting any war, because, only then you will know, you will be sure about what you are, and you will be sure about who is your enemy, you will be sure about who is casually joining them. See, all your enemies are not completely your enemies out and out. They might have taken an opposite stand to you for various reasons. When you wage the war without anxiety and desperation, you will know why somebody is your friend, why somebody is your enemy, and what is the reason for his enmity, and you will simply know what to do to make him lose his enmity towards you.
Please understand, most of the time you will win the war just by making the opponent to lose his enmity towards you. You don't even need to fight with him. Most of the time his enmity is stupidity. And stupidity will never stand, stupidity will not give strength to somebody to constantly handle their anxiety and desperation. So, a little bit of anxiety and desperation is antidote for their stupidity.
If somebody is not backing out even with a little anxiety and desperation, then he is your enemy. Plan only to fight with him. Don't waste your energy here and there, here and there, here and there. Whether you are waging the war in your inner-space or the outer world, that is the law of war, law of life. Even in your inner-space, smoking itself may not be a big pattern you have to conquer. Please understand, the anxiety and desperation you feel in the tongue, constantly forces you to smoke. But the root of the anxiety and desperation you feel in the tongue is lovelessness.
If you look back, somewhere you would have been denied love. That is the root pattern. If you are wasting your time in fighting with quitting smoking, you will never be successful. This smoking is just a solution for the desperation and anxiety you are feeling in your tongue. Complete with it and go back to the root. In the young age, for some reason if you are denied love, very subtly the powerful anxiety and desperation gets developed in the centre of the tongue, please understand. These are some of the energy-circle based truths, the energy-circuit diagnostic methods. The heaviness you feel in the centre of the chest is always your desperation that you will not get what you really, really want in your life. If you complete with that, this desperation will disappear, this heaviness in the chest will disappear.
The anxiety and desperation you feel in the centre of the tongue is because the experience of love was denied in you, denied for you, experience of lovelessness in your life. People who smoke in the anxiety and desperation can very easily be cheated. You don't need to make big-big plans to cheat them and divert them, to win them in their life. You just drop a two rupee note on the ground. They will bend to pick up that two rupee even at the cost of losing their own wallet! The people who have anxiety and desperation in the centre of their tongue, only for them this proverb will match: Penny wise, Pound foolish. Desperation and anxiety should be completed first. Life should be handled without desperation and anxiety in your inner-space. Completion does that to you. Completion does that to you.
Completion is the science makes you win the game of life everywhere, understand? Wherever you are playing the game, whether you are playing in IT company or a legal battle or you are a doctor or you are an engineer or you are a scientist or you are an activist whatever may be the war you are waging Completion really really really makes you win the game. And all the self doubt self hatred, self denial patterns which are responsible for you not winning the war and go on justifying it. Justifying your failure is the worst thing that can happen to a human-being. At least know it very clearly even you are a failure so that you can take the body again and come back and win the game again, win the game in the next birth. If you are a Hindu you have the luxury of many births.
Understand, the biggest luxury a man can get is any number of lives. That is only available for Sanatana Hindus. That is only available for Hindus. Others, even if the option is given, because they live with such a strong faith that one more birth is not possible, they live like stones when they are given the second birth option, because they are not prepared for it. That is why, I am telling you, when you are living, you should have the clarity that more births are available, many more births are possible, so that you are constantly mentally prepared for it.
When you are given that option, you will simply be able to play! Denial of the truth of many births possible is one of the biggest, biggest wrong ideas taught to human-beings. See, it is like you tell somebody that after seven kilometres there is no road; and this fellow goes there and he sees multiple roads, but he does not know how to drive there because he was not prepared! Keeping human-beings in the dark and not letting them prepare for their future is the biggest mistake. That is why, I am telling you, if you are from the tradition of Sanatana Hindu Dharma, you are rightly informed and prepared for your complete life. See, a person, during his whole life, when he has the cognition that he has more births and whatever he has not completed now he is going to come back and complete, life is a continuity, if he lives with this cognition, believes this cognition, when he dies and options of many births are given, he is prepared to choose, he is prepared for further journey. Knowing that journey is not going to end after death, itself is the greatest preparation you have done for further journey!
That itself is the greatest blessing! That is why, sometimes, when I stand in front of Kapila, Mahadeva, I tell them, Oh, God, you are so great! You made me take birth in Sanatana Hindu Dharma and gave me all these truths at a very young age, where, based on these truths, my life, my thinking, my decisions, my cognition, everything is built. So nice! But, I am built on solid foundation!
If you are from the Sanatana Hindu Dharma, you should celebrate just because all these questions are answered in a right, factual manner to you. Please understand, in a factual manner. That is the most beautiful thing! Completion releases you from anxiety and desperation. It releases you from anxiety and desperation. Complete! Complete! Complete! Wherever you are, whatever you are, whoever you are, this is the solution! Completion is the Complete Solution!
With this, I bless you all! Let you all radiate with Integrity, Authenticity, Responsibility, Enriching and Causing eternal bliss, Nithyananda! Thank you!
