November 09 2014

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Genesis of Identity session from the Nithya Dhyan Yoga program conducted by Paramahamsa Nithyananda. The various components of identity - inner image, outer image, others' image and life image - are presented in this section. As well as the gaps that fall between the images and effects of those gaps: self-doubt, self-hatred and self-denial, also known as SDHD. Together this is the introduction to you, to the genesis of your identity. It gives you the tools to move from an inauthentic identity to an authentic identity.

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This discourse delivered on 9 Nov 2014, Paramahamsa Nithyananda guides the participants into initiating the Science of Completion

Transcript:

Now, I want you to understand basically few things about you.

00:22

Please listen! I am going to now introduce you to You; that's very important, finding you to You. If you find You, you found God. If you don't find You, you have not found God, you have not found anything. You don't know what is joy, you don't know what is pain, you don't know what is pleasure. If you don't know You, how will you know what is your pain and what is your pleasure, what is good for you, what is bad for you?

1:03

You will only have the rough idea about what is good for you, what is bad for you from others, not from you. I tell you, anything which you don't want to face in your life is because you don't know You, you don't know You.

1:27

I am introducing you to You. I am trying to create a drawing, all of us together. Listen! Whatever you think about you inside You, whatever you believe strongly as You inside you is inner image. Whatever you think as You inside you is inner image.

2:40

If you see sometimes you will feel you will be always successful in everything; if you see sometimes you will feel you will always be failure in everything. Whatever you think as You in you is your inner image.

3:00

How you show You to others, how you show yourself to others, that is outer image; that is outer image. Understand! Whatever you show as You to others; usually, you show through your words, body language, the way you project You, that is outer image. Mostly, this inner image and outer image will be inconsistent. They will not be matching with each other. Inner image will be lower than what you are, outer image will be higher than what you are. There will be a big gap.

4:16

What you think as, what you feel as you and what you speak as you, this gap, the gap between mouth and the heart; that is what I call confusion in life. Anyhow, I can say in a way source of confusion.

4:41

This inner image, outer image, then, what others perceive about you; whatever you may show, people will have their own ideas about you. They will perceive you in their own way, that is called other's image. That is called other's image.

5:20

Inner image, outer image, other's image, how others perceive you.

And, please listen, when you want all the benefits from others and society, you are bound to take responsibility for how others perceive you. You can't say how others perceive me, I am not responsible for that. No! You can't say that, you are responsible for how others perceive you. You are responsible for how others perceive you.

6:39

So understand, how others perceive you, other's image, you are responsible. And, how you perceive the world and life, what you have in your head about life; you may think life is exploiting, all the four-letter words you may have about life and others, that is called life image.

7:26

Understand! If you have a wrong life image, even if you are living in a palace with all the pleasures of life, best things life and others can give you, you will still continue to be in a deeply deprived space and state because able to have a right life image and trust others is one of the luxuries you can have in life. Being careful is different, constantly being frightened is different. Being careful is different, constantly being frightened is different. I'll give you experiential explanation about these 4 words-inner image, outer image, other's image, and life image from my own experience.

8:32

Listen! When I look inside me, my inner image, I see a vast, powerful space of Purnatva, complete Completion or Shūnatva, emptiness, living emptiness. You can call that as a soul, God, energy, Mahadeva, whatever, a complete space. That's the exact inner image I am carrying.

9:20

Outer image. Listen! Outer image, how I project myself. I am projecting myself as a being to transmit that experience to all of you. You can call as an Enlightened Master or a teacher or an Incarnation, whatever way you want. You can give any title. I am a being to transmit that experience. That's my outer image, declared outer image.

10:02

Other's image. Listen! Other's image. I may declare that I am here to transmit this Enlightenment experience to you, but people expect that I should heal their physical pain, mental pain, I should bless them for wealth, I should bless them for a healing relationship, peace, bliss, contentment, completion. See, the other's image, what people perceive from me and expect from me, may be it is different than what I declare, but even then I am responsible because whatever they expect is within the purview of my declaration.

11:02

Please understand! When I say, I am here to transmit that experience to you; to give that experience to you, I have to give you at least 1000 volt spiritual energy, but to clear your cancer or headache, I need to give only 0.5 volt energy. So, if you expect me to heal your physical problem, I am responsible for it because that falls in the purview of my declaration.

11:38

Anything which can be done by the transmission of energy and experience of Enlightenment, the side effect, after effect, byproduct of transmission of energy, you have a right to expect from me because that comes within the purview of my declaration. It is my responsibility to fulfill it. Only if you expect that I should win the World Cup, playing the football match, I am not responsible for it because that doesn't come under my declaration, the purview of my declaration. But, anything you expect in the line of physical health, mental health, complete relationships, wealth, fulfilment, completion, Enlightenment, I am responsible for it. Either, I have to give you that; if you are not ready to receive, I have to prepare you and give you that, but till you achieve it I am responsible. This is what is taking responsibility for other's image.

12:59

And, the life image, the image I have about life and others. The whole world is here to celebrate this joy with me, to celebrate this bliss with me, to celebrate this completion with me, that's all!

13:25

So, understand! Now, you also look in and find out the inner image you have, outer image you project, other's image you created, for which you are responsible, and life image you are having about life and others. Pen down exactly what you have. Then, we will find out the root cause of all the problems you have in your life. Then, we will build the right inner image, outer image, life image, and other's image.

Come on! First, let's spend little time in finding the inner image you are having, outer image you are having, other's image you are having, life image you are having without editing. Please start penning down.

(Please distribute the assignment sheet of Genesis Of Your Identity).

15:36

Now, I wanted to give you some deeper insights based on your introspection, your internalysis, your contemplation. How many of you found in your experience, listen carefully, how many of you found in your experience there is a gap between how you think about you and how you show you? Means, gap between inner image and outer image? Raise your hands! If there is a gap between inner image and outer image, how you think of You and how you project You to others. In this gap, self-doubt starts.

Understand! For example, you go to attend an interview, you know you are not capable of something, but you sell yourself to your boss saying, "Eh! I can do it", and boss is convinced and he gives you the job. When you come back, suddenly you feel you convinced others, but you yourself are not convinced. Then, what is the truth?

17:18

The doubt about yourself starts raising which will start coming up in every level of your life, in your health, in your relationship. Everywhere, this doubt will start raising. That is what I call self-doubt. How many of you think you have this self-doubt, raise your hands. We will have to now find that and complete.

17:55

Second, how you project yourself to others-outer image; how others perceive you-other's image. You may project yourself very humble person, simple person. Others will say, "See, see, see, this fellow acting, acting, acting". You may project as a humble, simple person, others will say, "See, see, this fellow how he is acting". How many of you experienced this? Raise your hand. You may project yourself in one way, others completely perceive in a different way; raise your hand, let me see, the gap between outer image and other's image.

18:53

Listen! When others perceive you in a different way, you naturally start feeling you are not enough unto yourself. You will start feeling I am not enough.That is the source of all the self-hatred. Please understand, self-hatred-when you project yourself in some way, but others perceive in some other way, when you become powerless about it and you start hating yourself, "I am not enough, I am not sufficient, others are not believing how I am projecting me". That is self-hatred.

19:48

Next, listen! Next, how many of you feel that you have this self-hatred? Raise your hand! You feel you are not enough, raise your hand, let me see. Yes! That is self-hatred, we need to find out this, source of this, and complete with it.

20:20

Third, this is the very important thing. Other's image-how others expect you. Life image-how you expect others. See the fun, everyone around you will be telling you should understand people more, you should be more listening, you should have more understanding, but you will strongly believe everyone around me are incomplete, they should understand me more. You will believe everyone around you are incomplete and they don't understand anything, they should understand you and transform themselves, but they will all believe you are incomplete, you should understand them more and transform. How many of you have this tug of war? Raise your hand! This is what I call self-denial. Whatever is denying it, constant denial, the gap between what you think about others and what others think about you. This gap makes you start denying everything.

21:40

See, when you want everyone to understand you and change and everyone around you want you to understand and change, there is a deadlock and you become powerless, you don't do anything. This becomes a lifestyle, time passes, day passes, you don't think, you don't walk that extra mile you need to walk. You constantly live in denial. All breakdown in life happens in denial. Understand! All breakdown happens in self-denial.

22:29

How many of you think you have self-denial? Now, it is time you sit and pen down all the self-doubt you have, self-hatred you have, self-denial you have, SDHD. Like ADHD for kids, SDHD for grownup kids. SDHD pattern.

22:55

I wanted all of you to spend little time now and understand the self-doubts you have and the incidents when it started in you; self-hatred you have and incidents when it started in you; self-denial patterns you have and incidents when it started in you. Start! SDHD. Start penning down.

We intranalised about the inner image we have, outer image we have, life image we have, other's image we have, which is very inauthentic. That is why you have so much of SDHD, self-doubt, self-hatred, self-denial.

23:51

Let us contemplate the inner image you want to have and pen down, the outer image you want to have and pen down, other's image you want to have and pen down, life image you want to have and pen down.

24:09

Please listen, what you have is inauthentic; what you want to have, if you pen down, you will see authenticity there. I'll explain after you write what you want to have, how to have what you want to have.

First, think through and pen down what you want to have:

-The best inner image you want to have

-Best outer image you want to have

-Best other's image you want to have

-Best life image you want to have

24:54

Please pen down! Please pen down!

Now please listen, after all this intranalysis, you will now know very clearly what are the patterns which are stopping you from becoming what you want to be; means, the gap between your inauthentic image and authentic image. For example, your authentic image, you may want to get up everyday early morning 5 o'clock and do yoga, but your inauthentic image, early morning when 5 o'clock alarm bell rings, no, you don't want to get up, tired, feeling sleepy. Then, what is it stopping you from becoming authentic? Your tiredness, boredom. When you started developing this? Your tiredness and boredom is the incompletion, when you started developing it? Find the incidents.

26:10

Same way, in your authentic image, you want to be just fearless, want to go for a beautiful night walk in the moonlight on full moon day in the forest, but the inauthenticity creates fear, fear of animals, ghost, and what not. So, what is it that stops you from living your authenticity, the fear pattern. So, pen down your incompletion and when those fears started in you. How many of you understand what I am saying? Please raise your hand!

26:55

So understand, all the incompletion patterns which stop you living your authentic image. What stops you living your inner image, outer image, other's image, life image? The past thoughts, emotions, patterns, hangovers, residues sitting in the present and suffocating you, not letting you live your future is incompletion. The past thoughts, emotions, patterns, hangovers, residues sitting in the present and suffocating you, not letting you live your future is incompletion.

27:54

So understand! Think and look in, pen down at least 11 incompletions. You must be having 11,000, that's different, at least 11, pen down the 11 incompletions stopping you from becoming authentic, and the incidents when those incompletions started in you, as early as you remember. Pen them down.

28:41

I bless you all let's all radiate with integrity, authenticity, responsibility, enriching and causing eternal bliss. Nithyananda!

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