August 22 2013

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Relationships Pattern or Possibility.

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Relationships can lead to more and more bondage or more and more liberation. When you see you as possibility - it is liberation. You should not live with a person who sees you as pattern, that is bondage forever.You should live with a person who sees your possibility; that is liberation. Master is the eternal reminder of your Possibility.

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Nithyanandeshwara Samaarambhaam Nithyanandeshwari Madhyamaam |
Asmath Aachaarya Paryanthaam Vandhey Guru Paramparaam ||

I welcome all of you with my love and blessings.

Today, Mahadeva is gracing us in the Leela of giving birth to Ugra Pandya.

When Meenakshi, Devi herself came down to Madurai, Mahadeva himself came down to marry. So naturally, Subramanya himself has to come down as their son. So, Ugra Pandya, who is the Mahadeva’s son…..Subramanya himself takes incarnation as Ugra Pandya. Today, Mahadeva graces in this Leela.

I will enter into today’s satsang.

Today’s subject for Nithya Satsang is: “RELATIONSHIP – PATTERN OR POSSIBILITY”.

Actually, in today’s Inner Awakening program, we will be working on relationships. Please understand, your relationships can lead you to get more and more imprisoned into your patterns, or it can lead you to more and more experience your possibility. Relationships, it can lead to patterns or possibilities.

Husband sent a text to his wife at night, ‘Hi, I will get late. Please try and wash all my dirty clothes, and make sure you prepare my favorite dish before I return for dinner.’

He sent another text, ‘And I forgot to tell you that I got an increase in my salary. At the end of this month, I am getting you a new car.’

She immediately text back, ‘Oh my god! really?’

Husband replied, ‘No, I just wanted to make sure you got my first message!’

Husband texts to wife on cell, ‘Hi, what are you doing darling?’

Wife, ‘I am dying.’

Husband jumps with joy but types, ‘Sweetheart, how can I live without you?’

Wife texts back, ‘You idiot! I am dyeing my hair!’

Husband, ‘Bloody English language!’

(Laughter)

Boss hangs a poster in his office, “I AM THE BOSS! DO NOT FORGET!”

He goes to lunch and comes back from lunch break. He finds a slip on his desk, ‘Your wife called and she wants her poster back home!’

Understand, relationships can either lead to more and more imprisonment in your patterns or liberation – Patterns or Possibility! It can lead you to more and more space of possibility. The first and foremost fundamental relationship that exists for you is the relationship between your pattern and your possibility.

Please understand! Please come to the space of listening! Listen!

I am not talking about with whom you relate, with what you relate. I am not talking about your relationship with your husband, wife, brother, sister, father, mother. I am not talking even about all that. I am talking about from which space you start relating. I tell you, if you relate from the space of possibility, even if you live with a large family, you are a great sannyasi, enlightened being! If you relate based on the patterns, even if you are living alone, you are bound, “baddha”, fallen grihastha! Understand, grihastha or sannyasi, bound or liberated, is no way connected to the number of people you live with or relate with. It connects with the space from which you operate.

If you see every human-being as a possibility, for that you also should see you as a possibility. Understand, when you see you as a possibility, you will see everyone as a possibility. When you see everyone as a possibility, life, wherever you may be living, whatever you may be doing, you will be living with Vijaya Lakshmi! Means, “Lakshmi of Victory”! Don’t say my next house girl is Vijayalakshmi, my neighbor’s name is Vijayalakshmi, my next house girl is Vijayalakshmi! HAHAHAHAHAHAHA! When I said the name Vijaya Lakshmi I meant the lord, Deity of Victory, the Goddess of Victory!

Please understand, how you see you, how you see others, how you see you and how you see others, all relationships you experience in your life can only from be two spaces, two spaces. One….listen, please listen, because I am giving you the punch statements for your life!

· One, inside the frame and perception given by your Pattern.

· Two, Inside the frame and perception given by your Possibility.

When you are able to see people as possibility, you will have tremendous patience. All ashramites will understand this statement. You will have tremendous patience. You will wait,wait,wait,wait and go on reminding, I am nothing but a reminder. I am nothing but a reminder. When you see the possibilities, I can say in a way i am eternal reminder. When I see the possibilities, please understand, when I see the possibilities, your cognition starts functioning based on compassion. I tell you, please understand, even if you feel suffocating, imprisoned, live with a person who sees your possibility. Even if you feel free, liberated, don’t live with people who see you only from pattern.

I am defining “real freedom” and “real bondage”.

Living with a person who sees your possibility or who sees yourself as a possibility, who has seen his possibility, and who sees you as possibility, even life around him, with him, feels like suffocating or bondage, live with him!

I know one brahmachari who ran away just saying, ‘Oh, God! Morning exactly I have to get up and go for Yoga, then Guru Puja, then satsangh! I can’t live like that! It is a bondage for me!’

It will look like bondage, but I tell you, live under a person who sees your possibility, that is real liberation! Every day you move, every day you pass in your life leads you to higher possibilities.

I tell you, Ramakrishna saw the possibility in Vivekananda. A person who has seen his possibility, even if he sees possibility in you, you will become the possibility! Listen, because by the time I see my possibility into reality, I know all the right, wrong turns, everything, how to see a possibility and how to make a possibility into reality. I already go through a through, perfect training.

A person who has seen his possibility and seen his possibility into reality, when he sees your possibility, sees you as possibility, I tell you, it is the assurance you can take it (you can rest assured) you are going to become your possibility! Just be with him! Just stick to him! Just stick to him!

Even if you feel your life feels free…….. Hippies are completely free. They don’t wash their hair. What hair? even their body they don’t wash! Yesterday I was doing some research. I wanted to make this matted lock as a modern hairstyle, very popular hairstyle, Shiva’s hairstyle. I was planning how to make this as a popular hairstyle, Shiva Jata, and I was studying various websites, the hairstyle of different religious backgrounds, spiritual groups, theologist, sadhus, monks, different monastic orders, and the modern-day fashion hairstyle, I was studying all these, spending few hours on it. And I felt, now it is the time Shaivism to rule the world! So understand When I went through I saw many of their lifestyle, they don’t take bath, they don’t take care of the body whether it is a, anything accepted by the society they reject. I tell you even if you feel all that as a freedom, don’t live with people surrounded-don’t be surrounded by people who sees as you only as pattern that is bondage forever! You may have the freedom to smoke cigarette through your mouth or whatever way you want, you may have the freedom to eat what you want, you may have the freedom to do what you want the whole day, but the real freedom is seeing you as possibility, and possibility becoming reality!

Please understand:

· Being seen by the person who sees you as possibility is “Nayana Deeksha”.

· Seeing the person who sees you as a possibility is “Darshan”.

· Being touched by the person who sees you as possibility is “Initiation”.

· Living with a person who sees you as possibility is “Salokya Mukthi”.

· I tell you, sitting at the feet of the person who sees you as your possibility is “Upanishad”.

However difficult it may be, live with the person who sees you as your possibility.

Doctor may use injections, medicines, do surgery, but you have to live with him if you want to become healthy. McDonald’s will give you whatever you want; your whole tongue will enjoy-mouth-watery dishes. Now they have invented a new methodology, even catching your eyes by arranging it in such a way, arranging food in a very colorful way, like a beautiful way, it looks like a art! No! Food should be stopped to its sense – tongue. It is like “food pornography”! That is what! What is pornography? Pleasure of one sense, the other senses also forcibly involved. When a few senses involved in one pleasure, it becomes such a strong power over you, you are caught in it! You are caught in it!

Pleasure, pleasure of one sense should not get involved with other sense. The pleasure of some other sense should not be involved by one sense. Listen, the pleasure of tasting you should not involve eyes also into it. The pleasure of touch, you should not involve the sound or the sight or taste into it. You may eat what you want, you may live as you want, but if you are surrounded by people who sees you only as a pattern, because they see themselves only as a pattern, because they have never seen their possibility, they never see you as a possibility. I tell you, that is bondage! That is bondage!

People who see you as only pleasure, people who see you only as “use and throw”, people who see you only as a short-time associate, please understand, listen, listen these word, that is why so many so-called religious, spiritual organizations are volunteer-based, not sannyasi-based. They say, ‘Come! Celebrate your freedom here for some time. And when you are feeling bored…..Bye!’

I am very clear, even if I run the Sangha with a handful of people, I will run only with my sannyasis, because sannyasi is a person who says “Yes” for me to see him as his possibility. The moment he is not ready to see what I see him as possibility, if he doesn’t want to see, he disappears. All the struggle in spiritual practice is nothing but you trying to see yourself as the same possibility like how your Guru sees you. I tell you, even being seen by people who sees you as pattern is inauspicious, apashakuna! People who see themselves as only patterns, who don’t see themselves as possibility, who see themselves only as pattern, and who sees you also as pattern, being seen by them is apashakuna! Go and take bath immediately!

Living around the people who sees you only as pattern is dangerous! I tell you from my experience, having people who see themselves as patterns, and who see you also only as a pattern, is dangerous! It is just living with criminals. They will do any crime! They will go to any extent of any crime! At any given point in time, you relate with yourself, others and life, either operating from your pattern or operating from your possibility. When you are in the state of incompletion, you are relating with yourself and others and life, being established in your pattern. Please understand, if you want fresh breeze in your life, if you want the new breeze in your life, the one and only way is - start seeing people as their possibility. Stop seeing you and others continuously based on your pattern. That is the reason even after making two hundred failures, I will see the person has a possibility once more. And, I tell you, every time I see a person as a possibility and forgive his pattern-based action, I am initiating him! I am initiating him!

In Vedanta, there is a beautiful tradition, an example, called “Brahmari Keeta Nyaya”. Brahmari Keeta Nyaya means, the Bee and the Worm, the logic of the Bee and the Worm. Bee picks up a small worm and keeps it in a small shell made out of mud, will go on creating a sound. Just through the sound, the bee will make the worm into a bee!

Please understand, all sound that enters into your mind, anything entered in your mind, will become reality. That is why, I constantly infuse uncompromising possibility into you, so that when it enters in your mind, it will become reality. When it enters in your mind, it will become reality. What enters in your mind matters, because mind matters. What you listen about you matters, because mind matters. What you see as you matters, because what you see as you is going to become reality!

I have seen my possibility, and I have made my possibility into reality, and I have seen all the obstacles, ups and downs we need to go through, everything we will go through when we move from our possibility to reality, I have seen the whole thing. I saw my possibility at the age of twelve; and I made my possibility into reality at the age of twenty-two; and my reality which I realized, everyone has started realizing from the age of twenty-five. Seeing my possibility by myself, I call “Enlightenment”. Making my possibility into reality is what I call making my reality into “Avataric Mission”. Others experiencing their possibility into reality due to my presence is what I call “Sangha”.

Understand, I have seen, I have seen my possibility, and I can see each one of your possibility. I have made my possibility into reality with tremendous patience and training. I can do the same for you. Understand, living with a person who has seen his possibility into reality guarantees your possibility will become reality! That is the insurance and assurance! That is the real Life Insurance! See, all life insurance which you know are “death insurance”. If you die, they will give money! But, what is “Life Insurance”? Making you live to your possibility is the real Life Insurance! The person who has seen his possibility and made his possibility into reality, the person who sees your possibility and makes your possibility into reality, is giving you the Life Insurance!

Your patterns are so intelligent, sometimes they don’t let you go near somebody who sees you as possibility. Your pattern is the most intelligent pattern if it does not allow you to sit with an enlightened being, sit with a Master. It is like, “an intelligent wife is someone who makes sure she spends so much that her husband can’t afford another woman!” Same way, your pattern, your pattern, if it doesn’t let you sit with your Master, I tell you, that is the most powerful pattern! I have seen, I have seen this happening! You may celebrate your freedom by drinking, eating, jumping, running around, anarchic life. But I tell you, still if you see you as only as your pattern, it is not freedom. Freedom is seeing you as your possibility. Only when you see you as your possibility, the newness, fresh breeze enters your life! Fresh breeze enters your life! Fresh possibility enters your life!

Husband asked the wife, ‘Will you marry if I die?’

Wife says, ‘No! I will go and live with my sister.’

Wife asks, ‘What will you do if I die?’

Husband says, ‘I will also go and live with your sister!’

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHA!!!

Understand, functioning out of pattern is not fresh life. I think the West has realized it. That is why, in such a big number, they are turning towards the East. The West has realized it. How much ever you may have freedom in the so called world, till you are free from the patterns, freedom is not freedom! This middle-age boredom is the biggest sickness all the developed countries are suffering from. Anything money can buy, you have it. Now what to do about something which money can’t give you? Anything money can buy, you have it, because Government provides it. Now, what to do about that which Government itself does not have?

Seeing you as a pattern by yourself is keeping you as a slave by you. If somebody else sees you as a pattern, who is higher than you, like Government, society, they keep you as their slave. If anybody sees you as a possibility, even in their day-to-day life if you feel little suffocated, I tell you, that is real freedom! As I said, real freedom is freedom to wake up every day without break and be able to do your spiritual practice, the line, a path through which you progress which you forgot again and again, is real freedom. In India, I have seen people who make just five rupees a day or five-hundred crores a day. A person who makes five rupees a day or five-hundred crores a day, a person who makes 5 rupees a day and 500 hundred crores a day both does not have the freedom to wake up every morning precisely in brahma muhurtha, 4:30, and till 10:00 spending his time on the spiritual enlightenment, seeing and realizing his possibility. Both doesn’t have the time. Then, if you have the time and space dedicated for just for this becoming your possibility, these morning five hours, first five hours of your life, then that is the ultimate freedom! Seeing you as a possibility means seeing you as a high achiever! <Hindi text>

Sit straight. Close your eyes. Visualize you have become Bidadi Kalpavriksha, and inhale through both nostrils and the mouth simultaneously. Hold as long as you can. Exhale through both nostrils as slowly as you can. With this, Do this Kriya for the next twenty-one minutes.

With Integrity, Authenticity, Responsibility and Enriching, I bless you all! Let you all experience Kundalini awakening, and let you all live health, bliss and enlightenment by creating the energy directly from space!

Namah Shivaya!

Let you all achieve, experience, live, express, radiate, share and explode in eternal bliss. Nithyanandam!