April 13 2013

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Drop your Fantasies about Failure

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In today’s morning satsang, Paramahamsa Nithyananda presents the solution for our fear of failure. Fear is a negative agreement we make with ourselves. When we wonder what failure may feel like and try to imagine it as a reality, we are creating a fantasy and giving it power to manifest, just as we create fantasies about positive events. Many people believe they are “preparing” for failure so they have a plan in readiness. But the actual event of failure, like death, is always unexpected. When we replace our belief in failure with positive commitments to ourselves we discover integrity – lack of conflict. Once we are integrated, there is neither fear nor failure.

Transcript:

Drop your Fantasies about Failure

Nithyanandeshwara Samaarambhaam Nithyanandeshwari Madhyamaam |

Nithyanada Paryanthaam Vandhey Guru Paramparaam ||

I welcome you all with my love and respects.

00:49 [hindi]

01:17

Please listen, integrity, authenticity, responsibility and enriching; what these four principles can cause in you when you practice them with integrity, authenticity, responsibility and enriching. When you start practicing integrity with integrity, you will be aware of every thought you are having. Most of the time you are caught in fear, jealousy, anger, lust before you even become aware.

Many a time, people come and tell me, ‘I am not able to get out of my fear.’ Please listen! Why you are not able to get out? Because already you committed to yourself many times with that negativity. For example, ‘I am going to be destroyed, I am going to be destroyed, I am going to be destroyed, I am going to be destroyed. This is the way it is going to happen, I am going to be a loser, loser, loser’ Means, hundred times you have committed to yourself you are going to be the loser. Then, naturally, whole energy of you will be working only to fulfill that concept, the commitment you gave to you that you are a loser.

Only once if you say, ‘I am a winner’, that will look too silly. It is like for the sake of argument you say. Sometimes you know your spouse is going to win the whole argument, but just to record your opposition, you make some statement knowing that you are going to be a failure. Exactly that is the way it will look after you utter a hundred times you are a loser to yourself, only once you are a winner. It is your wrong commitments to you, makes you feel you are a loser. I tell you, other than your negative commitments to you, you don’t have any enemy in your life. Just understand and liberate yourself. I am not teaching you, I am not inspiring you, I am not ordering you! I am requesting you.

I know the space of utter positivity, a complete positivity. I know the space, I cherished that space, I am cherishing that space. I am exactly in the mood of the rishi when he screamed at the peak of his voice, ‘shrunvanthu Vishwe Amruthasya Puthraaha vedaahamekam purusham mahaantam; Oh sons of immortaility, I know the path to it. Wake up and start achieving it’

I tell you, whenever you uttered a negative word to yourself ‘I may be failure’, for example, ‘I may be a failure, I may lose that, I may not achieve it’, immediately remember it is a negative commitment you are giving to you. Drop it. Your mind may say, ‘No, no, no. If I suddenly really fail, what to do? Atleast if I think through before, I will be ready for failure.’

There is no such thing as ‘ready for failure’, because your failure will always be from the unexpected zone, if at all there is going to be failure. So, all your expectations and pre-commitment towards your failure is not precaution. It is not going to help you in any way.

People ask me, ‘I don’t want to be surprised when the failure comes.’

First of all, it is not going to come if you don’t prophesize. Second, even the fear that ‘I won’t be able to handle fear if it comes as a surprise’, is one more fear, one more negative commitment you gave it to you.

See, the layers and layers of negative commitment you gave it to you. First of all, it is not going to come if you don’t create the self-fulfilling prophecies. Second, even if it comes, you have all the capacity to face it. There is no such thing as you cannot face the failure if it comes without your expectation. That is one more negative commitment you gave to you. How many of you are cognizing this, ‘I will not be able to face the fear if it comes surprisingly, is the only logic you use constantly to create negative patterns in you’. How many of you cognize this? Getting it? That itself is one more negative commitment you give!

Death is going to come suddenly only and you are going to face it. Everything you call as failure is going to come suddenly only and you are going to face it. There are millions of times what you call as failure came to you only suddenly and you have faced it. ‘You will not be able to face if something happens surprisingly,’ is one more negative commitment you gave it to you.

Sit and undo layer by layer the negative commitments which you gave it to you and complete them. You have to remember and complete and drop. Only then you can really conquer it. You can’t just say, ‘I drop hereby all the negative commitments I gave it to me, no’. First you need to know all the negative commitments you gave. That will happen only when you start with you and start doing the completion.

Once you drop that negative commitment you gave to you ‘I cannot face failure surprise’, when you complete that commitment and drop it, that negative commitment when you drop that, then you cannot justify your planning for failure, your negative plans in any form, in any way.

Listen. ‘I cannot face if a failure comes as a surprise’ is the only reason you go on imagining, visualizing different possibility of failures and give negative commitments to yourself as a failure. How many of you cognize it? This is one of the important click you need to have today. First thing, the failures are not going to come. Second thing, you are capable of facing it if it comes. So, drop fantasizing about failures. Drop visualizing about failures. Drop giving negative commitments about failures.

10:31 [hindi]

13:02

When u drop, when u decide to drop, the I-DEA - the negative commitment you gave it to you, "you cannot face your fears surprisingly" - your INTEGRITY starts happening; the negativity starts dropping from you, you start experiencing the space of Positivity. Because, first you need to remove the reasons - why you give negative commitments to you; only then you will STOP GIVING negative commitments to you!

How many of you cognize - every negative word you utter to you is a negative commitment given to you? Yes.

Second. How many of you cognize - it is the fear of facing the failures "surprisingly” - is the reason you give negative commitments to you continuously? Raise your hands.

Listen, next - drop. Next, how many of you cognize - even this idea, "you cannot face your failures surprisingly” itself - is a one more negative commitment you gave it to you?

[Many in the audience raise their hands].

That’s All! Now you know the solution! Drop the DEEP-ER layer negative commitments you gave it to you! Drop them fast; complete with yourself and, drop it.

14:40

pehli baat yeh hai ki - asaphalta nahi aayegi; asaphalta jab aayegi, uska saamna karne ke liye aap saaksham hai, asaphalta ki baare mein kalpana karna chod deejiye!

asaphalta ke baare mein kalpana karna CHOD DEEJIYE!

15:04

As I said - I am not teaching you, I am not inspiring you, I am not impressing you - I am just requesting you! Because I know, if a positivity can be brought into ONE MIND, what it can DO to the WHOLE WORLD! So MUCH can be done!

One river, Ganga! One river, Ganga - can give life to one-tenth of the Human population! Do you know? One-tenth of the human population on the Planet Earth lives in the lap of Ganga! It is a FACT, based on the statistics of the BBC 'Ganga' documentary. BBC has done a documentary on Ganga. They are giving a FACT. One-tenth of the world population lives in the lap of Ganga. See, the river itself takes only - a few kilometer width and maybe, few thousand kilometer length, BUT - it can give life to ONE-TENTH of Humanity! I tell you - if you take the land Ganga takes from the beginning to end, it will not be one-thou one-millionth of the Planet Earth’s size! But it gives shelter to ONE-TENTH of the Humanity!

Same way, I tell you, even if ONE PERSON starts living Positivity, he is no more 'ONE PERSON'; he can be a shelter for Positivity for - ONE-TENTH of the Humanity!

17:06

suniye! dhyaan se suniye.

jab aap apne yeh nakaaratmak soch - "jab achaanak koi viphalta mere saamney prastut hogi toh, mein uska saamna nahin kar paaoonga" - jab aap yeh soch ko tyaag denge, keval tab hi aap poorna tarah se sampoorti ke sthithi mein sthaapit ho sakte hai!

yadi sakaaraatmakta ek man mein ham laa sakte hai, poora vishwa parivartit ho sakta hai!

ek nadi Ganga, Bhaarat ki, das pratishat logon ko jeevan deyti hai.

18:01

Just let your one Heart, DECIDE, not to bring negativity as a thinking pattern; not to bring negative commitments as a lifestyle with YOU!. This is the BASIC Life Science; this is the Owner’s Manual for Life! These four principles are Owner’s Manual for Life! Just like you HAVE TO read owner’s manual before you start driving a car, or you may end up in danger or losing the life ITSELF! Same way, you HAVE TO know these four principles to its DEPTH, in Life, before you start living the Life! This is Owner’s Manual for LIFE!

Just understand, how many of you feel - you wasted too much of time by giving self-prophecy, negative self-prophecies; and with this one fear, “I cannot face the failure surprisingly”? Raise your hand.

How much of time and Life is wasted! And because of every fear you carry, everybody around you have to suffer! And believe, this is the LIFESTYLE! If you have a loud voice, that is another one big problem! If you are a loud mouth, over! Every school teacher who suffers with a lack of Integrity and negative commitment to himself transmits that to ALL their students!

Whole Science has to be re-written, with eN-glish! Whole History has to be re-written, with eN-glish! Whole Engineering has to be re-written, with eN-glish! EVERY field has to be re-written, with eN-glish. Whatever may be the equation, A+B-CxDxFxG, end of the equation if you put “x 0 =(equivalent) what?" Zero! Same way, I tell you, if your life has been any amount of negative prophecies and negative commitments to you, just put “x Integrity” from now onwards; it is equivalent to Integrity!

21:10

Understand, people say, ‘No, no, Swamiji! You don’t know the complications I created in my life! A+B-CxA2/C2xB-/ABCDE = what? My life is that complicated! You don’t know!’

No! Whatever it may be, just if you put “x 0”, whole thing is Zero! Same way, whatever negative, lack of Integrity, negative commitments, self-fulfilling prophecies you have created in your mind as past complications, I tell you, just say now “x 0”, “x Integrity” from now onwards! Over! It is just equivalent to Positivity and Integrity. How many of you cognize what I am saying? (People raise their hands). You got it! You got it! Start living! That is it!

Every day, disciples, my meditation on disciples reveals to me deeper and deeper truths. Yesterday I was wondering why people have so much of problem in living Integrity. Because some of my disciples still have the pattern of spontaneous lying to me. They just lie spontaneously to me. It looks so childish. So yesterday whole night I was looking into this and contemplating on it, meditating on it. Why Integrity was so easy for me? Why it is so difficult when I teach this to my disciples? There should be something seriously wrong! There should be a reason. Otherwise, many of my disciples are very sincere people. Many of my sanyasis are so sincere, still if they are not able to practice Integrity, I am responsible. It is no more they; I should be responsible!

When I was contemplating yesterday night, suddenly I woke up and this was the prasada I got. I realized people have given negative commitment to themselves - “If the failure comes suddenly they cannot handle it!” This is the negative commitment which forms the basis for them to continue to think negative things and justify why they should continue to think negative things and give negative commitments. Why they should stop giving negative commitments to themselves is not accepted by them. How many of you cognize the whole satya? Now it is time you live it! This is one of the important thorns removed from many of your consciousness. Many of your consciousness was suffering with this one thorn.

I was so happy when one of my sanyasis sent me an e-mail, ‘Swamiji, now whomever I am blessing, it is all becoming reality! I told somebody “you will have a male child”, she immediately had a next day delivery and had a male child!’ The lady was carrying and he blessed it seems “You will have a male child”, and she had a male child! To somebody he said – he lost a job – he blessed that person, “You will have a job within 7 days!”, and that guy got a job next day!

Like this he listed so many experiences. I was so happy, Oh, God! This very fellow who was waiting to commit suicide continuously - he was suffering with suicidal tendency - now this fellow is blessing and it is happening! Can you imagine the miracle? The power of the four tattvas! I was so happy, oh God! Can you imagine if one person starts living Integrity and Authenticity, how much can happen to him and the whole world?

This Swami who is now going around and blessing everybody and making it into reality, three months before was suffering from suicidal tendency and attempted suicide! And I had to put two security around him every time to take care of him and protect him! Once he is clear and started practicing these four tattvas, suddenly not only he became positive, and he is writing to me from the space of Positivity, “Swamiji, I blessed him!”

I was so happy! Oh, God! No, really! I tell you, you don’t know the amount of joy I felt! I only wanted to tell him, ‘Take care you don’t become egoistic! Of course, when you live with the Master, you are never allowed to become egoistic! You will never become! That is different! Now, other than that not becoming egoistic, there is no other danger. Simply it will expand and expand and expand and become ocean! Ganga starts only like a small stream and it accumulates, accumulates, accumulates and it becomes a river with kilometers of width and finally it becomes ocean itself! Same way only, in you, this is the way Positivity starts, and the space of Positivity starts. And I tell you, once that guy, that Swami has become positive, the work that is happening in his department, Oh, God! I can’t imagine! So much is happening!

If only one person becomes positive, so many people are blessed! You should just know that the space of Positivity is by the blessing of the Master’s Kundalini awakening. Because he awakens the Kundalini, this is becoming a reality. So, all the glory goes to him. If you rest in that space, you will accumulate more and more positivity and, finally, become the ocean itself!

Hindi – Min 29:01.0 to 30:32.5

When you write history, the purpose for which you are writing the history is very important. Based on the purpose only you will give importance to some incidents, you will not give importance to some incidents. The history is the history of the historian who is writing! When you write the history, the purpose for which you write decides how the history is going to be written. No history is a factual history. How many of you cognize, no history is a factual history?

So, every history is the history of the historian himself. How many of you cognize this? So catch it! Don’t believe any history! Don’t believe any history!

If at all you ask me which history is closest to the truth, it is the Puranas, because the authors of the Puranas don’t have any vested interest other than enlightening you. Do not believe the western historians. Do not believe Max Mueller. Do not believe the fellows who wrote Indian History. Do not believe the fellows who wrote the Indian History, because it is his purpose which made him to write the history, and vested interests they decide which incidents should be given importance, which should not be given importance.

Why you Indians read so much about Holocaust in the history? You don’t read about the Kashmiri Pandits, millions of them being massacred in your history! Why you read about so many Jews being killed and all the audacity of Hitler, and other atrocities committed by everybody in the world history in your history book, but why you don’t read of the millions of Hindus killed during the Bangladesh War in your history? Why you don’t read about the 40-miles-long refugees who came running into India when Pakistan separation was done? Why you don’t read all this in your history?

I have millions of questions! Why there is no Hindu Holocaust Museum in Washington, DC, displaying all the tortures, sufferings we went through just because we are Hindus, just because of our faith? Being the most soft, non-violent faith and spiritual tradition, the amount of persecution, the amount of persecution we went through, why it is neither recorded nor displayed anywhere?

I personally visited the Holocaust Museum in Washington, DC. When I came out, I was in tears! I am not the guy who will cry. In my whole life, I would have had tears in my eyes, may be, I can count in my fingers; one hand is enough. Not more than five times! Of course, I would have had tears of bliss and joy and devotion in my eyes millions of times; that is different. But the tears of sadness, not even five times, put together, my whole life; in these 35 years, I have not had the tears of sadness even five times! This was one time!

min 35 to End

Not more than 5 times! Of course I would have had tears of bliss and joy and devotion in my eyes millions of times, that is different. But the tears of sadness, not even 5 times put together my whole life my whole life, in these 35 years, I have not had the tears of sadness even five times! This was one time when I saw the Holocaust Museum! They were so visibly presenting it, so strongly they are able to present it, the sufferings and tortures they went through!

Why? Why the sufferings of the Kashmiri Pandits, why the sufferings of the Bangladeshi Hindus, why the sufferings of the Pakistani Hindus, why the sufferings of the Ceylon Hindus is not displayed, told, made as part of history?

Historians write the history. History is not factual record. It is the vested interest of the individual that decides the flow of the history. I tell you, bring Integrity to your inner space, you will understand the lies with which you are being cheated. You will understand the scientific superstitions, the historic lies, lies made as history, superstitions made as science, millions of lies on which you built your personality, thousands of lies that are taught in your school, in your universities, in your colleges, lies! Ninety-nine percent of your education is lies! The remaining one percent is outdated truth, outdated facts which are not directly useful to your lives!

Hindi – Min 37:31.8 to 37:58.4

Let there be spiritual evolution. Let every individual read the history with this spiritual clarity. In our Vidyalayas, listen! In all our schools, we should give statutory warning just like how in the cigarette packet statutory warning is a legal requirement – “Smoking may be injurious to health” – in all our schools, in all our history books which our kids read, there should be a printing on the first page – “All these are not true! Selected by a few people who have vested interests!” The same way, in all the science books, there should be a print, and our teachers should teach the kids that “These are all superstitions which are accepted for a long time and became science. These are all the information which are made as history by the vested interests which are trying to manipulate you!”

Much of your history - what much! - 99% as I said, 99% of your History, Science, Mathematics, everything is a lie! The remaining 1% is outdated fact! Listen! This is an important truth you need to know!

Before the invention of Zero, whatever mathematics was being practiced it was completely proved as wrong by the invention of Zero. How many of you cognize what I am saying? Same way, I tell you, till we have not invented Infinity in a cognizable way, once our brain evolves to cognize Infinity, overnight all the Mathematics we practice will be proved as a lie. If you are able to catch it, catch it. That day Zero was invented, the whole Mathematics which was being practiced pre- Zero, is proved as false. All the theorems, theories, everything is just theatrics, not true. Theorems are proved as dramas, theories are proved as theatrics.

Same way, very soon, the brains which practice Integrity, Authenticity, Responsibility and Enriching, my Gurukul kids, are very soon going to cognize Infinity and going to make Infinity as a utility just like Zero. The day my Gurukul kids will do that - listen my Gurukul kids are going to do this, because their brain is beautifully getting awakened with Integrity, Authenticity, Responsibility and Enriching – my Gurukul kids will become geniuses! They will cognize the power of Infinity and make Infinity as one of the important component of everyday Mathematics, just like Zero! When Infinity becomes part of everyday Mathematics just like Zero, my Gurukul kids will prove to the world that all the theories, theorems which we are now practicing, the whole Mathematics is wrong, outdated! You need certain brain to cognize Zero. Our Rishis had, that is why they were able to cognize Zero. Same way, you need certain brain to cognize Infinity. Fortunately, I am creating those brains. They will cognize it and make you cognize it! They will cognize it and make the world cognize it! They will cognize it and make the world cognize it!

Hindi – Min 43:34.2 to 44:02.9

For outdating the History, my Gurukul kids are not required; I am enough! Outdating the Science and the whole Mathematics is going to be done by my Gurukul kids, because they are going to cognize the Infinity in practical application. They are going to cognize the methods of applying Infinity just like Zero in our everyday life. Then all the theorems, all the theories on which you built so many things, will simply be proved as false. I tell you, to cognize Infinity as a usable part of your life just like Zero, your brain needs to conquer time and space. Your brain needs to cognize itself independent of the influence of the time and space. Ramanujam, the genius Ramanujam, who was a great devotee of Lakshmi, he cognized Infinity. Unfortunately, he was all alone. That is why, still they are not able to cognize what he cognized. But with my Gurukul kids, I am building a huge number of brains, set of brains to cognize Infinity.

Hindi – Min 46:15.7 to 46:50.3

Listen! Establish yourself on Integrity. You will see your being suddenly cognizes new life, new reality. The Maya will be outdated. Suddenly, all the pillars based on which the Maya is installed is outdated.

Hindi – Min 47:26.8 to 48:23.0

The brain which is established in Integrity and Authenticity can read any book and understand the truths from that book, and truths from that book. It can just, how a Paramahamsa can separate water from the milk, same way, the brain established in Integrity can separate truth from untruth. The brain established in Integrity and Authenticity is Paramahamsa.

Hindi – Min 49:06.8 to 49:52.4

Establish yourself in Integrity and Authenticity. With that fresh eyes, look at everything of your life; your business plans, the profession you are in, your relationships, your decision about your future, your decision about your age. Listen! You decide how long you want to live in Planet Earth; you decide what way you want your reality to be!

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