April 08 2012

Title:

Get Out of Corporate Compassion

Description:

In today’s morning satsang, Paramahamsa Nithyananda gives advice for parents and children. Children take birth with natural curiosity, infused with a deep interest in exploring their surroundings. When we as parents support this inclination, giving only basic necessary protection, children develop self-confidence and assume responsibility for their actions. As they mature, they may want to take some risks in their lives. Parents should allow them to do so. It strengthens their independence, supporting the expansion of their experience. This is true parenting: giving our children freedom to use their intelligence.

Tags:

Paramahamsa Nithyananda, advice, parents, children, birth, natural, interest, explore, protection, self-confidence, responsibility, nature, risk, live, independence, expansion, experience, freedom, intelligence.

Transcript:

Q: How do we build the consideration of social return into every conversation and every decision at every level in the organization? - Judie Smith, Paris

Swamiji: Judie Smith – look inside. What is social return? It is nothing but looking at the life with a larger picture. Understand, see if you build your house,you call it as selfishness. If you build the road, you call it as social return. But you don’t understand without the road, house is useless. So what is social return? Nothing but looking at life beyond 120 degrees. See 120 degree is the normal vision. If you look at the life 240 degree or 360 degree, that is social return. Nothing else. So don’t think social return is some great compassionate, sacrificing, serving, great selfless attitude. No. Relax. First thing, understand, thinking with the consideration of social return is intelligent way of thinking. It is intelligence - which makes you consider social return. It is not morality. It is not religious quality. It is not ethics. Nothing. It is just intelligence. Learn to look at every contribution of your life with the whole picture. For example, if you are a manager in a company, try to understand the whole responsibility of the company towards humanity. What this company is supposed to contribute to the humanity. Have the whole picture and fit yourself with it comfortably. Have this same attitude in every decision. Then, naturally whole company will have this same attitude towards the society, that’s it. Understand, consideration of social return is not some sacrifice, service or ethics. Why don’t you understand? It is just intelligence. Many times, you think consideration of social return is something like you do a big service, favour. No. Maybe you can use that word to market yourself. I call it corporate compassion. New word I am creating. What is the corporate compassion, you know? You shave his head, take his hair, sell that and don’t even give him little oil for the head and you say 'I shaved you, because only then dandruff will go from you! It's a treatment for dandruff.' And that poor fellow believes it. That is what I call corporate compassion. Please understand, consideration of social return – the very word shows you are also from the pattern of corporate compassion. No. Compassion should be very raw, pure, innocent. I tell you - raw, pure, innocent compassion is intelligence. When your compassion expresses in its pure, raw form innocently, it is tremendous intelligence.

What do you mean by saying the word, consideration of social return? No. The word seems to be like a big sacrifice. I tell you - looking at the larger picture and working, considering the social return is an intelligence decision, it is not compassion decision. Judie Smith, the whole organization needs to understand social consideration is intelligence decision. Please understand decision of your intelligence and not the decision of your heart. Because you think it is decision related to heart, you still have oscillation - No, no, should I do it? how much I should do it? How many rupees I should do it? how many lakhs I should spend? No. social consideration is the decision from intelligence, not decision from heart. The whole - how this whole. Each company is a whole which is supposed to fit into the hole of the whole. The whole has many holes. In each hole, each company as a whole should fit in. How as a whole you are going to fit with the whole. A boss is expected to feel how he should be knowing the whole purpose of the organization and the responsibility of the organization. Same way if the whole team understands the purpose of the organization and responsibility of the organization, that itself is enough. It is enough. Nothing else is required. Understand, the enthusiasm, energy and experience of larger vision, larger responsibility itself is enough to make you do the decisions based on consideration of social return. You don’t need to infuse compassion. Because, intelligence itself will make you do every conversation, every decision at every level with the consideration of social return. You don’t need to do anything separate.

Next question.

Q: Swamiji, I have started Ajapa Japa of Guru mantra. Should I continue to do the japa during satsang time also? – Indra, Portland

Swamiji: Indra, first thing - if you are not sleeping in the Satsang time, you can don’t need to do Ajapa japa. Only if you are feeling sleepy, getting distracted, not able to absorb the silence I am radiating in the morning Satsang. Everyday my morning satsangs are Upanishads – sitting with the master. Listen to the gaps I give between the words more attentively than the words I utter. Through the words I utter, I make your inner space silent; through the gaps I am giving, I make your inner space awakened. Through the words I make you silent, through my silence I make you awakened! Please understand- my silence awakens you, words silences you. My words are meant to create silence in your inner space. My presence is meant to awaken your inner space. So please understand- Satsang time is the time you absorb the presence intensely, beautifully. So try just sitting. Nothing else. Don’t do Ajapa Japa. Only if you are not able to sit, you are agitated for some reason, feeling sleepy, tired, then use ajapa japa as a technique to make you sit awake. I will not recommend ajapa japa during the satsang. During the satsang, sit imbibing this timeless space, allowing the Upanishad to happen, allowing these great spiritual experiences to go in.

Understand, remember this one truth for today. I speak to bring silence to you, I am silent between the words to awaken you! My silence awakens you. My words silences you. Remember this one truth. Put more energy and more attention to catch the gaps between my words. Catching the silence between the words - let that be your 1st priority. Let that become your 1st priority. Then, naturally words also will go inside. That is okay. But let the catching the silence become your 1st priority. So, during the morning satsang, no need for ajapa japa. In the 108 unclutching definitions, I have given a clear definition: when your consciousness repeats itself continuously without interruption, the ajapa japa of your consciousness is unclutching!

In the morning satsang, let that unclutching, the Upanishad happen. In the day time, in the other time, when you are in your regular activities, those moments, use for ajapa japa. Let you then always be in ajapa japa. Let the morning satsang time be just imbibing the eternal silence in you.

Q: My parents disapprove of my career choice. How can I do what I want but also keep a happy relationship with them? Is it even possible? - Siddarth, Bangalore.

Swamiji: Siddharth, if you want my honest answer, the parents need to understand kids should take the risks in their life. Parents are expected to be a safety net when the kids take the risk, not the stopping nuts. A real father or mother should not be continuously a stopping nut - 'don’t do', 'don’t do', 'don’t do', 'don’t do'. This song of don’t do, don’t do. Come on, if you are a parent, if you feel you child is taking a risk, your son or daughter is doing something on their own in their career choice or anything related to their life’s decisions – many time about job, marriage, love affair, so many things. Don’t constantly sing this song of don’t do. I tell you, when you are not letting your child to take some risks in their career, you are completely destroying the self confidence and understanding and responsibility of that child. Your son or daughter, their way of responding is always taking responsibility. See when a child grows, it'll try to taste everything. Anything it sees.

I remember very clearly, when I was growing up. It is a village house where I was born and brought up. They will paint that village lime. I still remember, I'll apply that lime as vibhooti in the morning and put little in the mouth and taste. It will be very tasty. Child tries to taste everything. That is the way it starts growing. You give a toy- it will put in the mouth. That is the way it knows how to feel it. Same way when you grow up, you try to experiment with things. When the parents start singing the 'don’t do' song, the possibilities of the children is completely destroyed. One thing I neither heard in my life, nor ready to listen in my life is 'don’t do'. I neither heard from my parents, nor ready to listen. This 'don’t do' - parents need to understand, you need to give a space for your kids to experiment, to play with life. If you really have concern, be a safety net, take care even if they fall, they are not damaged, you are there as a support. That is the responsibility of parents. The problem is, nowadays the parents have started behaving like a business - If you do this way, then I am there with you, if not, forget about me and my support. It is more or less blackmailing. For that you don’t need a father or mother. For blackmailing, your boss is enough. Your boss will do that job. Why then the father or mother? Parents are expected to play the role of safety net when the kids take the risks, when the kids try to do something extraordinary, something new which you neither have the guts nor have a brain to try. No, it is true. Many times. Why you are a parent? Because you are old enough, means your blood is cool, your creativity is gone, practically you are interested in just maintaining whatever is there and retiring into the safety net or safe zone. Why are you putting this same thing on your child who is trying to experiment various components of life, various experiments of life? I have created a beautiful bouquet of life, life philosophy for myself.

I tell you - O modern youth, if you want to stop the nervous breakdown happening in you, understand, very intensely the nervous breakdown is happening to modern youth. If you want to avoid the nervous breakdown, which causes 3"D" – depression, drug, death, not only that, many other neurological disorders, even for health reasons, I tell you, give a big 'No' to all these “isms” - capitalism, communism, socialism and all religions, all economic beliefs, all social systems. Just say no to it. Travel for one year to different parts of your country. If you are in India, you don’t need to go around different parts of the world. Different parts of the country is enough. Indian is a miniature of the cosmos. Every 100 km you will have a different thought trend, way of living, dressing style, eating style, different religion. You have such a rich country. If you are from other parts of the world, travel to different countries. If you are from India, travel all over India. Try to say 'No' to the concept of money taught to you by society. Try to drop every concept taught to you by society - security, insecurity, love compassion, whatever, even the ideas about God, Guru, everything. Drop everything taught to you by society. Try to travel. I tell you, you will create a beautiful new life philosophy for yourself. That new life philosophy which you create for yourself will be so strong, so solid. You will discover life.

See, if this light is discovered by somebody, you don’t need to re-work. It is matter, dead matter. If somebody else discovers, you can use it. But, in life you cannot use somebody else’s discovery. You need to discover. Only your discoveries will help in your life. This is such a strong teaching. All these so called parents get shaken. They say 'don’t go to Nithyananda'. Why? - he will make you intelligent, which is too much risk. World cannot handle too many intelligent people. Because, the more fools, you have more clerks, more IT engineers.

All that foolish things you do. I am not asking you to take those risks, that is like trying to live on your adrenaline. No. Lifestyle risks – risks in your thought process, risks in creating the philosophy of your life, risks in rediscovering your life. So understand, youth should rediscover their life by taking various risks and new responsibilities, and parents are expected to support, be a safe net, if not, at least don’t be a hindrance.

Next question.

Q: In my office there is a lot of gossip happening. I don’t want to be a part of it. But, if I don’t participate I feel like I won’t be successful with my boss. What should I do? -Rachel, australia

Swamiji: Rachel, immediately change your job. Even if you are successful with this boss by becoming part of the gossip, you will be a failure in the life. Don’t do this compromising. If you compromise and become part of that gossip group, you may be successful with your boss, but you will be a failure in your life. In your life itself, you will be a failure. Better change the job. This gossip in the work place..

One day the boss was telling the same joke and the whole team was laughing as usual. Only one person did not laugh. Boss asked 'what happened? you did not laugh for my joke?' He said 'no, I found another job'.

That is the exact situation you are in. Understand, if you have to do gossiping or becoming part of a gossip to be successful with your boss, I think your boss is not worthy of you. Understand, make a clear decision. Just because he has some money to pay you, he should not be boss for you. He should have little charisma also to add to your life. He can add only money to your life, he should not be your boss. He should have little charisma also to add to your life along with money. Only then he has the right to be boss for you. All the fellows who can pay salary to you should not be boss for you. Then your life has nothing other than money? No. you have a taste, you have a culture, you have possibilities, you have options, you have your 'yes-es' and you have your 'no-s' in your life. So I tell you, if you are with a boss who can add only money to you, nothing else, I tell you, your life will become cheap, too cheap. Be with a boss who can add charisma to you. Who can add many other dimension to you. Who has something other than money, something more than money to add to you. If you have to become a part of a gossip team to be successful with your boss, I cannot understand. There are some Gurus who just need 2-3 people go on sit and talk whole day. Nothing else is required. They just sit and go on telling some stories. And people have to sit and listen. If you have to become part of the gossip group to be successful with your boss I think you are in wrong place. I have a small clipping from youtube, I will show you - 'how to stop the office gossip'.

<Short video clip is played on screen>

I tell you it is a very powerful technique to stop the office gossip, so I call this as 'gossip Kriya'. Nithya kriya for gossip problems. We will call it as Nithya Kriya for stopping the office gossip!

Spot Notes: Sunday, 8 April 2012

“Sadashiva samarambam, Shankaracharya madhyamam asmadacharya paryantam vande Guru paramparam!”

I welcome you all with my love and respects! I welcome all the devotees, disciples, Samajis, Satsangis sitting with around the world at this moment in 638 places through eNtv, 28 places 2 way Nayana Deeksha, in 170 cities, 22 countries!

Today I formally inaugurate the Madhurai Aadinam new center! New center which is created in Madhurai. Let it grow into a huge Nithyananda Dhyanapeetam J

Cities sitting with us in 2 way Nayana Deeksha - San Jose Madhurai, Singapore Singapuram, Malaysia Palani, Phoenix Kanchipuram, Seattle Chidambaram, Los Angeles Arunachala, Toronto Kailasam, Ohio Prayag, Atlanta Ujjayini, Abu Halifa Kuwait, Rewa, Oman Siva Gangai, Austin, Klang Malaysia, Oklahoma Somanatham, Newzealand Adi Arunachalam - They have received our Nithyanandeshwara Nithyanandeshwari deities. Blessings to Newzealand. Now they will radiate their own energy and build a huge temple there. Arizona, Vancouver puri, Charlotte Srisailam, Houston, St Louis, Guadeloupe Rameshwaram, Paris Kalighat, Hyderabad City Center.

I will give Hyderabad a spiritual name. We will rename Hyderabad as Bhagyanagara. From now onwards Hyderabad will have a spiritual name – Hyderabad Bhagyanagara.

Today Newgen webinar at 7 pm Indian Standard time. As I announced earlier black T shirt and black jeans is uniform for newgen. All the youngsters who are going to be part of newgen get ready with black jeans, black t shirt and tiger skin belt.

Nobody can dress like Muktananda and Paramaatmika. Mukta dresses much better than me J

I also have another good news for all of you. 108 Nithya Kriyas for curing different disorder are already uploaded in the website free. Powerful, very powerful precise Kriyas for many disorders like like diabetes, obesity and many other disorders. All the 108 Kriyas are already uploaded in the website. I also blessed all these Kriyas. They will not only work as Yogic pranayama process, they will work as my personal agents and heal people! I infuse energy into this whole kriya, they will work as my personal agents. Thanks to Ma Arpana and her team Singapore which took up this project. See the 2012 Nithyananda project team have taken up this work and they have successfully completed. And I also wanted to tell you guys all the people who get healed by doing any of these Kriyas for any problem, all the punya, all the merit will go to this team. They will get all this punya. See for continuously I don’t know how many millions of people will get healed for ages thousands are going to get cured through this Kriya for ages because this is going to be on our website freely available forever. For ages thousands are going to get cured through this Kriyas. All the punya this is like a punya bank. It is going to continuously automatically come. You don’t need to do anything. You just do once and like regular punya income J blessings to the whole team. The whole team will receive the punya. All the punya will go to you guys. I am very happy. It is the first project the 2012 team has completed. I am so happy about this whole team and the project they have completed. Blessings to the whole team! Great! Whoever worked intensely they will have more punya. Based on whatever they contributed that much amount of punya will automatically go to them. So it is a automatic system. It will automatically go to them. My blessings to the whole team, whole group. I am very happy that all the 108 Kriyas are very beautifully uploaded. Only thing I wanted the page to be added with more photographs and more visuals. Otherwise anybody can now directly start using. It is already there. I wanted the page background to be a beautiful background. Now it is more black and white. Like Government schools …like how the village medicines will be packed. It is like that. There should be little better packaging, better designing. That’s all need to be done. Anyhow it is available for people to practice. That itself is a great thing. Blessings!

Blessings to Slovakia. Slovakia has completed 21 days peace meditation today in their head quarters in the town called Poprad. Let the whole Slovakia have peace and bliss. Blessings to the whole Slovakia! eNtv is now on twitter with a new name twitter.com/Nithyananda TV! J

On April 14th I am renaming eNtv as Nithyananda TV and we are also working in an expanded way and expanded scopes of Nithyananda TV. Blessings!

Now I am able to see Studio city California. I welcome Studio city California. Blessings! Ma Dhyanatma’s birthday today. Blessings ma! With all the auspicious things you will be with me, I will be with you. Blessings!

Let us start today’s Satsang. Start the questions.

1) How do we build the consideration of social return into every conversation and every decision at every level in the organization? - Judie Smith, Paris

{Corporate Concept}

Judie Smith – look inside. What is social return? It is nothing but looking at life with larger picture. See if you build your house it is called as selfishness if you build the road it is called as social return. But you don’t understand without road house is useless. So what is social return? Nothing but looking at life beyond 120 degrees. See 120 degree is the normal vision. If you look at the life 240 degree or 360 degree that is social return. Nothing else. So don’t think social return is some great compassionate sacrificing, serving, great selfless attitude. No relax. First understand, thinking with the consideration of social return is intelligent way of thinking. It is intelligence which makes you consider social return. It is not morality, it is not religious quality, it is not ethics. Nothing. It is just intelligence. Learn to look at every contribution of your life with the whole picture. For example, if you are a manager of your company, try to understand the whole responsibility of the company towards humanity. What this company has to contribute to the humanity. Have the whole picture and fit yourself into it comfortably. Have this attitude in every decision. Then naturally whole company will have this same attitude towards the society, that’s it. Understand consideration of social return is not some sacrifice, service or ethics. Why don’t you understand? It is just intelligence. Many times you think consideration of social return is you do something like a big servicer, favour. No. Maybe you can use that word to market yourself. I call it corporate compasison. New word I am creating. What is the corporate compassion you know? You shave his head, take his hair, sell that and don’t even give him little oil for his head and say I shave d you because only then the dandruff will go! The treatment for dandruff. And that poor fellow believes it. That is what I call as corporate compassion. Please understand, consideration of social return – the very word shows you are also from the pattern of corporate compassion. No. Compassion should be very raw, pure, innocent. I tell you raw pure innocent compassion is intelligence. When your compassion expresses in it pure raw form innocently it is tremendous intelligence. Consideration of social return the word seems to be like a big sacrifice. I tell you looking at the larger picture and working, considering the social return is a intelligence decision, it is not compassion decision. Judie Smith, your whole organization needs to understand social consideration is intelligence decision. Please understand decision of your intelligence and not of your heart. Because you think it is decision of your heart, you still have oscillation you think how much should I do, how many lakhs I should spend. No. social consideration is the decision from intelligence, not decision from heart. The whole - how this whole. Each company is a whole which is supposed to fit into the hole of the whole. The whole has many holes. In each hole, each company as a whole should fit in. How as a whole you are going to fit with the whole. A boss is expected to feel how he should be knowing the whole purpose of the organization and the responsibility of the organization. Same way if the whole team understands the purpose of the organization and responsibility of the organization that itself is enough. Nothing else is required. The enthusiasm, energy and experience of larger vision, larger responsibility itself is enough to make you do the decisions based on consideration of social return. You don’t need to infuse compassion. Because especially when corporate companies show compassion, I tell you it is so ugly. It takes away even the basic respect of people who receive the help. I have seen the corporate compassion many times the basic dignity of the recipient is lost in their bull dozing compassion. Many time in the name of service and compassion, it is more like a marketing gimmicks. I tell you understand your responsibility with larger perspective. That’s it. Intelligence itself will make you do every conversation, every decision at every level with the consideration of social return. You don’t need to do anything separate.

Next question.

2) Swamiji, I have started Ajapa Japa of Guru mantra. Should I continue to do the japa during satsang time also? – Indra, Portland

Indra first thing if you are not sleeping during Satsang time, you can don’t need to do Ajapa japa. Only if you are feeling sleepy, getting distracted, not able to absorb the silence I am radiating in the morning Satsang. Please understand, my morning satsangs are not to give you some knowledge or ideas or thoughts. No. Every day my morning satsangs are Upanishads – sitting with the master. Listen to the gaps I give between the words more attentively than the words I utter. Through the words I utter, I make your inner space silent, through the gaps I am giving, I make your inner space awakened. Through the words I make you silent, through my silence I make you awakened! Please understand my silence awakens you, words silences you. My words are meant to create silence in your inner space. My presence is meant to awaken your inner space. So please understand Satsang time is the time you absorb the presence beautifully, intensely. So try just sitting. Nothing else. Don’t do Ajapa Japa. Only if you are agitated, not able to sit, feeling sleepy, you are tired, then use ajapa japa as a technique to make you sit awake. That’s all. Otherwise I will not recommend ajapa japa during satsang. During satsang sit imbibing this timeless space, allowing the Upanishad to happen, allowing this great spiritual experiences to go in.

Understand, remember this one truth for today. I speak to bring silence to you, I am silent between the words to awaken you! My silence awakens you. My words silences you. Remember this one truth. Put more energy and more attention to catch the silence, gap between the words. Catching the silence between the words let that be your 1st priority. Let that become your 1st priority. Naturally words also will go inside. That is okay. But let catching the silence become your 1st priority. So during the morn satsang, no need for ajapa japa. In the 108 unclutching definitions I have given a clear definition when your consciousness repeats itself continuously without interruption the ajapa japa of your consciousness is unclutching! In the morning satsang, let that unclutching the Upanishad happen. In the day time, in the other time when you are in your regular activities, those moments use for ajapa japa. Let you then always be in ajapa japa. So let the morn sat time be just imbibing the eternal silence in you.

3) My parents disapprove of my career choice. How can I do what I want but also keep a happy relationship with them? Is it even possible? - Siddarth, Bangalore.

Siddharth, if you want my honest answer the parents need to understand kids should take the risks in their life. Parents are expected to be a safety net when the kids take the risk not the stopping nuts. A real father or mother should not be continuously a stopping nut - don’t do, don’t do, don’t do. This song of don’t do, don’t do. Come on, if you are a parent, if you feel you child is taking a risk your son or daughter is doing something on their own in t heir career choice or anything related to their life’s decision – many time about job, marriage, love affair, so many things. Don’t constantly sing this song of don’t do. I tell you when you are not letting your child to take some risks in their career, you are completely destroying the self confidence and understanding and responsibility of that child. Your son or daughter their way of responding is always taking responsibility. See when a child grows, it will try to taste everything. Anything it sees.

{Biography concept}

I remember very clearly when I grew up. It is a village house where I was born and brought up. They will paint that village lime. I still remember I will apply that lime as vibhooti in the morning and put little in the mouth and taste it. It will be very tasty J It used to be very tasty! Child tries to taste everything. That is the way it starts growing. You give a toy it will put in the mouth. That is the way it knows how to feel it. Same way when you grow up you experiment with things. When parents do the don’t do song, the possibilities of the children is completely destroyed. One thing I neither heard nor ready to listen in my life is this one thing - don’t do from my parents . I neither heard nor ready to listen. This don’t do parents need to understand you need to give a space for your kids to experiment, to play with life. If you really have concern, be a safety net, take care even if they fall they are not damaged, you are there as a support. That is the responsibility of parents. The problem is now a days parents have started behaving like a business. If you do this way I will support you, if not forget about me and my support. It is more or less blackmailing. For that you don’t need a father or mother. For blackmailing boss is enough. Your boss will do that job. Why then father or mother? Parents are expected to play the role of safety net when the kids take the risk, when the kids try to do something extraordinary something new which you neither have the guts nor have the brain to try. No it is true. Many time. Why you are a parent? Because you are old enough because your blood is cool, your creativity is gone, practically you are interested in retaining whatever is there and retiring into the safety net or safe zone. Why are you putting this same thing on your child who is trying to experiment various components of life? Various experiments of life? Actually recently I stopped speaking about this Parivraajaka. Because the parents are not able to tolerate. Tonight in the webinar I am going to talk. All youth rebel against society. Just one year go around. Learn to say no to everything of society - the society’s idea of money, capitalism, communism whatever society taught, forced into your throat, just say no to everything. Go around for a year seeing various life styles, people, patterns, in this one year you will pick up the best things from many traditions, many thought process. Just have a beautiful flower bouquet of life philosophy prepared by yourself from thousands of gardens. I tell you I prepared a beautiful garland for myself from thousands of gardens. That is why nothing can touch me. I have 200 channels inside me enriching and entertaining me. So much of richness inside. I have created a beautiful bouquet of life philosophy of life.

I tell you oh modern youth, if you want to stop the nervous break down happening in you, if you want to avoid it, which causes 3D – depression, drug, death not only that many other neurological disorders, even for health reasons give a big no to all these “isms” - capitalism, socialism, communism and all religions, all economic beliefs, all social systems. Just say no to it. Travel for one year to different parts of your country. If you are in India you don’t need to go to different parts of the world. Different parts of the country is enough. Indian is a miniature of the cosmos. Every 100 km you will have a different thought trend, way of living, dressing style, eating style, different religion. You are such a rich country. If you are from other parts of the world, travel to different countires. If you are from India, travel to other parts of India. Try to say no to the concept of money taught by society. Try to drop every concept taught to you by society - security, insecurity, love compassion, whatever even the ideas of God, Guru, everything. Drop everything taught to you by society. Try to travel. I tell you you will create a beautiful new life philosophy for yourself. That new life philosophy which you create for yourself will be so strong, so solid. You will discover life. Religion is only for people who discovered it for themselves. Life also is for people who discovered it for themselves.

Only with science you don’t need to rediscover everything. See if this light is discovered by somebody you don’t need to re work. It is matter, just dead matter. If somebody else discovers you can use it. But in life you cannot use somebody else’s discovery. You need to discover. Only your discoveries will help you in your life. This is such a strong teaching. All these so called parents get shaken. They say don’t go to Nithyananda why he will make you intelligent. This is too much. World cannot handle intelligent people. Because the more fools, more clerks, more IT engineers, only then you will have gates where all bill is coming - Bill gates J

I really wanted the next generation to take as many risks as possible especially when you design your career. When you say risk I am not saying jump from 3rd floor. In name of bungee jumping, monkey jumping.t hat is like trying to live on your Adrenaline. No. I am speaking about life risks – risk of your thought process, risks of creating and rediscovering your life. So understand youth should rediscover their life by taking various risks and new responsibilities. Parents are expected to support, be a safe net if not at least don’t be a hindrance.

Next question.

4) In my office there is a lot of gossip happening I don’t want to be a part of it but if I don’t participate I feel like I won’t be successful with my boss. What should I do?

- Rachel, australia

Rachel, immediately change your job. Even if you are successful with this boss by becoming part of the gossip you will be a failure in the life. Don’t do this compromising. If you compromise and become part of that gossip group, you may be successful with your boss but you will be failure in your life. In your life itself you will be a failure. Better change the job. This gossip in the work place God! I tell you.

One day the boss was telling the same joke and the whole team was laughing as usual. Only one person did not laugh. Boss asked what happened you did not laugh for my joke? He said no, I found another job J

No that is what is, that is the exact situation you are in. Understand if you have to do gossiping or becoming part of a gossip to be successful with your boss, I think your boss is not worthy of you. Understand, make a clear decision. Just because he has some money to pay you, he should not be a boss for you. You should have little charisma also to add to your life. He can add only money to your life, he should not be your boss. He should have charisma also to add to your life along with money. Only then he has the right to be boss for you. All the fellows who can pay salary to you should not be boss for you. Then your life has nothing other than money. No. you have a taste, you have a culture, you have a possibilities, you have options, you have your yes-es and you have your no-s in your life. So I tell you if you have a boss who can add only money to your life, nothing else, I tell you your life will become cheap, too cheap. Be with a boss who can add charisma to you. Who can add many other dimension to you. Who has something other than money, something more than money to add to you. If you have to become a part of a gossip team to be successful with your boss, I cannot understand. There are some Gurus who just need 2-3 people to sit and go on talk whole day. Nothing else is required. They just sit and go on telling some stories. And people have to sit and listen. If you have to become part of the gossip group to be successful with your boss I think you are in wrong place. I have a small clipping from youtube, I will show you how to stop the office gossip. A very beautiful technique to stop the office gossip is there, please see the clip

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I tell you it is a very powerful technique to stop the gossip, it is called the gossip Kriya. Nithya kriya for gossip problems. Only requirement for this kriya is you need a strong person to practice this kriya J we will call it as Nithya Kriya for stopping the office gossip. You go to practice your kriya J

Today I will stop this and we will go to next segment Dial the Avatar and from the next Sunday I will start the Kriyas again. As I am little busy with the 2012 project, I am yet to develop further kriyas. But by next week Saturday, Sunday I will be giving you the Kriyas.

Next segment of the morning Satsang – Dial the Avatar.

Tell them to watch my discourses they will find solution for any problem they have. Every person ….and this 20 minutes Maha mantra that is the best thing to do. Blessings to the whole St.Louis sangha. Soon you will have sangha happening beautifully and growing.

Today we will have a long day with the 2012 Nithyananda project team please be here. We will continue to have long sessions today. In the evening I welcome all the devotees and disciples and everybody for the new gen webinar today 7 pm IST be here with black dress only if you are young between 18 to 42. I upgraded from 40 to 42 just for Mokshapiryan. He requested J

Alright I will keep the lid as Mokshapriyan’s age. So every year it will keep getting added. God Muktananda is sending a message then I will never be in. if you keep him as …expecting you guys to be here in black dress as Aghoris. Today I will give all of you guys the aghori initiation. I bless you all who are

I bless you all who are sitting with us at this moment around the world in 902 places through eNtv, in 28 places through 2 way Video conferencing, in 225 cities, countries! Let you all achieve, experience, live, express, radiate and share and explode the eternal bliss, Nithyananda. Thank you!

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Be SAFETY NET, not STOPPING NUT when Kids take risks! (8 Apr 2012 Nithyananda Peetam, Bengaluru)

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Advice to Parents - Be the Safety Net when your Kids take risks, not the Stopping Nut

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Upanishad - Sitting with the Master (8 Apr 2012 Nithyananda Peetam, Bengaluru)

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Upanishad - Sitting with the Master, where the Masters Words make you Silent, His Silence awakens you.

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Considering Social Return Is Simple Intelligence - Not Morality, Not Religious Quality, Not Ethics

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Satsang Delivered on 8 April 2012 in Adi Kailasa Bidadi Adheenam.

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