May 17 2014

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In today’s morning Satsang from Varanasi, Paramahamsa Nithyananda expanded on Living Advaitha. He told us; your life is your mirror and if you allow anything to make you powerless you will see only that in the mirror. He redefined completion as “ the conscious decision to finish- a pattern and never let it overpower you consciously again. He ended by encouraging us to go on causing others’ reality.

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Varanasi, Paramahamsa Nithyananda, Living Advaitha, your life is your mirror, powerlessness, completion, causing others reality

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Nithyanandeshwara Samaarambhaam

Nithyanandeshwari Madhyamaam |

Asmath Aachaarya Paryanthaam

Vandhey Guru Paramparaam ||

I welcome all the devotees, disciples, samajis, satsanghis, Shrimahants, Mahants, Kotharis, Thanedars, sitting with us all over the world at this time through Nithyananda TV, Sadhna TV, two-way video-conferencing having Nayana Deeksha all over the world.

Cities sitting with us in two-way video-conferencing: New York-Varanasi, Jorpati-Nepal, High Point-North Carolina, Hong Kong-Sirkazhi, Guadeloupe-Rameshwaram, San Diego-Tirualavai, Gyaneshwor-Nepal, Scottsdale-Arizona, Hyderabad-Gupta Kashi, Ohio-Shivananda, Nithyananda Nagar-Tiruvannamalai, Nithyananda Nagara-Bidadi, Nithyananda Nagaramu-Hyderabad, Nithyananda University-Los Angeles, Nithyananda University-Paris, Singapore-Singapuram, Toronto-Kailasam, San Jose-Madurai, Charlotte-Srisailam, Penang-Tirupparamkundram, UCLA-California, St. Louis-Tirumala, Seattle-Chidambaram, Klang-Malaysia, Tiruvanmiyur-Chennai, Peethadeshwari's Training Centre-Salem, Dubai-Vaidyanatham, Winston-Salem-North Carolina, Brampton-Canada, Halifax-Canada, Vishweshwarananda-New York, London-Kashi...........

I welcome all of you with my love and respects. Today I will expand on Living Advaitha. The Inner Awakening participants are going through, for the last two days, an intense process of initiation into Living Advaitha, understand? Of course, today we are going to continue. I have seen, whenever I initiate people into this Living Advaitha process, even after spending continuous twelve hours into the process, they are fresh, alive, energetic! How many of you, when you went back yesterday you were not tired after spending twelve hours in the process?

Do you know, you cannot sit more than ten minutes in front of one channel which is spending crores to get your attention? Within ten minutes....DAMAAL! Your remote control....tatak! Over! After spending twelve hours in the process.....fresh, alive! I tell you, that is the power of Advaitha!

I wanted you to know the deeper principles about Advaitha. Life starts when you decide to cause others reality. Because, the real you, please listen, the real you is everyone around you, you included. But what you cognize as you is your deep-rooted pain patterns and incompletions. How much ever you try to decorate, perfume, scent, garland, you are trying to do all this to the pain you of you, the incompletion you of you. But the more you are going to remember about the incompletion you of you, and identify you as the incompletion you of you, and cognize the incompletion you of you, what are you doing? You are trying to perfume the drainage! Trying to perfume the sewage tank! So, the first shift is required, first action is required, not in your doing, but in your cognition. See, that is why I tell you, one important truth....

Please understand, these few important truths, catch it, so that I will bring you to the conclusion. First truth: What you remember as you, the pain part of you only you remember as you. You cognize yourself only your incompletions as you. But, the actual you is, all the people around you put together. Third, because what you cognize as you is only the deep-rooted pain patterns and incompletions of you, how much ever you try to perfume it, scent it, even put Kashi chandan on it and garland it, do whatever, the moment you open, what comes out? Ughh! You put a silk cloth.

See, we saw in the Manikarnika Ghat how they brought those dead bodies with those shining clothes and amazing garlands. If you don't open and see, you may even suspect they are bringing some temple deity. Am I right? You see from the distance and you don't know it is a dead body. You may think it is a temple deity the way they put those shining clothes all around. And the garland, perfume, scent! That is exactly what you are doing! What you perceive as you, you going on trying to do make-up to that. That will never bring Completion and powerfulness with you. Shift your energy to what is YOU. Shift your energy to what is YOU.

Listen! The real you is all the people with whom your life is involved, all the lives who are involved with you, all these put together is you. When you shift, when the cognitive shift happens, all of them are you, you are them. Suddenly, your joy, your pain, your life, your goal, your purpose, your right, your wrong, your dharma, your adharma, everything gets rewritten. That rewriting is what I call "Rewriting your Future!" You rewrite your future full of powerfulness. Understand one thing, some parts of what you call as your life, you may be resisting. Some parts of what you call as your life, you may be accepting. But, be very clear, whether you resist or accept, no powerlessness! Don't allow powerlessness! No question of powerlessness!

Always being powerful is my religion, understand. Love, compassion, all that will start happening in you from the right context. Love, compassion, non-violence, by itself cannot become a religion. Love, compassion, non-violence, from the right context only can become a religion. I have seen people who escape from life try to show compassion and non-violence just because they feel powerless to face the conflicts. They feel completely powerless to face the conflicts. Please listen! When you feel powerless to face the conflicts, life again and again brings that same mirror and shows to you. Understand, which part of your face you don't like or are attached too much to, you will see only that part in the mirror again and again. How many of you understand what I am saying? Which part of you, either you are too attached to or don't like, you will see only that part again and again when you look at the mirror. So, anything which you don't like, resist, makes you powerless. Same way, anything to which you are attached, again makes you powerless because of the innate fears attachment brings. If you are attached to some parts of you, you will be afraid that the size, shape, colour, dimension may change in course of aging, or accident, or through some reason.

So, whatever you are attached to or you don't like, you will see your eyes will be only always on that part when you look at the mirror. Your life is a mirror. Please understand, your life is a mirror. If you allow anything to make you powerless, if you allow anything to make you powerless, that will be constantly shown to you as a mirror. If you feel powerless to handle your spouse and family and run away to some other lifestyle sometimes divorce, sometimes Sannyas whatever lifestyle you opt for or choose by feeling powerless, I guarantee you, you will see ten people exactly like your spouse, and you will be forced to work with those people. You will see, if you run away from your employer, from your boss, twenty-five bosses exactly like them, and you will be forced to work under them and report to all of them.

Understand, it is not the mirror's mistake that you are all the time seeing the nose which you don't like; it is YOUR mistake, you have given too much attention to it. When somebody else sees their face in the mirror, they don't see the nose all the time. Because you don't like your nose, you see as if your whole face is just appendix of your nose; you won't feel like your face has nose, you will feel like your nose has face! Because you don't like something, resist something, all the time you are on it. Same way, if you like something and are afraid of losing it, all the time you will be there on it. Sometimes people like the fact that they are fair. In India, this fair complexion is unfair complexion! The most unfair complexion with which still India is suffering is this fair complexion. This foolish, stupid idea came down from the British that "white" is associated with intelligence, beauty! HAHAHAHAHA! Poor fellows! No, really I am telling you! How many hundreds of thousands of marriages are either not made or break just because of this fair idea you know? The root pattern with which the whole of India is suffering is this fair skin! Marriages are made or not made, lost or broken, just by this one skin....skin colour!

When you are too attached to your skin colour, the moment you see the mirror, you will only be on your skin colour, because you are afraid of losing it. Do you know one thing? In the whole world, India is the largest market for this stupid fairness cream! Only in India all this stupidity Get fair in four weeks all this stupidity is sold. I can make you fair in four minutes: Just apply ash, that's all! HAHAHAHAHA! All over your body! Why four weeks! Take ash and apply it on your whole body and you are fair, that's all! No, this stupid colour complexion!

See, at least in the West people are clear that if you are white you are white, if you are black you are black. But only in India this black tries to become white! No other country suffers with this stupidity. I am not saying in other countries the discrimination is not there. White is white, black is black, there is a lot of discrimination, fight, all that is there. But only in India you will find this unique stupidity, the peak of stupidity, the black trying to become white! Not just one day, two days, but throughout life! Throughout life! One of my devotees, she is in the cine field, a make-up artiste and all that. I still remember, some of my ashramites, for me to appear in some satsangh and TV shows, they approached her saying, Can you make Swamiji a little more fair? Do some jaadhoo, do some magic and make Swamiji a little fair! In front of the camera he looks a little dark. She laughed and said, Swamiji's skin is the best skin colour I have seen! When I heard this conversation, I started laughing!

I tell you, the Completion and powerfulness that you carry about what you are makes you graceful. I tell you, that sets the fashion trend! Fashion trend is not walking on the ramp; it is walking with grace! I am telling you, anything to which either you are too attached or too resistant will always be seen by you in the mirror. Same way, in your life, anything to which you are too attached or too resistant will always be reminded by your life. But I have good news for you: The too attached, too resisting, can be completed. And I have best news for you: It can be done today! It is not that difficult, I tell you. It is not that difficult. All you need to do is, the logic which convinces you about your powerlessness, the inevitability of your powerlessness, you need to.....

See, when you build the logic which strongly makes you believe the inevitability of your powerlessness Anyhow, any one day I will have to lose the colour of my skin., or, One day I will have to lose my health., One day all my wealth will have to be lost., I think I am not qualified to have all my wealth. One day it will be taken away., I think I am not qualified to have my freedom. One day it will be taken away., I think this person is too good for my life. So, he cannot be part of my life. when you have this kind of strong belief of your inevitable powerlessness....

See, you build the logic which makes you believe your powerlessness is inevitable. That is where the crime starts, understand. Just poke holes in those arguments that your powerlessness is inevitable; I tell you, you are free! Now you will be liberated! Liberation is nothing but poking holes in the arguments that your powerlessness is inevitable. Listen! The Cosmic Court is fairer than the country's court. Even in the country's court, without doubt, somebody has to prove you have committed the crime. Even if there is sufficient doubt, the benefit of doubt has to be given to you; you cannot be punished. Same way, in the Cosmic Court, even if you poke holes in the logic you built the inevitability of your powerlessness..... Please understand, the logic which makes you believe your powerlessness is inevitable is "Maya", delusion. "Yama ithi Maya". Which is not there, but which goes on making you feel powerless is "Maya". Your strong belief, cognition about the inevitability of your powerlessness, if you know just to poke holes in that argument, that is all, it will just collapse, because your inner-space does not that easily believe, accept you are powerless.

See, by your nature you remember your powerfulness. That is why constantly in your inner-space you feel you are going to live forever. Even though some of the religions teach you that you have only one life, when you take decisions your basic cognition is as if you are going to exist forever. I tell you, your basic cognition is right! You ARE going to exist forever! Like your food and pharmaceutical industries have collaborated, you are served by the food industry which does not care about your health, your health is attended by the health industry which doesn't care about your food, or both of them have a very cunning strategy collaboration. May be it is unholy nexus between the health industry and food industry. How the unholy nexus between the health industry and the food industry costs your whole life, please understand, your whole life, same way, the unholy nexus of your powerlessness and your resistance, when you resist, it makes you powerless, when you become powerless you resist more.

The unholy nexus of powerlessness and resistance, if you resist something in your life, it makes you powerless just by remembrance! How Arunachala can put you in powerfulness just by remembrance "Smaranaath Arunachalam!" By remembrance you are put in powerfulness! There are some things in life, because of your resistance, just by remembrance it puts you in powerlessness. Because it puts you in powerlessness, you resist more. When you resist more, it puts you in more powerlessness. There are some things, just by remembrance liberates you! There are some things, just by remembrance puts you in bondage! The good news is, the process you are going through, through this you can clearly identify what puts you in powerlessness just by remembrance. Your "Maya", what makes you powerless just by remembrance, even if it is not there, your "Maya", you will diagnose it just by going through this process. Second, the great news: You can complete it today! Understand, Completion is decision to get rid of this pattern and not to entertain it again consciously. That is all is Completion, understand? Your conscious decision to get rid of this pattern, complete with it, and not to entertain it consciously again. And, you don't even need to worry about it if it repeats unconsciously, because, your life is made up of consciousness from the moment you are initiated. From the moment you start intranalyzing, your life is made up of consciousness.

I am redefining, I am defining and redefining and refining the definition of Completion: Completion is your decision to get rid of that pattern and never to let that overpower you consciously. For example, the tiredness pattern. You take the decision, I am completing with it and dropping. And you take the decision, Consciously, I am not going to allow it to overpower me. After two days, without remembering the decision you took, if you feel tired and fall asleep, don't worry. Then you wake up. Maximum only once or twice that pattern can play this kind of game. The moment consciousness is brought in as a player, no one else can be a hero on the stage. the space from which you operate, if that is powerfulness, anything thrown at you, you know how to use it! Suddenly your enemy will feel so powerless, because anything you throw at him, he is using it!

I tell you, I wanted to tell you very clearly with Integrity, it is not my part, it is the simple decision I made that I will always be powerful, no powerlessness inside. This is the very important secret. Just catch it! Whatever may come, I will not allow powerlessness inside! I will not allow powerlessness inside me! When you don't allow powerlessness inside you, anything that happens from outside, even if it is earthquake, it only awakens your Kundalini! Understand, whether it is emotional quake or earthquake, it only awakens your Kundalini! Not for any pride or arrogance, I can tell you with the simple clear objective way, neutral way, with Integrity I can tell you, there is no other Hindu Guru who has gone through so much of scrutiny, public scrutiny and defamation than me!

The amount of public scrutiny I went through, and the defamation I went through, the lies loaded on me, and the way I survived, if you think I am a miracle, the secret of miracle is this, catch it: NEVER ALLOW POWERLESSNESS INSIDE YOU! That's all!

If you want to know the secret of me, I am revealing to you and giving you as a gift take it Don't allow powerlessness inside you! I tell you, from the context of powerfulness, everything you do will be with so much of love and compassion. In yesterday's session I was sharing with the participants of Inner Awakening. The true compassion, when you identify it, the first thing that happens to you is, you will be so empowered, you will feel so sure about you. When you decide to cause others' reality, only then you will understand what you are. Till then, what you think as you is only the deep pain patterns and incompletions of you. It may look very paradoxical. Life is as it is.

Just because your ignorant logic can not catch it. Your ingnorant logic tries to capture the life always as a straight line. But the truth of life is paradoxical, what you call as paradoxical, the first paradox. When you try to cause others reality, you will even realize what you are. You will understand the different spare-parts and organs of you, their functions, their qualities, capabilities, abilities, much better when you decide to cause others reality. I tell you, during the period of study, means, the first eighteen years....

In those days, the first twenty-one years was the study period. Now, I can say, average eighteen years....or twenty-one years. The first twenty-one years of your study period, in Vedic tradition we call it brahmacharya. I tell you, this abusive, anti-Hindu media, they are propagating that I am forcing the kids to be in the state of brahmacharya like a regimental training in the first twenty-one years. These fools don't understand that even to have a better married life, that first twenty-one years of brahmacharya is most essential! I am not making them Sannyasis. Krama Brahmacharya the first twenty-one years, not being abused, or physically losing yourself with the very temperamental, temporary emotional ups and downs and powerlessness. In the West, they call it "puppy love". Puppy love or dummy love, whatever! See, psychologically not prepared to take the responsibility, emotionally not ready to handle the relationships, but using or misusing your own and the other person's body will lead to a very strong pain pattern related to sex which will destroy your married life. That is why our rishis, till the person psychologically grows, emotionally matures, wanted the body not to be used or misused. That is why this first twenty-one years of brahmacharya with vows of not touching the other person and all that. Listen! How much ever we try to put it under the carpet, not talk about it, let us be very honest.

Listen! How many of you are still suffering with the patterns of use and misuse and abuse of your body before the age of twenty-one? Raise your hand! Who is responsible for all this? The paid media! The bloody propaganda against the Hindu Gurukul system! Arrey! I am not giving Sannyas! I have not given Sannyas to all my gurukul kids! But that brahmacharya as per the Vedic tradition will be useful whether they take Sannyas or get married. Till they emotionally become mature to make decisions, psychologically capable of handling the other person's intentions, consciously becoming capable of handling love, lust, sex, good, bad, the baggages which come with it, and the expectation which comes with it, the responsibilities which come with it, the commitment which comes with it, till you are clear about all that, not using or misusing or abusing your body and the other body is one of the greatest socially good practices our Vedic rishis have created. It is good for the society.

The unholy nexus of psychologists and media, like we have food industry and pharmaceutical industry, the psychologists and media unholy nexus, constantly the movies showing that puppy love is something to be explored and celebrated, is stupidity. I don't want to get into it too much now. But I wanted to tell you, all the powerlessness related to your body, your love.... See, a person who gets wounded psychologically before the age of twenty-one due to the immature patterns of considering infatuation as love, loses the ability to love forever! Forever your love will be corrupted! You don't understand that paradox. The first twenty-one years of brahmacharya makes you a great wife and great husband. Your ability to give and receive love becomes amazing. Your ability to be mature, grow....

Some of the paradoxical things, what you call as paradoxical, is the truth of life. Like, brahmacharya trains you to be a great husband. The anti-Hindu media is not ready to believe that, because their concept is: Expertise comes by experience. Our concept is: Perfection comes by knowledge, the proper knowledge and preservation. If we can make all the parents understand that all the patterns, powerlessness you suffer in the field of love, relationships, trust, all the powerlessness you suffer in the field of love, relationships, powerlessness, comes because your body is used or misused or abused before twenty-one, means, before you become emotionally ready to handle life. When you use your own body or others' body, it becomes such strong pattern, you suffer with it for your whole life. If you are a father or mother, understand this: Be responsible towards your kids. Let them take Krama Brahmacharya at least till twenty-one years of age. What a stupidity in this country: Even to drive and vote we have age limit! Why can't we make the age limit for handling relationships? Is it more cheaper than driving and voting?

Understand, your relationships are cheaper than driving! I am not telling, your Government is telling! How come we have age limit for driving and voting, but not for handling relationships? And how come we have a licence process, the exams you need to pass through for driving, but you don't need to be educated at all for handling relationships? Because, still we are under the stupid British concepts of love, life.

Please understand, we lost the concepts of love, life, lust, relationships, sex, everything from the Vedic tradition three-hundred years before. Thousand years before, the civilization which invaded us was teaching that killing somebody's husband and marrying that girl as the fourteenth wife is called love! This is what, O Bharat, you are celebrating as symbol of Love! Please wake up for god's sake! Get back to, wake up to the truths of life! Bramacharya for the first twenty-one years may look very suppressive, inhuman, the way the anti-Hindu me dia projects....inhuman! Then what about the whole life these poor fellows are suffering with those patterns created before twenty-one years, and the wounds created, because of the wounds the inability, they become handicapped, the ability to love is lost, the ability to trust is lost. What about all the suffering caused because of that? Who is responsible for that?

As the living representative of the Vedic tradition, I wanted to very strongly remind all of you, the whole humanity, please get back to the original brahmacharya, grihastha, vanaprastha, sannyasa, ashrama dharma promoted by our great rishis. The ashrama dharma But I know and I am confident the depression, the stark reality of depression of matchbox-house apartment system, the small-small families, the great gift of western lifestyle to Indian modern-day cities, the small families, and the apartment system, and not knowing what is going on in the next apartment and who is staying in the next apartment, all in the name of privacy. Indians have started feeling and seeing the stark reality of depression it causes. Soon, they will have to get back to the original lifestyle of varnashrama. I really wanted to establish communities where this varnashrama dharma becomes user-friendly version, the user-friendly version of varnashrama dharma is kept alive, the possibility for graduating different varnas, ashramas, to the next, next, next levels. A deep, intelligent insight into your life, into the paradox of pattern, powerfulness, powerlessness, what you resist persists, life should neither be resisted nor accepted.

Understand, acceptance makes you lazy, resistances makes you powerless. Neither resisting nor accepting is the strategy for life. Neither resisting nor accepting is the strategy for life. Realizing the reality of life by this one secret, always be powerful, always be powerful! That is the essence of today's satsangh. When you are powerful, you will go on causing others' reality, you will have the ability to speak into others' listening.

The essence of today's satsangh: GO ON CAUSING OTHERS' REALITY.

I bless you all! Let you all radiate with Integrity, Authenticity, Responsibility, Enriching and Causing eternal bliss, Nithyananda! Thank you!

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