September 20 2010

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Love the Ultimate Healing Energy Nithyananda Morning Message 2010SEP20

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The Supreme Pontiff of Hinduism, Jagatguru Mahasannidhanam, His Divine Holiness, Bhagavan Nithyananda Paramashivam, expounded on the Cosmic Principles of Love during a live public talk - Nithyananda Satsang. In this talk entitled Love The Ultimate Healing Energy, The Supreme Pontiff of Hinduism revealed that Love is related to awareness you carry. He explained that two physical structures if they feel connected, their awareness feels connected, it's called infatuation. One or more mental structures if they feel connected, it’s attachment. When Awareness overlaps beyond the physical and mental structures it is called love. His Divine Holiness concluded by revealing the sacred truth that the overlapping of Awareness or flowing of Awareness into each other leads one to radiate Healing Energy.

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(0:18)

|| Sadāshiva samārambhām Shankarācāryā madhyamām | Asmat ācārya paryantām vande Guru Paramparām ||

(0:49)

Today’s subject is ‘Love The Ultimate Healing Energy’. Let Me define ‘Love’. Love is not any way related to two physical structures. Love is not anyway related to even your own physical structure. It is not even related to the mental qualities you carry. It is related to awareness you carry. Please understand.

(1:47)

The awareness you carry naturally spreads its smell in your mental structure and in your body. So, the awareness which your physical structure experiences, if that feels connected, in the uh, to the awareness of some physical structure, it is called infatuation. Please understand. The awareness your physical structure experiences, if that feels connected, to some other awareness of a physical structure or some other physical structure’s awareness.

(2:35)

There are so many things moving around in the world. Each one of your unit - awareness - the awareness experienced by your mental structure and the awareness experienced by your physical structure. If the two physical structure’s awareness - two or more - physical structure’s awarenesses feels connected; it is called infatuation. If two or more mental structures feels connected, it can be called as attachment - little better word. If one or more awarenessess - of course it’s funny, you can’t say, awareness cannot have one or more - directly just overlaps each other, you can’t even call that as overlap, just flows into each other; it’s called love. Understand?

(3:45)

They are there. They feel shy, so they came and did their job and went away. They try to come inside My bathroom; same guys. So one day I said, Eh don’t come here, then they come to My window, bedroom window and sit every day morning. Every day morning after I get up, they don’t know, they know the timing exactly; even Prana doesn’t keep the clock alarm; they come. They come, every morning they are there. I think they almost follow My routine.

(5:01)

Two physical structures, if they feel connected, if their awareness feels connected, it's called infatuation. One or more mental structures, if they feel connected it’s attachment. When awareness overlaps beyond the physical and mental structures it is called love. Now, scan all your relationships with this understanding. Suddenly you will see all the problems related to your love, relationship, friendliness, possessiveness, worry; everything will just disappear. Your marriage will become honeymoon. It’ll become beautiful ‘Living Relationship’. Understand?

(6:16)

One of our Brahmachari wrote a poem when I was put in prison. ‘This is the same thing we do forever. When They are alive, we throw them, we throw stones at Them, put Them in prison. When They are no more in the body, we make golden statues and put Them in the temple.’ Same thing we do with life. When the relationship is alive, living; we are in fear, ‘I don’t know when it’ll disappear, when she may disappear, when I may lose love’. We kill it, put it in a frame, call it as marriage and put it in reception, in the reception room. The smile which is shown in the family photograph never ever happens again when the same physical nearness. Even at that moment may be the photographer would have shouted ‘Smile Please’. With lot of uneasiness that smile was brought, because we do not understand love.

(7:38)

That greatness of sexuality is, it’ll disappear. Understand? The greatness of sexual energy is, it’ll disappear the moment the physical and mental structures feels connected and the awareness overlaps. All these magazines go on giving inspiration, tips; these middle age magazines; ‘how to keep your sex life alive’; ten tips, twenty tips, thirty tips. Nothing will work. Because two thing; either the distance becomes too much - means the awareness in the physical structure and the awareness in the physical structure is not feeling connected; the distance is more or awareness in the mental structure and awareness in the mental structure is not feeling connected; the distance is more. This is what happens to ninety percent of the marriage.

(8:47)

There are ten percent of the marriage, really the awareness and awareness overlaps each other. Such beautiful communion happens - even there the sex disappears. Eleven years of the life, the married life, only the sex should be there. Whether the overlapping of the awareness happens, then just you will see, you don’t need to confirm with each other, that you love each other, through the sexual act. Suddenly the necessity does not happen. Simply sitting together is something extraordinary.

(9:25)

That’s why the Vedic tradition, in the marriage ceremony there is a ashirvachanam; means the blessing word; ‘by the 11th year let you both, let both of you become mother and the son, father and daughter’. In both ways, if the distance becomes more or distance completely disappears, both ways the sex disappears. Just, either sex is like a liquid, fluid, either it freezes, cold like ice or it evaporates like a steam. If it evaporates as steam, your Consciousness is levitated and your whole system evolves into Enlightenment. If it becomes cold, frozen, ice, you are caught in the ice box. You are also frozen.

(10:40)

Understand this definition of love. Thousands of your problems not only related to relationship; I can say there are thousands of relationships which are perversions of, thousands of problems which are, perversions of relationship problems. When the relationship is not fulfilling, suddenly anything she does or he does irritates you. So this is what I call, ‘perversions’ of relationship problems.

(11:32)

If you know the real love, even intellectually, you will start radiating healing energy. Healing does not mean, just you will put your hand on somebody, who is someway sick and that person will come out of that leg pain, stomach pain or headache or cancer. Put your hand on your own head, heal all the headaches you have and you give to others. This is the healing stick I am giving to all of you; understanding about love.

(12:14)

Fill this understanding in all your relationships. Sit and scan - ‘What is my relationship with my Father? How is it? What is my relationship with my Mother? How is it? What is my relationship with my Spouse? How is it? What is my relationship with my Brother? How is it? What is my relationship with my friends? How is it? What is my relationship with the world? How is it?’ I have seen, people wasting years just with their relationship with the dog. It is not love, it is not love; foolish infatuation, very third grade perverted infatuation. I tell you having a pet deity, Ishta Devatha is thousand times better than having a pet dog. But these idiots without understanding, having pet dog has become a fashion, having pet deity is something like a old, outdated.

(13:24)

They are back. See I want all of you to know, you see, they are not really trying to build a nest because they have their nest here and for nest they use different material. This is just for the, just to drop like a archana they are bringing and dropping and going and they have their storage here. They don’t stay here, they stay here, but they have their storage there.

(14:20)

Don’t waste your time with pets. They are not My pets. Understand. They are My disciples. I know exactly My awareness and their awareness so, that is why the relationship is Eternal. Even if you keep a, keep two birds in a cage and tell them, teach them this hundred days, they will not do it perfectly every day. It’ll be only possessiveness and attachment or infatuation. Here you see, free relationship - awareness overlapping. So let your marriage become like this. Let all your relationships become like this, based on the overlapping of awareness or flowing of awareness into each other; not old, frozen. You can see when you sit next to each other at least five feet around you is frozen.

(15:40)

Understand this definition of love, you will radiate healing energy. This is the ultimate healing energy. I bless you all, to radiate love - the ultimate healing energy. Radiate Enlightenment, achieve and radiate the Eternal Bliss, Nithyananda. Thank you.

(16:15)