May 14 2015 - 2

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3-Step Technique to Heal & Complete Your Relationships

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In this video (14 May 2015), Paramahamsa Nithyananda reveals a 3-step technique to heal and complete all our relationships: the completion process.

Transcription

Listen completing with others, others means not just only your father ,mother,Husband ,wife, brother sister,the human beings around you. We will start the completion with everything with which you are living. Your wealth, your health ,your bag ,your sit, your pets, your car. Your house, please understand all this are living part of your life. They may be dead objects, but they are living part of your life.

See house maybe a dead object, but it is a living part of your life. How many of you understand what I'm saying? It's a very important component of your life.

First we will start completion with all the human beings with whom we are living.

First Step completion with everything ,sorry with every human being .

First thing you need to do is deciding I have to bring completion with others with whoever I'm leaving. I have to bring completion with whoever I'm leaving. Even if they don't want I will stretch my best and I will decide I am in the space of completion whenever they want. I'm open to have. I am open. I am going to be in the space of completion whenever they are also ready. It will become completely complete. Understand completion with others does not mean you are going to apologize to them. No.

Apologising is not completion. Asking sorry is not. So many people are saying I want to apologize. I'm sorry.No, I am sorry is not completion. I am deciding to drop Hurting pattern in my life or any incompletion misunderstanding anything. I am deciding to drop and I am deciding not to bring them not to give life to it again. See past. You can't see you are wrong or you're right. No, one can say you are wrong you are right.

It is not apologizing. It is not feeling sorry for the past. No. Deciding I'm dropping this incompletion hangover of the past and I will not allow this to happen once more .

Completion is actually responsibility. Not apologizing. See apologizing or feeling sorry comes out of powerlessness. But completion comes out of responsibility.

Understand the difference, please listen see the difference. Now when I am saying you need to complete with your mother, with your father ,with your brother, with others. I'm not asking you to apologize. I'm not asking you to call them and say oh, sorry. Oh, sorry. Oh, sorry, buzz buzz no. No. Feeling sorry comes from powerlessness that is not completion. When you call you explain this is what has been perceived by me here. I'm not interested in looking into you are wrong or I am wrong that will only create more and more and anger hatred and suppress violence.

I'm only saying One thing I'm ready to drop the past and it's powerlessness. In completion, I am declaring. I'm dropping the past and I am complete. I don't have incompletion.

And I will not create any incompletion anymore. Your decision and declaration when it reaches them. You will suddenly see they also open up and start coming towards completion.

But first you need to be prepared.The first step Preparation for you Sit with any one person in the hall first invoke your mother in the person and complete.

Then go to another participant and invoke the father in the person and complete don't invoke everybody in one person. No one one person and with whoever you need to complete here complete. Then without the person sit with the mirror and invoke the person in the mirror, invoke your mother in the mirror talk loudly not silent completion. No talking loudly as you are talking to your mother. And compete Invoke your father talk loudly as you are talking to your father and complete listen first step with the participants. You will sit and do completion second step with the mirror. You will sit and talk and do the completion Third only you are going to call them and start talking to them.

How many of you understand. First do the first step and second step. If they are dead by invoking in the mirror, if you do completion, that's enough. And if there is a legal problem calling them they may record and create a problem. You don't need to call them if you know that they are still alive and if you have the ability to reach out to them, you should reach out.

First you don't even go to that step. Let us first do these two completion. Then you'll have a lot of questions. I'll answer them. I'll help you to do this to completion first that will take away the anger and Vengeance and misunderstanding some suppressions. You have let that come out first let you be healed.

All that spicy chili anger Vengeance. Everything will come out through the words. You will be ready to complete. If you directly now call them. You will only become more fight and come back with more messed up an incompletion how many of you understand that

That is why I am not going to let you call them now you will start reasoning with them you are wrong you are wrong you are wrong end of the call more incompletion. First Even if your relative are the person whom you have to complete is in the hall, you will not talk to them directly. You will only sit with person's other participants and then you will only sit with the mirror then I will have one more session.

Answering your questions and i'll also be doing a shivoham process to heal your past. That part of the brain which records strong emotions. I will heal that part with the Awakening of the Kundalini. Then your tongue will have the sweetness honey, then you should call on honey. Otherwise, honey .honey itself will be so frightening.it wont be like a honey but like a honey bee.

Completion is not feeling sorry feeling powerless. For example, you're going to call your mother sit with her explain from the beginning what all incompletions you developed the with her make her understand very clearly. You are responsible for it and You are dropping it. You are not saying sorry, you are not becoming powerless about it. You are saying yes, I am responsible. I don't want to get into who is right who is wrong, even if you are wrong, I am only responsible. I am dropping the past. And now I want to start the new space with completion. Understand I'm dropping the past in completion.

I'm starting the new space with completion. See when you call before you call them. I'll give you instruction simple introduction. You tell them I'm going through a meditation program where I am supposed to complete with myself and all the relatives. So I am calling you just add two three lines. You are important person part of my life. So only when we are complete I can be complete now. I am calling you. This this this has happened.

Now I'm realizing who is right and who is wrong is not the thing. I am responsible. So I am deciding to take the responsibility and bring completion. Understand the other person should not feel you are weak. Other person should only feel you are taking responsibility for it. No what I'm saying, even if that person has done something wrong. He is the reason for the incompletion, but I am going to be responsible for the completion.

So I'm not bothered about You may be the reason or not. But I am going to take the responsibility for completion. I am not responsible for the abusal I went through but I am responsible for the completion which I'm going to bring now, even if the other person is wrong, we will take the responsibility for completion.that person understands or accept are not it is secondary .it is you come to the completion space.