November 27 2018

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Chastity is Not About Body, it is about Your Core Cognition

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|| nithyānandeśvara paramashiva samārambhām nithyānandeśvari parāshakti madhyamām | asmat ācārya paryantām vande guru paramparām ||

I welcome you all with My love and respects. I welcome all the Devotees, Disciples, Samajis, Satsangis, Shri Mahants, Mahants, Thanedar, Kotharis, Visitors, Viewers, sitting with us all over the world through Nithyananda TV and 2-way Video Conferencing having Nayana Deeksha. I welcome all of you with My love and respects.

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Subject for today’s webinar: “Experience the highest Chastity - method to have fulfilling relationships.” Listen. Chastity is nothing to do with body. It is something to do with your core cognition. To whoever you declare your chastity, nobody else should be able to enter into the core cognition of you. That is chastity. Understand. Chastity is always absolute or obsolete. There is no 99.9999% chastity. No! In your core cognition, in your being, if you declare chastity to Paramashiva, your Guru or anyone in your life, that space no one else can enter or shake, alter, dilute - that is chastity. Understand. It has nothing to do with ordinary body. In any relationship - son, daughter, father, mother, spouse, in any relationship - what you declare to them and to you - it should be same. Be very clear, it has to be same. What you declare to them and to you, if your core cognition stands with that... that is chastity.

I tell you, I commit with all My disciples, I’ll be continuously available to you. Whatever decisions I take, end of the day, it is just for that - making Myself available as much as possible, in every possible way to enrich My disciples and follower’s life. Listen carefully. Life is like climbing the Mount Kailash. More and more and more and more and more you climb, more successful you will be going near Paramashiva, Mahadeva. One slip does not mean you have to have a free fall and be destroyed. No! Even if you slip, hold on to something. Get back. Constantly moving to the higher and higher and higher to manifest Paramashiva, to reach Paramashivatva, to experience Paramashiva, to reach Paramashiva, to reach the ultimate goal of life - Enlightenment. Understand, even if you slip, it’s not that you lost your chastity. But if you decide not to align back you lost your chastity. As long as you are clear you have to align back and march, you are chaste. In any relationship, this is the same principle. There is nothing separate. Chastity to Paramashiva and chastity to your spouse- it’s one and the same. Chastity to your daughter, chastity to your son, chastity to your father, chastity to your mother, chastity to your Guru, chastity to God - all one and the same. It is simple declared, to them and to you.

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Then comes the next question - “Sometimes my chastity declarations to multiple people criss-crosses and creates conflicts. What should I do?” Be very clear. I am telling you the Cosmic opinion, Cosmic legal opinion, Cosmic truth. If you don’t have conflict, there cannot be conflict externally. There cannot be! Many time people come and tell, “Oh, Swamiji I want to come to your program. I want to be very highly integrated to you. My wife is not allowing, my husband is not allowing…..” Actually, I don’t tell them anything directly because they will feel hurt. They are waiting to get hurt. They will feel hurt. These fools use Me to blackmail the husband or wife and use husband or wife to blackmail Me; that’s all. To Me they say, “Oh, they are pressuring but I am coming. See how dedicated I am. Give me special, special attention.” To them, they’ll say, “If you don’t take care of me, I am going to Swamiji. Take care of me.”

I tell you, the whole conflict between your chastity is nothing but conflict within you - about what you want in your life. When you are not sure about your steps, you don’t have confidence about what you need to do, you use the cheap, silly emotions, to justify and generate conflict between your interest and call that as conflict in your chastity. No! Conflict in chastity is called prostitution. There cannot be conflict in chastity. If you say there is conflict, it is prostitution. Your declared relationships kept straight forward, powerful, will never have conflict between each other. Your wife and husband, if they know you have become so chaste after going to Swamiji, never they will deny you going to Swamiji. If you don’t show the real results of powerful cognitions in your life, then they think what is the use of you going, all the time doing this program and that program, applying this aushadha, that aushadha, having jata and full makeup, asana bhusana, all that - what is the use?!

Understand the truth. Dakshinamurthy is from the face...from the MahaSadāshiva’s, Paramashiva’s face of Aghora, destruction, rejuvenation; from that face Dakshinamurthy comes out. Meaning, all the great truths are ferocious. It’ll just purify you. It’ll just burn all your non-chastity, cheating silly patterns and conversations with your life. It looks very paradoxical. Embodiment of peace – Dakshinamurthy - silence comes out of the face of Paramashiva’s Aghora, which is supposed to be perceived intense violence, ferociousness. Teacher is the ultimate rejuvenator. Guru is the ultimate rejuvenator. He removes everything you know as you and He manifests everything is real you. The real you swallowing everything you know as you is Chastity. Allow the chastity to Paramashiva manifest in you. Let real you eat and swallow whatever you know as you. I am not singing poetry. I am not singing poetry. Actually, I am a ferocious poetry. I am a volcanic poet. My poetries are like volcano explosion. It purifies your whole being.

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There cannot be conflict between the chastity and the current’s flows of chastity. If there is a conflict something is seriously wrong with your cognition about the chastity. Any chaste declaration, nothing else can come into that cognition. If you declare your chastity to your husband, to your wife - that romantic chastity, If you declare your chastity to your Guru - the spiritual chastity, If you declare your chastity to the God - ultimate chastity No chastity declaration will criss-cross or create conflict and it should not be allowed to create conflict. It’ll neither create, it should not be allowed to be created. If you feel there is a conflict, then seriously wrong, something is very seriously wrong. In this cognition, we cannot allow the other one to enter. I tell you, people who say, “uhhh, my husband does not allow me. My wife does not allow me.” Be very clear, you are using Me to blackmail them and them to blackmail Me, is the truth. Wake up to the reality! Wake up when Dakshinamurthy teaches, don’t wait for Kalabhairava to come and wake you up. And you need to know, both came out of the same face - Aghora. Maybe Paramashiva always tries to show Dakshinamurthy of His Aghora face and if you don’t listen then only He has to allow Kalabhairava to manifest.

Chastity will never create conflicts. It’ll bring tremendous fulfilment. If there is a conflict outside, look in - something need to be attended inside, something need to be worked out inside. Very recently, somebody who had initiation, send Me the message about one of the very logically looking real conflict, very logically looking real conflict. I said, “Your conflict is crap and please enrol yourself into the Nithyananda Hindu University’s Graduation in Living Enlightenment course and start doing the course.” “What Swamiji, will this course solve my problems?” I said, “Just do it.” It took only 78 hours. I received the message, “Yes Swamiji, the problem got solved.” Something which looks like “real problem” means you really need a strong understanding. Don’t allow this “looks like real problems”. Demand from yourself by yourself to behave as Paramashiva. Declare to yourself that you are Paramashiva and behave with yourself as Paramashiva.

I tell you, chastity has nothing to do with you being celibate or Brahmachari or Sannyasi or one relationship or multiple relationship or womanizer or whatever, whatever. It has nothing to do with any of that. I am not saying, become womanizer. No! I am not saying which is right which is wrong, and all that I am not involved. I am not interested. All I am trying to tell you is, chastity has nothing to do with external action, it is all something to do with internal conflicts. Work on that. Fundamentally, in the Being, be straight that’s all. Be straight in the Being. Be integrated in the Being - over! Body will simply follow you. Life will simply follow you.

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Recently in one of the satsang, I was telling that...to one of My devotee, My Aadheenavasi, I advised that, “Don’t respond to the male agitation.” I tell you, whenever your head is heavy, do not respond to your violence or sex. Whenever your head is heavy, neither involve with romance nor involve with anger nor any explosive decision makings. No! Tantra very clearly says, Paramashiva very clearly says, Men do have their menstrual cycle. If you note down whenever you have a heavy head pushing you to be agitated, note down the date, time and feeling. For 3 months you will see exact 3 days; you will discover your menstrual cycle. It’s for men! So whenever the same 3 days and the same thing comes stop making any decision. Paramashiva very clearly says, “Male body do go through the menstrual cycle.” That 3 days you should not have anger, violent, sexual, greed, fear, actions, reactions, decisions. Just give yourself 3 day vacation and enjoy your life 3 day vacation.

That 3 days fast as much as possible, do purascharana. Purascharana means chanting the Mahavakya along with the sunrise to sunset and moonrise to moon set. During the sunrise sit with sun and chant the Mahavakya, Sunset chant the Mahavakya, Moonrise chant the Mahavakya, Moon setting chant the Mahavakya. That’s called Purascharanam - Chanting along with the Sun’s ups and downs and Moon’s ups and downs. Sun rising is a wrong word - Surya Udaya, means sun appearing. In Hindu tradition, we don’t say Sun rises, because there is no horizon. That’s why we use the word - surya udaya. Surya appears not rises. Surya astamana - surya withdraws, means surya is not seen that’s all. Udaya and astamana means appearance and disappearance, not raising or setting. That’s the wrong translation.

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Listen carefully. Chastity has nothing to do with external action. It has something to do with your declaration of the integrity. Declare today, “You are Paramashiva,” and be chaste to that identity. Demand with yourself to behave like Paramashiva - bold, powerful, courageous. Go on progressing all…..Understand. Let your insecurity be renounced and not allow the insecurity to renounce you something. Don’t allow your insecurity to renounce something! But let your actions renounce insecurity and make insecurity redundant. That is what is being Paramashiva. Understand. This is one of the fundamental quality of Paramashiva. Renounce the actions and reactions which strengthens insecurity. We always live as Tyaga Raja - unprotected, completely unprotected and no insecurity. I am not saying live in insecurity. No! Destroy the actions and reactions of insecurity. Renounce insecurity. Live as pure Paramashiva. I tell you, that is what I call chastity to Paramashiva, Chastity to Paramashiva. Demand yourself to be Paramashiva by yourself. Behave with yourself as Paramashiva. Behave with yourself as Paramashiva. These powerful cognitions you built, is the real asset for life. This is the real asset for your life. I’ll initiate all of you today. Be chaste to Paramashiva. Behave with yourself as Paramashiva. Sit straight. Close your eyes. Hum the Mahavakya intensely. Let Paramashiva manifest in all of us. Let Paramashiva manifest in all of us. Understand. Let the great understanding, the cognition, powerful cognition - “You are Paramashiva, we are Paramashiva” manifest in all of us. Let the Paramashiva’s Being, Super Consciousness manifest in all of us and bring tremendous understanding and powerful cognition. Paramashivoham. Nithyananda Paramashivoham.

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(48:56) Let Paramashiva manifest in all of us in His ultimate state, space, powers and Being and Super Consciousness.

I bless you all, let’s all radiate with Integrity, Authenticity, Responsibility, Enriching, Causing, Living Shuddhadvaita Saivam, Paramashivoham, the Eternal Bliss - Nithyananda.

Thank you. Be Blissful.

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